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Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by DaddyCoool: 2:15pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Fountainofyouth: Hypergamous means they want/need someone higher than them (in all ways). You don't seem to know the meaning |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by jegaxe(m): 2:18pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
The OP write about the difficulty she is passing through with the Gambling habit of her husband , how it's killing progress and advancement of the marriage and family, You are writing Off point. For your information , the gambling nature of her husband is Sports betting. |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by DaddyCoool: 2:21pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Prettycute90: It's all part of it. Possibly dating/marrying a rich guy can be one of many possible ways out of broke and struggling |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by DaddyCoool: 2:23pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
kcdendelo: How is it stupid advice. She's broke and struggling. What's wrong with her trying her luck at possibly meeting/dating/marrying a rich guy? |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by DaddyCoool: 2:26pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
AngelicBeing: Just being blunt. She could be surprised to find she's quite sought after |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by DaddyCoool: 2:26pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Ofunaofu: You said it all |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by DaddyCoool: 2:28pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Chibuzoripob: She'll be keeping an eye on him - from a distance |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by sharone21(f): 2:29pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
jeromestarks: Generally, the way you write on Nairaland shows people your IQ and cruelty levels. Person wen see wetin she for troway, but manage to marry am according to what poor men like u say every time here on Nairaland and you still have the guts to denigrade her tells me your kind of heart. To the Op: When males and females do what they are expected to do in marriage and cover each other's lapses WHERE NECESSARY ( NOT unnecessarily), divorce cases become slim as naturally in marriage, there are expectations from each partner. Watch him till the end of 2023, if no deliberate or intentional changes, by January 1st 2024, take a decision.... Seems he entered married unprepared with Calocalo as his sure hope of mitigating expenses and meeting up with his PROVIDER role. Pray for guidance, seek professional help too and take action. 1 Like |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by DaddyCoool: 2:35pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
AlaafinOfOyo: Carefully read her OP. My advice is based on the real world as it is, with imperfect humans. Not some utopian world in your head where divorced women never remarry! |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Kobojunkie: 2:41pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
gazilion:Stop lying! There is no such thing as a demon of gambling possessing a human being. Rather,there are individuals who lack self-discipline and self control where gambling is concerned. 1 Like |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by DaddyCoool: 2:45pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
FuckTheMod: All sorts of unfortunate things could happen (God forbid). Suppose a good, hard-working man were framed and jailed and loses his business. When he gets out his wife is automatically the bread winner |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by DaddyCoool: 2:46pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
samsard: You have a point |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by DaddyCoool: 2:50pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Brunicekid: And suppose(God forbid) a good, hard-working man were framed and jailed and loses his business. When he gets out his wife is automatically the bread winner. What then? |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by DaddyCoool: 2:52pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Solsix: Almost none can. Some will try to hide the resentment, but it'll still show in various little ways |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by DaddyCoool: 2:53pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
maasoap: She'll be keeping tabs on him - from a distance |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by DaddyCoool: 2:55pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Kingosytex: She said she's broke and straggling. Why can't one of her possible options be to try to get a rich guy? She could get lucky |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by abbey621(m): 2:57pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
There's your truth, his truth and THE TRUTH! Anytime I read these rants online, I beg the question, UNA NO GET PARENTS? NO ELDER IN THE FAMILY? Moving on, there's no way a guy won't provide for the basic things his family needs and you'll be quiet all the way till after 2 kids! There's something missing here and those that can read between the lines already decoded the exaggeration! Next, it sounds like you don't have a good source of income either so the problem might be cumulative! Drop the Christian crap, unless adultery is involved, that angle is null and void! So the real question here is this, are you ready to move on or not? In the end, nobody on Nairaland will help you carry your burden. If you want to leave then so be it, just make sure you get family and elders involved so that your evidence can have evidence as it seems he won't let you keep the kids.......Ire o! |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by DaddyCoool: 3:04pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: You have a point. But unfortunate things could happen entirely beyond his control. No matter the reason, the wife will still resent being breadwinner and become insultive and bossy. Why? |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Gentlesoul2021(m): 3:07pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
kingviny: With this points of yours, I pray you get all ur heart desires... I love the fact u look after ur family ND ur wife is also supporting by being a teacher. I use to tell people, in this present day Nigeria, keeping a family afloat needs the support of both party but it's pathetic if one party is the one running around for the sake of the family and as a matter of fact it'll be worse if such runnings is coming from the wife while the husband just look. |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by DaddyCoool: 3:07pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
