It's not only lades that need to be careful, even men also need to be careful of potential marriage partners cos there are gold diggers everywhere

Onyiiobi7735:

True, but we pray never to have traitors in our lives.

What if you are the traitor? Will you kill yourself or you carry on with life

What is the relevancy of this post, such thing has been in existence for long.

Women have been running it on many men since time immemorial na.

Next topic abeg!

Onyiiobi7735:
In this life, the people close you often hurt you the most, and are the worst enemies of a person.
Trust no one.

Whether na people close or people not close, na who loseguard, them dey scammed. So the truth is never to looseguard

Who don fall don fall, forget rules and regulations

ideamonster:
once you're dating anyone and within a few days of the relationship, they're already asking for money/sex, you're being scammed.

You never jam expert in scamming, infact ,he would scam u without asking for sex.

Some would start throwing money at you, to enter and gain her trust, after that, he would come out to milk her dry.

Isnt marriage itself a scam, especially for men?

ideamonster:
once you're dating anyone and within a few days of the relationship, they're already asking for money/sex, you're being scammed.

So the person you love, you don't have sex with 'em??

phemyhalaby:
One of life's gravest mistakes is to let somebody know that you trust them completely,without any iota of doubt.It gives them the impetus to take advantage of it.No matter how you trust a person let them know you also reserve some doubts about them.This put them in check-El hombre silencioso.

Lolz, Let women hear this.

You will hear "you must trust me if you really loves me". Brothers, run o. All na format, those who fight for this are the most dubious ones.

Zigzagman:


those that will betray you are often those who get closest to you.

but you still need to have people in your life.

Thank God you know this..... So when you guys go about attacking the DSS.... Just know the nature of the job with this angle you pointed out been the biggest elephant in the room...

Zigzagman:
nairaland members don't give advice they look for your mistakes and judge you according. If you don't have one, like typographical error they will always manufacture one psychologically to taunts you.

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😂😂😂😂😂No truer words have been spoken

phemyhalaby:
One of life's gravest mistakes is to let somebody know that you trust them completely,without any iota of doubt.It gives them the impetus to take advantage of it.No matter how you trust a person let them know you also reserve some doubts about them.This put them in check-El hombre silencioso.

you sound like a legend

Interesting but you can always tell certain things as a lady even if you aren't 100% sure. Yorubas call it ifunra.

phemyhalaby:
One of life's gravest mistakes is to let somebody know that you trust them completely,without any iota of doubt.It gives them the impetus to take advantage of it.No matter how you trust a person let them know you also reserve some doubts about them.This put them in check-El hombre silencioso.

Apt.

So a man rips a woman off and its an issue, but women are ripping men off daily and its a non-issue. I get it, we are all hypocrites now.

Who in the world would want to scam anyone for marriage? You Naigerians never cease to amaze me.

Some people ehn. They don't have the fear of God.

Bleep marriage...
Single till I die
.7baby mamas is the Holy grail 💪
God help me...

Them scam you neat you still dey claim smart dey play 🤣🤣🤣

Zigzagman:
Flee from any lady whose importance and essence of living is tied to finance.

No man lives his full life on earth without challenges. If and when such challenge come, a money conscious lady will abandon him to his fate. So why would a man contemplate keeping such lady around? The word I am looking for is stupidity.

Oil dey ur head

Onyiiobi7735:
In this life, the people close you often hurt you the most, and are the worst enemies of a person.
Trust no one.

people react differently to different situations. make i end here.

She is naive.

People always leave trails. From the questions they ask you, how they have treated others in the past, if their money is where their mouth is, and many more.

No matter how dark a person's plan against you is, with time and personal experience with them, they will expose themselves and give you the nail and hammer you'll crucify them with.

All you need is patience, an observing eyes, and the right questions/actions. You need truth, and the ability to know the truth. This life no hard, just understand how things work and you'll live with dignity and not be anyone's bitcch.

For the determination of truth, please read my precious comment. I went in great length on it.

https://www.nairaland.com/7809382/share-hidden-secrets-life-thread/3#125246097

GanagiBitrus:
When in love, half of your brain ceases to function properly.

this statement might sound funny but it is the truth. The Prefrontal cortex part of our brain usually stops working in moments of heightened emotions like love, anger, hatred etc.

phemyhalaby:
One of life's gravest mistakes is to let somebody know that you trust them completely,without any iota of doubt.It gives them the impetus to take advantage of it.No matter how you trust a person let them know you also reserve some doubts about them.This put them in check-El hombre silencioso.

This is actually an ancient Egyptian philosophy, which states that to find peace in life, one must find balance (maat) in everything we do... even if it's a good thing.

This law states that extremely loving someone is as detrimental as extremely hating someone. Both would achieve the same result!! So, they said that we should instead find a balance and not be at the terminal end of anything if we must find peace of mind.

Over the years, I struggled to rationalize this but the older I get, the more I realize they're right.

GanagiBitrus:
When in love, half of your brain ceases to function properly.

Lust spotted right there

kingthreat:
If it was a woman scamming the man that happens more than 50% of the time, that will not be an issue. In fact, some people will say it is normal

You are correct, most people will say it's normal. It's normal to scam a guy.

This is why I don't mix love and money together, scammers every where you go.

Onyiiobi7735:
In this life, the people close you often hurt you the most, and are the worst enemies of a person.
Trust no one.

If you know, you know. Trust No one.

Calitoscassius:
Who in the world would want to scam anyone for marriage? You Naigerians never cease to amaze me.

you go fear fear