dahunsi12:
Most yes and I will marry her again and again is just PURE LIES from the lying liers, follow them home and stay with them for a week you will see the opposite of the trash they are saying here.

Many of them still beat their wives ooooooooo

lavylilly:
Ki lo sele abidemi

lavylilly:
Why?

lavylilly:
Hi, yes we can drop your email

lavylilly:
I feel the anger as you type this. Would you like if both if your meet a marriage counselor?

Karlifate:



You're neither bewitched nor love her.


It's sunk cost fallacy that's making you to think she'll change.


It's easier to correct a child, than to change an adult.

You've over-invested either one, a combo or all of your M.E.A.T, while she invested little or nothing.


Sorry bro, she calls the shot.

Xpol:
lol you expect everyone in such situation to come on public forum like this and open their family affairs? Some women wey dey always chop correct beating from their husband go still dey tell their friends outside say my husband is lovely and caring like say na jazz the man dey use for them. Do you expect me to come on nairaland and be say my wife is these and that? Not every cloth we fit dey wash outside(openly).

maasoap:


Your mum must have taken your dad's eye to see her. I get it, you can't give what don't have. Not every marriage out there is like the one you are witnessing between your mum and dad.

abidem4real:

Itan to gun ni oo Lavyllily

surequality:
No! I will not.
Why?
I am AS by genotype and She is same.

maasoap:


Nothing to hide, we have seen plenty of Nairalanders creating threads to share their bad experiences concerning what is going on in their marriages.
Even on Facebook, many married people are saying it as it is that they regret marrying their partners not to talk of nairaland which is a faceless forum.

blabulu2000:


Perhaps you think the ancestral disaster that kept on ravaging your lineage is the same happening in other quarters....."Your useless parent didn't train you well that is the reason you have the effrontery to drag my parent into the issue of this generation's marital failure ....it is evident, you are the product of a failed and bad marriage and I wonder what kind of impact someone like a beast like you wants to inculcate into his children...I see nothing but the product of a disastrous family, a disastrous marriage, and training his children for disaster future...

PDJT:


-Be a man, go and find yourself a supportive wife. You only have ONE life to live, and when it's time to exit you will exit alone too.

-I tell young men; if you're an armed-robber it's a total waste of time marrying a woman who doesn't support armed-robbery.

Klass99:


Wunmi this was a straightforward question requiring a yes or no answer. Then if you want to elaborate or expand on your answer with an explanation or reasons, you do so.

This is the problem I have with majority of you married folks. When you are asked valid questions about marriage that can teach others a valuable lesson or help them make an informed decision, you go off on a tangent or lecture about, how, no marriage is perfect, every marriage has its issues, marriage is not for people who cannot tolerate or forgive..........yada, yada, yada.

Can you people not answer questions candidly without the sugar coating, deflection and philosophical answers? Will it kill you people to respond to questions with specific and logical answers? Or share hard truths and realities without dancing round issues pertaining to marriage?

FreeStuffsNG:
Yes o! She's as transparent as pure water!

surequality:
No! I will not.
Why?
I am AS by genotype and She is same.

pongwa:
when someone who is in deep shit but refuses help and instead is poised to drag people down with them, the better approach is acceptance.
The painful thing was that I got several warnings about the union but formed strong Christian.

Emeka71:
OK my E-mail is emi_739@yahoo.co.uk

7arrows:


My guy Sis na long story. But never.

abidem4real:

Itan to gun ni oo Lavyllily

ahnie:

What irked me was the stupid mod that hid my response to him then left his there.
Funny enough he was raised by a single mum and his mum's sisters are either divorcees or their husbands ran away from them,yet he had the effrontery to open his useless mouth to fabricate lies against me,like he knew me personally,the same way this doofuz also came to my other thread trying to love-vendor me to one of his fellow bastard,I kept him kwayet....make lavylilly try nonsense with me again,maybe he dey think say I be new nairaland that he can peddle lies on,I go use ham set example publicly on this forum,imagine this stupid druggie

ahnie:

He's never going to contact you,I have told him you re a male slut .

You want to be stupid abii,maybe you think I m amongst those ladies you n your useless lots intimidate on this forum just to shut them up.

You never know me....I will frustrate you till you hang your balls.

You re categorizing me in the same singlemum league like your useless mother abii,the earlier you steer clear from me on this forum,the better for you.

HIV contractor

Irunmole:
No! I would not had married her. The biggest mistake and most regretful decision of my life. Secretive, insular, vengeful and unforgiving woman. No support of any kind. Never forthcoming with inputs and contributions on decisions on major projects that we needed to take as a couple , critical decisions that would take us and our family forward. Ended up being married but lonely and alone! Nothing but regret and despair.

Untube:


Irunmole calm down🤣

Honestly we are facing similar problem. I'm a married lonely man. Most times I choose to shower for my kids and dress them up just to kill boredom.

Those that God blessed with ambitious, respectful, calm and good wives don't know what God have done for them.

bummyla:
No! I would have asked God a lot of questions concerning her! Nobody has ever hated me like her! Not that I care! But most times it is shocking that you sleep and wake up beside a fellow that hates you so much! That wants to destroy you! She's wants to come back now, but fear and the new found freedom, no go allow me welcome her back.

lavylilly:
May God bless your union (Amen)

lavylilly:
Are you still married?

pappy4real:
I swear to God I wouldn't. She's totally changed and become a burden to my life. She's lost the life and vibrance and the romance in her, she's just pale, clueless and unwilling