HaneefahRN: But unfortunate things could happen entirely beyond his control. No matter the reason, the wife will still resent being breadwinner and become insultive and bossy. Why? |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Sheffieldconsul: 3:27pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
As a man, I am Asking you to separate from him immediately. He has a diseased mind and will never change. If you can't take your children, leave him first with the children and settle yourself. Harden your heart and don't help him with any kobo and he will eventually return the kids to you. He' is infested with the disease of gambling. DaddyCoool: |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by slimmax: 3:40pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Menā¦ for peace of mind, once you cant provide tell the woman to go. End of long tory |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by EvangelistChuks(m): 3:52pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
I donāt know if you are born again? If yes ,ask God for Grace to carry this cross and I assure you that there is nothing too hard for Him to do(for no temptation greater than us will He allow come to us-1corinth.10:13) The heart of All beings are in the hand of God and as rivers of waters ,He turns it withersoever He desires.We are clays in His and so is your husband.And as you go about trusting God,never I repeat never jettison your responsibilities to him as a wife cos itās only when your obedience is complete can you command the obedience of God.Also remember that DIVORCE is not an option for a child of God-yes donāt mind what some pastors tell you-God said I hate divorce(mal.2:16). So for now. |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Princewill1(m): 3:54pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Procashtips: All businesses that in it all you do is to speculate are the same. Examples: stock trading, sports betting, Forex trading, binary options, crypto currencies trading. They are all the same, nothing different. Just a change of name. Speculation is simply prediction. It's stupidity to call sports betting gambling and Forex trading an investment or business. Gambling means "risking money to make more money." the Same 'risking money' that people do when trading Forex. Forex is bet9ja in disguise! 1 Like |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by EndRape2(f): 3:55pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Can't you see the man is not ready to support with domestic chores , if a woman is providing the man should be able to help. When the man is the one providing , the woman , will cook, clean house , wash, take care of children carry pregnancy, take kids to school, but you see men a woman will provide and you still expect her to do all domestic work. This is as simple as A BC quote author=DaddyCoool post=125674821] Women RESENT being bread winner. It almost never works out[/quote] 1 Like |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by DaddyCoool: 4:07pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
EndRape2: Even in instances where the husband became a perfect "wife" it still didn't work out. Women simply resent being breadwinner, no matter if the man became a perfect "wife". They become insultive, bossy, and constantly complaining |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Procashtips(m): 4:09pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Princewill1: So people who went to the university to become stock traders are gamblers? People who went to the university to study weather forecast are gamblers? Prophets (seers) are gamblers? Traders who risk money to buy and sell to make money are what since gambling to you is about risking money to make money? Is there anything you're not risking something to achieve in this life if this is your definition of gambling? Economics graduates who use economic data and indices to forecast boom or doom for companies, businesses and even countries are gamblers? An entrepreneur who create products with the hope that there's going to be demands for these products based on market research and forecast is a gambler? Even you who went to bed with the speculation that you'll wake up the next day is a gambler? Big companies (Dangote, MTN, Accessbank, JB, Dowjones etc) listing their market value shares on the stock exchange for speculators to buy and sell which in term help their company do well in the eyes of the public are also gamblers? Everything listed above are speculations(forecast) Life itself is all about speculation. All the above analogies are based on your response. I want to see you seperate these realities from forex trading/stock brokage since they're same with sport betting /baba ijebu. 1 Like |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Dothans(m): 4:10pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Yes I work,..but remotely from 9 to 5 MondaytoFriday. Work is strictly online and overwhelming but with poor pay. Zero social life, few good friends. owing so many debts which somehow got me tied to gambling in orderto pay off. But it's been 2 steps forward, 5 steps backward. I believe I need an offline hobby or activities to replace gambling. But I need help Procashtips: |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by soccerlite: 4:13pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
If you want to divorce, divorce na you sabi about it But The guy do bad Gambling is very very bad Tell his parents or friends or religious leader |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Procashtips(m): 4:13pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Dothans: Not too hard but it all depends on you. Do you gamble during the 9-5 work hours? |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by KingLennon(m): 4:14pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:I should leave God's name alone? Who will I now call? I have seen uncountable cases of mentally ill people being restored. Even in the era of Jesus, not all the mentally ill people were healed but many were healed. You have heard and seen of these thinqs, am surprise you're acting as if it is new . I smell atheism sha... |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Dothans(m): 4:16pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Are you sure I am not your brother? Please all I need is help. I hate this gambling but unable to stop. Think9ja: |
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