I'm a young man of 38, there is a lady I'm dating but unfortunately the girl is afraid because my dad is having relationship with her mum. Her mum is a single mother and my mum is dead. She is afraid because sh felt she would break her mum's heart if she could know. But d plan is not to flirt and leave each other but to marry her properly. W both have this huge feeling for each other. But I told her it's nothing, it depends on myself and her.

Pls hope it's not a bad thing if w both marry due to do relationship of our parents..

Pls house I need contributions to ease my worries..

Thanks.

It can’t work for both you and your dad…One person needs to cut off the relationship!

My man is in love.
Pls i want to ask a question is the mother living with ur father or they are just enjoying theirselves for the moment?
If they are living together i don't think it will work, but if they are just enjoying theirselves, since u are in love there can be changes but it will be very hard.
Father they bleep mother
Son they bleep daughter.
My friend has done this before sha.

Mission abolished.

Lol.... Na wa oo... This story sound somehow fictitious....
Where and how did you both meet?...
Between you and your father, who started dating first from the girls' family?...
But in all likelihood, it won't work... Just find someone else

Wow..I only see this kind of love triangles in telemundo ....but jokes apart, do your parents know that you the children know about their relationship? It's kinda complicated if you guys know and then went ahead to start dating yourselves....kinda selfish. But it's possible anyway, the four of you should just have a round table conversation if what you feel for the girl is genuine as you said ....

Mellow85:
I'm a young man of 38, there is a lady I'm dating but unfortunately the girl is afraid because my dad is having relationship with her mum. Her mum is a single mother and my mum is dead. She is afraid because sh felt she would break her mum's heart if she could know. But d plan is not to flirt and leave each other but to marry her properly. W both have this huge feeling for each other. But I told her it's nothing, it depends on myself and her.

Pls hope it's not a bad thing if w both marry due to do relationship of our parents..

Pls house I need contributions to ease my worries..

Thanks.

oga una bad one main for una family ooo

So your papa go carry mama n u self go carry pikin

U are leaving no stones unturned

U na Odogwu ooo

Bros if you love the girl go for her.
Don't listen to these enchained Nigerians.

Oro shunukun.

Mellow85:
I'm a young man of 38, there is a lady I'm dating but unfortunately the girl is afraid because my dad is having relationship with her mum. Her mum is a single mother and my mum is dead. She is afraid because sh felt she would break her mum's heart if she could know. But d plan is not to flirt and leave each other but to marry her properly. W both have this huge feeling for each other. But I told her it's nothing, it depends on myself and her.

Pls hope it's not a bad thing if w both marry due to do relationship of our parents..

Pls house I need contributions to ease my worries..

Thanks.

STOP THERE. ! at 38, you are far from being a young man!

So, what you're trying to make us understand is that you have feelings for and want to marry your soon-to-be stepsister?
So, when did you meet her? Before or after your dad started dating her mum?

You both should tell your parents to cut their relationship and rest na... Since they don't intend to get married let them allow you two. They have enjoyed their own time.

This kind old mama and papa dating self.

The four of you are not okay that all i can say.

Mellow85:
I'm a young man of 38, there is a lady I'm dating but unfortunately the girl is afraid because my dad is having relationship with her mum. Her mum is a single mother and my mum is dead. She is afraid because sh felt she would break her mum's heart if she could know. But d plan is not to flirt and leave each other but to marry her properly. W both have this huge feeling for each other. But I told her it's nothing, it depends on myself and her.

Pls hope it's not a bad thing if w both marry due to do relationship of our parents..

Pls house I need contributions to ease my worries..

Thanks.

Why is she scared of her mum

Is your dad planning to marry her mum

Well in this case, make sure her mum supports and give her full consent to the relationship if that's the case

Once her mum is against it, just forget it

Fear women for they can go any length build or destroy things

This is some sick ass shiiiiii!!!!😳😳😳

I'm with u all, reading d contributions back to back...

First of all, you are not a young man. Baba, you are old. 38 no be moi moi.

Secondly, if your Dad is romantically involved with the girl's mother then you have to cut off your relationship with the girl. E no fit work, unless your Dad ends his own.

Have a heart to heart discussion with your Dad on it.

At 38, you're a man of your own, matured enough to make independent decisions. So I'll advice you to have a chat with your dad, take him out, order for drinks and tell him about the girl and how you love her and want to marry her, he would easily understand.

Once you've convinced your dad, visit the girls mom and talk to her, tell her that your dad is in support and he believes it would strengthen the bond between both families.

She would agree and you can marry your wife in peace.