Good day dear Nlders.,

Please I plead with you all to read this thread very carefully. This could save someone or contribute positively to u or your loved ones.

The distance between EVERYONE and death is just like a 1% phone (Anything can happen!)
BE EXTREMELY CAREFUL!

I just got back home from an impromptu trip, tired and exhausted; I fell asleep , waking up with lots of missed calls. I called one of them ( My nigga in my neighbourhood) this Nigga shocked with the sad news of the DEATH OF ONE OF OUR FELLOW YOUNG PROMISING NIGGA, Very pathetic!
This late guy was my close pal, we were taking bottles together some few nights ago, discussing and laughing.

***I have and will keep telling our youths to be very, very careful because this is not the same life I was living joyful in my childhood and teen days-----

-----CONTROVERSIES SURROUNDING HIS DEATH------
1. This guy has 3 littles kids (The last is just few weeks old)
2. This guy was learning how to drive heavy duty vehicles before he switched to abandoning his dream and started staying with a younger YAHOO BOY (H.K/Office).
__The said Yahoo Boy this late nigga was staying with; is just in his 30's but very wealthy, with good houses, cars, trucks, lands and a very large agriculture farm etc, He buys cars like boxers!
I know him very well. Infact; He is perfect example of chop life gang.
Rumour has it that; as rich as this Nigga (has a lot of houses in different cities), his mom still lives in a rented apartment.
3. A lot of people will feel and think that he was used for rituals because he wasn't sick (He slept and didn't wake up yesterday; THEY MAY NOT BE FAR FROM THE TRUTH THOUGH!

------ MY VERDICT ON THIS ISSUE--------
I don't jump into foolish conclusions without a first hand strong evidence, it's ONLY a fool that does that.
While the supposed rumour that the YAHOO BOY used him MAY be right but that doesn't change the fact that; I BLAME THE LATE GUY 100%!

Leaving your good handwork that will help you in the long run to join people in shattering people's life in the name of Yahoo, was a very foolish move and to think of the fact that, the guy he moved in with made overnight wealth and a lot of Yahoo boys now use different diabolic means to up their games (Even if it takes sacrificing their own blood) and the guy still fell for the trap, is not reasonable.
LOOK @ THE SORRY STATE HE LEFT HIS FAMILY, WIFE AND CHILDREN.


-------MY MESSAGE----------
Please my Nlders, Always strive on Earth to make your hands as clean as possible, if you value yourself and your offspring. I learnt this from my dad a long time ago and it has and will forever be useful and applicable to EVERYONE.
2022 /2023 taught me a great lesson I wouldn't have known till I die, Sometimes pray that you fall in order for u to know the true snakes you have been taking VERY close to yourself as friends.

There is nothing in Life that is and can EVER be by your power, smartness or hard work. God has clearly said it that; All things on Earth belongs to him and He alone has the power to give to whoever He wishes ;whenever,and however He wants.
I remember some years ago when I was always busy chasing money, my father called me telling me that; "Son you don't chase money; rather, you position yourself in a place and money will start chasing you" (This is something ONLY the wise would understand).

Life is 100% God's timing, is only a fool that thinks He has any power of to alter things.
The only way to scale through life smoothly is; TO BE EXTREMELY PATIENT and under that; Inside this life; there is another new life that modernization is constantly creating (SOCIETAL TRENDS).
This trends is what any sensible person should and must desist from (It leads to nowhere but agony and generational bondages).

Whether anyone agree or not; God created this life PERFECTLY and there is nothing you have and will ever do that will not have a result or consequences. YOU / YOUR OFFSPRING MUST PAY THE PRICE NOW OR LATER. I remember our old neighbour when I was still a child, will always say: "If you do good, you do for yourself; if you do bad, you do for yourself, R.I.P Papa, your words still fresh in my memory.

One mistake people constantly make is; The mistake of thinking that because Me. A is doing it and it's working for him, that will automatically make it work for me (FOOLISH THINKING)
OR because Everyone is doing it, automatically makes a bad thing correct. EVERYONE IS DOING IT, CAN NEVER MAKE A BAD THING RIGHT.
Different faces, different timing and destiny.

One thing I Love about my life is that; Whenever I do any evil, be it cheating or any bad sin, I RECEIVE MY KARMA IN A VERY SHORT TIME, Unlike a lot that will pass theirs to their generations. I love my unborn child too much and I can never make her suffer for what she knows nothing about; hence, the reason I desist for evils as much as possible.

The menace of Yahoo is a place I have a surface coaching on, a long time ago (Thanks to my ex that warned me to quit and focus on an honest life) because she stated that she had dated a lot of them and she had seen what the end looks like.--- God bless you wherever you are dear.

