How do you know if you're loved for you? Or that your lover is running an offline format on YOU?

In this trending video, a Nigerian lady breaks down the format a lover she met in church used to scam her out of almost a million naira (as he promised her marriage)

What she did next to get her money back was an obvious game changer.

Country people, over to you.


1. Would you fall for a lover using this format?






https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2MRuCnn8VV4

In this life, the people close you often hurt you the most, and are the worst enemies of a person.
Trust no one.

One of life's gravest mistakes is to let somebody know that you trust them completely,without any iota of doubt.It gives them the impetus to take advantage of it.No matter how you trust a person let them know you also reserve some doubts about them.This put them in check-El hombre silencioso.

Onyiiobi7735:
In this life, the people close you often hurt you the most, and are the worst enemies of a person.
Trust no one.

those that will betray you are often those who get closest to you.

but you still need to have people in your life.

Zigzagman:

those that will betray you are often those who get closest to you.
but you still need to have people in your life.

True, but we pray never to have traitors in our lives.

Betrayals have been as old as mankind. I think her problem was that she ignored the signs of coming betrayal.

If you just start a new relationship, be it romantic, friendship or work-based and the other person is already asking for monetary favours, just know that you're being gamed.

If you listen to her story, the demands started 3 weeks into the relationship. That was a critical red flag she ignored.

Love and money do not mix.

If he doesn't have money, what about his father, mother or siblings?

If dem no get moni to help the guy, why e come be your problem?

Zigzagman:
Love and money do not mix.

If he doesn't have money, what about his father, mother or siblings?

If dem no get moni to help the guy, why e come be your problem?

Ziggy, you're shaming the victim.

mods, please move this to crime section

nlfpmod, seun, lalasticlala, this is frontpage gist

@Zigzagman, I already copied it to crime section

mods, frontpage na

Zigzagman:
mods, frontpage na

Message nlfpmod to push to frontpage

She's in love, he's in business

Good, he was caught

If it was a woman scamming the man that happens more than 50% of the time, that will not be an issue. In fact, some people will say it is normal

kingthreat:
If it was a woman scamming the man that happens more than 50% of the time, that will not be an issue. In fact, some people will say it is normal

My brother, that's so true.

Flee from any lady whose importance and essence of living is tied to finance.

No man lives his full life on earth without challenges. If and when such challenge come, a money conscious lady will abandon him to his fate. So why would a man contemplate keeping such lady around? The word I am looking for is stupidity.

Zigzagman:
Flee from any lady whose importance and essence of living is tied to finance.

No man lives his full life on earth without challenges. If and when such challenge come, a money conscious lady will abandon him to his fate. So why would a man contemplate keeping such lady around? The word I am looking for is stupidity.

Apt

nairaland members don't give advice they look for your mistakes and judge you according. If you don't have one, like typographical error they will always manufacture one psychologically to taunts you.

Zigzagman:
nairaland members don't give advice they look for your mistakes and judge you according. If you don't have one, like typographical error they will always manufacture one psychologically to taunts you.

Some Nairalanders actually give great advice

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na so we see am

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just passing by heh?

once you're dating anyone and within a few days of the relationship, they're already asking for money/sex, you're being scammed.

ideamonster:
once you're dating anyone and within a few days of the relationship, they're already asking for money/sex, you're being scammed.

so true

Zigzagman:


so true

dude, where are you?

When in love, half of your brain ceases to function properly.

Ok

Marriage is meant for adults and it's an agreement between the 2 parties involved, I think the adults should be knowledgeable enough to be observant of each other.
The two parties should know their roles and shouldn't fall for gimick of either party, all in name ,"I want to settle down"

Nonsense