Hello there,
I'm a White woman married to a Nigerian man, we have kids together. I found out a few months ago that my husband has cheated on me with an Ibo girl in her late 40S (she's single, no kids). She stayed at mine while I was away on holidays with my kids for several weeks. She left loads of "symbolisms" cruxes like shapes in a "clear, almost invisible type of oil greasy liquid" on all my Walls, furniture, etc and also some ready made meals in my fridge. I felt I was going to die, I passed out for a moment and went through hell. I was completely devastated and heartbroken. I'm not very familiar with the Ibo culture. Can anybody tell me what those symbols mean and why were there for? My husband told her he doesn't want to hear from her anymore, yet she kept trying. I just hope her evil witchcraft doesn't cause us any harm.
Thank you very much for your time and thanks in advance.
Regards

First of all how did you know you husband's mistress was I[b]g[/b]bo

Secondly, how do you refer to a 40 year old woman as a "girl"

Lastly it might serve you well to watch a couple of Nollywood movies if you're looking for a half-decent believable synopsis

^^^Why bother yourself when we all know that the poster is Ileke-Idi with one of her numerous IDs trying to bash Ndigbo

Hello,
I know her full name, according to a Nigerian friend she is an Ibo woman. ( for obvious reasons I can't post her full name here) And for what I understand they cannot get married to a yoruba man right? Still, she traveled all the way to northern Europe to do her evil things or "ju ju" like you guys would say. I'm genuine and I'm not trying to "bash" no one here. Now, what film should I watch? And would that give me an idea of what those things on my Walls mean? I've watched Nigerian movies, but thought it was just not real, until it happen to me. These things are very dangerous indeed.
Thank you

The woman is sick. Those symbols have no reason than to create fear and make you worry.

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Hi there,
Thank you very much for your replies. I understand they were going to get married many years ago but they didn't as her parents wouldn't allow him in their family because he was from a different tribe. About the curry she left behind, he said he cooked it himself for us. Later when I found out what he's done and when we "both" found those things on Walls he asked me to chuck it all in the bin which I did. He contacted her and told her he was happy with his family and wasn't looking for someone else, after sometime she got the message. He was very surprised himself, he didn't think bad of her at all. Indeed I know he was very serious with her, nobody would risk his family for nothing. When he knew who she really is & done he was put off immediately. He speculate about her going to his church-pastor and got wrong advice. Nothing is bigger than God, it looks like everything backfired on her. All I wanted to know here is if my kids would get any harm by this, that's all.
Thank you anyway

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Who calls themselves a white woman? Is that what defines u? Are we supposed to feel sympathy for u for that? U didn't say I'm a brit or american. Newsflash not even close to all nigerians do juju so we don't have an answer for u. Why r u so concerned about this woman instead of ur husband? Pls don't sow seeds of discord here by claiming yorubas can't marry igbos. No such thing. If ur husband could marry u he can marry anyone.

I'm not British nor American, I'm from a different white background. And no, I don't expect you to feel sympathy for that reason. All this Yoruba-Igbo thing didn't come from me but from a Nigerian friend, a lady just like you, wheter she's right or wrong you will judge as I don't have much knowledge about it, I never intent to cause fight here as you put it.
Anyway thank you to all who gave me a good advice. I'm leaving this forum.
Regards

Goodluck with ur marriage. I'm sure u have nothing to worry about especially since it was her fam that had a problem with him.

AlminaMia:

Hello there,
I'm a White woman married to a Nigerian man, we have kids together. I found out a few months ago that my husband has cheated on me with an Ibo girl in her late 40S (she's single, no kids). She stayed at mine while I was away on holidays with my kids for several weeks. She left loads of "symbolisms" cruxes like shapes in a "clear, almost invisible type of oil greasy liquid" on all my Walls, furniture, etc and also some ready made meals in my fridge. I felt I was going to die, I passed out for a moment and went through hell. I was completely devastated and heartbroken. I'm not very familiar with the Ibo culture. Can anybody tell me what those symbols mean and why were there for? My husband told her he doesn't want to hear from her anymore, yet she kept trying. I just hope her evil witchcraft doesn't cause us any harm.
Thank you very much for your time and thanks in advance.
Regards

you should be safe. . . .
when you start getting regular mares at nights, then travel to new orleans, buy a rooster and consult a good voodoo woman.
happy married life.