When we talk about the fact that Yahoo is bad, it doesn't mean anyone is coming out to claim being perfect but the fact that; When you make someone cry, tears must always follow you.

Even the fornication I constantly engage in and other sins I commit sometimes; I am still not happy with myself. (It always haunt me in my heart) not to talk of going about making others go through pain and taking lives. HUMANS ARE REALLY TERRIBLE!


Let me put MY WARNINGS TO THE YOUTH AS FOLLOWS:

1. NEVER under rate yourself, we were all made from sand and to there we are all returning.
2. No one is bigger or better than you.
3. With patient ANYONE can get ANYTHING done but without it; NOTHING can be done.
4. Defrauding someone can NEVER take you to where you ought to be, rather; it will send you and your generation to the pool of regret sooner or later.
5. Never play with the power of time and patience while you work to get to your dream.
6. True happiness lies in self assertion that you have inner peace.
7. Nothing good comes easy.
8. Think of when you prayed to passed pry. 6 exams, God did it, Think of when you prayed to pass WAEC, God did it, Think of when you prayed and studied to graduate, God did it.
He is still with you and will continuously do it for you if you can be patient and work with ONLY faith as you have been doing during those times.
9. One secret to get faster to God's blessings is through a very strong provocative FAITH in him irrespective of your circumstances.
10. Nothing is too late to change when there is life and remember; we are all sinners striving to get it right.

Finally, it's only a fool that will tell you that money or flashy life is not good but when it comes @ the expense of illicit things, it means automatic signing for a life long regrets. BE WISE!
Money is good but if u have it, you will understand that nothing beats PEACE OF MIND.

I LOVE GOD,
I LOVE MY LIFE,
I LOVE MY FAMILY,
I LOVE NAIRALAND,
I LOVE YOU ALL.

******R.I.P MARO***********

Nice one bro... most of us want to jump from one to millions without following due process


Nice advice


Meanwhile, RIP to the your guy

quite unfortunate, I've heard and experience many similar cases as well.. there is no shortcut to success... the thing is that many want to walk a 10 years journey in under a month, tell me how that kind of person won't engage in evil deeds to achieve his or her goals... men dey do fraud, ritualist and kidnapping... we renamed fraud to yahoo, renamed olosho and prostitution to hookup and escorts, indirectly and directly encouraging it the more, tell me how people won't willingly do it.. very soon, people will be more vocal on the type of evil deeds they carry out and we will praise them for it..

social media is another evil on its own... the lies and acting people see on the net encourages them the more to partake in these evil actions... no quality thoughts, no innovative actions... just the way to kill, defraud, and scam one another.. this is why as a person, you need to be knowledgeable enough to quickly identify when you're dealing with these type of people.... the thing is that, if I realise your love for money is through the roof and you're also addicted to gambling and also do fraud, I will automatically sideline you and put you on my blacklist... nothing can ever make me have any business to do with you... and when you talk to these so called foolish Yahoo boys and oloshos, you'll hear something like it's all for survival or the government is bad blah blah blah, is it same system that other people also does legitimate businesses? it's only a foolish and lazy person that blames other people for their own failures..

there's one also popular here on nairaland which many people know, and he doesn't even hide what he does, slawomir or whatever the shit he call himself, he does fraud and still have effrontery to always showcase himself... some people even hail him, I guess they are his fellow foolish and diabolic friends... these is the debauchery we have to deal with these days... if you have ear, you better hear, because these people have no conscience or whatsoever, most of them don't even believe in God, so they do these evils without batting an eye... they believe they will eat their cake and have it... as time heals everything, time also reveal everything... with time, their doom will come...

Those who have ears … listen .. and be grateful to God .

Trash, nothing like ritual

How come u are so certain he was used to sub... Meanwhile guy man probably wanted to help him out una done quick label am ritualist. May we not end up wrongfully accused for trying to help

I love this, I wish nairaland young men will listen but look at this one above already laughing it out.

I used to call my uncle a ritualist until I lived with him for some time. Nigga would wake up at 5am for his shop, had overdrafts from many banks that he used to dodge their calls. There was no business he wasn't into, from supplies to distribution to retail. He had two shops in Owerri, one in PortHarcourt and one in Bayelsa. He was rich yes but he was a damn well hustler. The moral of my story is, stop jumping into conclusions and dismissing people as ritualists. I made the kind of money I made last year that I began suspecting myself and checking my wardrobe for skeleton that vomited money until I sat down and recollected how smart I hustled. All my neighbors know today is that this man wakes up and drives out. I'm not surprised that some of them see me as ritualist but little do they know that when you see me at site, you'll be shocked at the level I go to meet my deadlines. No be for my site them dey say mason man no come work. I will join in mixing the cement myself and make sure the day's target is met. RIP to your nigga and cheers to genuine hustlers.

