jackmrandy:
I know for sure this can never be true. but if its true, but lets join you to lament. you are the cause we have miscrants in the society. children whose parents are no taking care of them and at that the end sort to robbery and thugery for survival causing nuisance in the society because their parents neglected them. Gone are the days that people will say na God dey give children, uncontrolled sexual appetite gives birth to children when not done properly (protection, family planning) . don't bring children you can not take care of into this world, especially here Nigeria.

Agent17th:


I feel it's an animal farm. Like poultry

Rayban25:


i dont know why youre lamenting. far as i am concerned what youre going through is good for you.

what are you doing with such amount of children? you didnt think of economy? you didnt do family planning because you prioritized sexual pleasure and being a sharpshooter instead of living within your means. na you sabi.

Immunity1555:

Nonsense comment
You think is only poor children steal
What about our politicians that are stealing and mortgage your future
How do you advise them?

Mayeldah:
Bro, I empathize with you even though it's all largely your fault. first of all, speak with your wife to reduce the number of mouths you feed by returning your in-law back to the village first. secondly help your wife to get something doing so she can assist you Thirdly, you may have to consider leaving home on a hustling endeavor, relocate to a new city alone, get a new job, hustle hard and be sending upkeep home regularly.
with God on your side, in a few years things will improve.

meekparagon:
■ My neighbour here in ajah has 7 children, oldest is 12 years

Aarenasbaba:
■ Should e go and kill them?
Once the deed as been done, no time for blaming game again….: is there still solution to his problem

meekparagon:
My neighbour here in ajah has 7 children, oldest is 12 years

hdrifter11:
■ Ask urself oga how much for this

FAMILY PLANNING;
Condom, postinor, abortion, vasectomy, IUD etc. No excuse whatsoever

hdrifter11:
■ Ask urself oga how much for this

FAMILY PLANNING;
Condom, postinor, abortion, vasectomy, IUD etc. No excuse whatsoever

KyleJason:
You're so pessimistic.

ConfusePoint:
Ranting. Ranting. Ranting.

I have decided to rant out my predicaments on this forum today.

What is the way out of poverty for me?

One inlaw is even living with us, making it 8 in number, all in one room.

This thing don come big pass me.

I know most of you here would blame me for impregnating a woman to give birth to that number of children but then, life is life. It happens like that sometimes.

They say a poor man's prayer is "e go better" but instead of things to get better in Nigeria, everyday things get worse.

Truth is, except I drive myself out of this mess to a better life for me and my children, this poverty that is so stricken will likely be extended to my children, which I really don't want.

No two ways about it except ...

But like a car without tyres, can it move even if it has fuel? Definitely no.

For 4 days now, I sleep outside in an abandoned car because of financial war at home. I can't go back home and I even feel like never to go back there but should I abandon them like that and run away? To where?

When I went to the market the other day with 5k to buy food items for the house, I was crying and talking to myself on my way back because I came back with almost nothing.

Nigeria have succeed to plug life out of poor Nigerians. The poor cannot breathe again. Let's die and go.

Advice: never give birth when you are not financially strong. Unfortunately, I've learned my lesson the hard way.

Life happens.

How do I help this family better than I am trying?

Wishing you the best in all you do.

Peejayz:


People Sha.... The person made a good point.... But here you are , twisting the point ......

ConfusePoint:


A driver for a farm.

sunbreaker:
Even if her husband is alive,5 children is too much. Even in 90's,not to think of 2000's

seuncyrus:


Bro, there are still menial jobs she can find depending on her location. There are cleaners who still make about 25,000 - 35,000/mo... I know it's nothing but it will go a long way in their present situation.
Any business they open will be used to feed the family. I've seen this play out over and over and if I'm being very conservative with the number sef ... the business can't last 6 months. They will use both capital and interest to eat

Tonytonex:
we are talking solutions, not the the problem.
The problem is already there.
What would you advice the OP to do?

Mountbatten:
Are we supposed to feel sorry for you?

How can someone earning this low keep reproducing so many kids? You are an irresponsible person who doesn't deserve any help.

Man up and deal with your own problem.

Immunity1555:

Shot up there
If you don't have what to say

Kobojunkie:
Na so...

Tonytonex:
With this kind of economic hardship,
Many guys will not go into marriage again.

Na only ladies wey get sense now go marry. All those ones waiting for already made man, go wait tire.

Mozino007:
ok I hear mumu man!

teekay213:
pls I need help to on how to publish on Amazon

Tonytonex:
With this kind of economic hardship,
Many guys will not go into marriage again.

Na only ladies wey get sense now go marry. All those ones waiting for already made man, go wait tire.

Immunity1555:

If you like you hear if like you don't hear
Fools like you would only criticize the poor and dance and celebrate the rich.

omababe:

Send me a dm.