Frigga13:
Those who have ears … listen .. and be grateful to God .

Time is a very GOOD teacher but not everyone can survive it's teaching.

Ikennaford:
Trash, nothing like ritual

Lol....
Listen to M.J's Speechless, cos that's how u make me feel.

dkidd:
How come u are so certain he was used to sub... Meanwhile guy man probably wanted to help him out una done quick label am ritualist. May we not end up wrongfully accused for trying to help

Where did I say that the guy was used for rituals?
Work on ur comprehension skill, trust me u better not take this ur mentality to public because I used very clear and simple words even a pry 6 pupil could understand easily.

IconicR:
I love this, I wish nairaland young men will listen but look at this one above already laughing it out.

Iconic, why do I always smile when reading ur comments/ posts?
U seem to be very schooled and experienced in a lot of areas.

Nonexisting1:
I used to call my uncle a ritualist until I lived with him for some time. Nigga would wake up at 5am for his shop, had overdrafts from many banks that he used to dodge their calls. There was no business he wasn't into, from supplies to distribution to retail. He had two shops in Owerri, one in PortHarcourt and one in Bayelsa. He was rich yes but he was a damn well hustler. The moral of my story is, stop jumping into conclusions and dismissing people as ritualists. I made the kind of money I made last year that I began suspecting myself and checking my wardrobe for skeleton that vomited money until I sat down and recollected how smart I hustled. All my neighbors know today is that this man wakes up and drives out. I'm not surprised that some of them see me as ritualist but little do they know that when you see me at site, you'll be shocked at the level I go to meet my deadlines. No be for my site them dey say mason man no come work. I will join in mixing the cement myself and make sure the day's target is met. RIP to your nigga and cheers to genuine hustlers.

NoneExisting, u seem mature and knowledgeable but u misquoted me,
Where did I say that the guy was used for rituals?

Good read. RIP to him.

--------UPDATE---------

Thanks to those that contributed reasonably to this thread. It is a pity that a lot of people don't know how difficult it is to come out to educate / correct others based on their experiences. The truth is that; not everyone can survive after being taught by experience.
To those people that shared foolish comments, I pray u get to understand life.
---WHAT I DISCOVERED 2DAY--
So, I left this morning to the family compound.
It is very pathetic that the family members didn't even go to great extent to unravel the cause of the death.
I was schooling them on the need for autopsy but I stopped immediately I knew that nobody was interested in hearing my rubbish; I stopped!
I later heard from a very close friend of his who complained that he warned him before his death, to see the need to come back to his family and stay far from that Yahoo Guy, that a lot of the boy's family are avoiding. him seriously because the father died mysteriously.

The guy also said few days before his death, the Yahoo Guy took a lot of them to do a particular supposed protection medicine for them, where they were cut with razor blade coupled with some things rubbed on the body. Funny enough; none of the family members knew about this.

He died in his sleep with blood coming out of his nose.

I heard that no family member was allowed to see him, aside the Revrd. father, The Yahoo Guy brought his corpse in One of his cars (Hilux) accompanied with his other boys.
-------MY VERDICT--------
I don't know what killed him but ALL my posts is JUST TO WARN OUR YOUTHS.
Evil is something we should try to desist from.
Alhamdulilah.

Final Update--------


As we go to lay my late Nigga to rest today, it is pertinent to tell you guys these facts.
I am ONLY writing this because of the few sensible people that commented previously.
I keep telling people that Naija is where it is today because of the fact that majority of people that ought to fix the country are busy chasing shadows and wallowing in foolishness.
--------My findings and facts so far--------

1. I knew this guy just less than 4 years ago but the love and attention I have shown him is more than what a lot of his childhood friends has / are displaying!.
2. A lot of people, mostly his close pals are not attending his burial!, Reasons because; They said the Nigga bleeped up and failed to listen to their warnings and the clear handwriting on the wall and it's a waste of tears to attend his funeral!.
3.The guy ought to be buried in his father's compound because he has no house or Land but I heard yesterday that the YAHOO GUY bought a land where he would be buried and also promised to build a house there in order for the late guy's family to live there. I must tell you that a lot of people are angry with this act and I have heard a lot saying that; they won't waste their time going to the funeral because they believe that the late guy's family are extremely unreasonable and foolish.
----To the people here that were misquoting and bashing my honest warnings to youths; MAY DEVIL NEVER PUT U IN A POSITION TO REGRET WHEN ITS TOO LATE. Arguing with u is like arguing with Obidents that think with their anus rather than SIMPLE LOGIC.
If u want to waste ur time, JUST MISQUOTE/ COMMENT NEGATIVELY.