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Married For 5 Years And My Partner Hardly Want S*x Anymore! What Can I Do? by easyemoney(m): 3:52pm On Oct 24, 2011 |
Hello nairalanders, please i need your candid advice, my husband hardly want to make love to me, its like he soesnt connect with me anymore, what can i do to save our relationship and our sex life |
Re: Married For 5 Years And My Partner Hardly Want S*x Anymore! What Can I Do? by 25omega(m): 3:59pm On Oct 24, 2011 |
talk to him, get marriage counselling, trial seperation, divorce, live with it, get a lover, bring a girl into your bed room, etc too many choices the one you choose is up to you 1 Like |
Re: Married For 5 Years And My Partner Hardly Want S*x Anymore! What Can I Do? by ebonyvibe(f): 4:00pm On Oct 24, 2011 |
Start dressing well. lose some weight if you have to. Where lacy sex, y underwear matching ones must i add. Always look good you make-up should always be perfect no dulling. Flirt more with him instead of demanding se, x. Flirt with other guys and let him see it (i didnt say cheat on him) let him know other men find you attractive. Where highheels most of the time and go on holidays together alone without the kids. Make time for him and stop asking him about se, x You hair must always be well done do this for a month trust me you will have him back unless he has absolutely falling out of love with you and seeing some one else or he has developed an erecti, on problem Dont even think of divorce o 1 Like |
Re: Married For 5 Years And My Partner Hardly Want S*x Anymore! What Can I Do? by ringles: 4:01pm On Oct 24, 2011 |
Husband? Is it a g[b]a[/b]y marriage or i'm missing something here? |
Re: Married For 5 Years And My Partner Hardly Want S*x Anymore! What Can I Do? by Nobody: 4:03pm On Oct 24, 2011 |
Am sure he is doing it outside without ur knowing, just dress more sexy when u are with him, that may turn him on |
Re: Married For 5 Years And My Partner Hardly Want S*x Anymore! What Can I Do? by Nobody: 4:19pm On Oct 24, 2011 |
easyemoney: [size=14pt]Seriously, wht tha hellish fark is going on here? is OP into faggotry? His Gender is (m)! [/size] |
Re: Married For 5 Years And My Partner Hardly Want S*x Anymore! What Can I Do? by slimyem: 4:26pm On Oct 24, 2011 |
sexkillz:i wonder too cuz the story sounds sincere |
Re: Married For 5 Years And My Partner Hardly Want S*x Anymore! What Can I Do? by coogar: 4:29pm On Oct 24, 2011 |
ebonyvibe: are you sure all these tips will work? |
Re: Married For 5 Years And My Partner Hardly Want S*x Anymore! What Can I Do? by easyemoney(m): 4:35pm On Oct 24, 2011 |
Yes I'm a male but the story is of my elder sister who confided in me about what she is going trhough in her marriage, I knew i could get the best solution from experienced people on nairaland thats why I posted it here. will appreciate if you could help rather than cast the post. your contributions will really go along way |
Re: Married For 5 Years And My Partner Hardly Want S*x Anymore! What Can I Do? by bekay911(f): 5:36pm On Oct 24, 2011 |
GAY GAY GAY GAY i dnt support Gay marriages am sorry |
Re: Married For 5 Years And My Partner Hardly Want S*x Anymore! What Can I Do? by ronkebp(f): 5:50pm On Oct 24, 2011 |
Tell her to improve on her bedmatics.>>>>>> once she has improved on it, let her now carry her hubby to the bed and f***** the living-day light out of him, he will not have any choice but to be begging her for it. |
Re: Married For 5 Years And My Partner Hardly Want S*x Anymore! What Can I Do? by bekay911(f): 5:51pm On Oct 24, 2011 |
ebonyvibe:9ce also u shud smell seductively and spicy, get rid of ur wrappers and replace dem wit killin lingeries, try new ways of makin up so dat ur facial appearance will vary. ,men luv adventure also change d mood of ur bedroom get rid of clothes books chairs and tables it is a BEDroom and learn to pamper ursef get ur nails don |
Re: Married For 5 Years And My Partner Hardly Want S*x Anymore! What Can I Do? by bekay911(f): 5:53pm On Oct 24, 2011 |
ebonyvibe:9ce also u shud smell seductively and spicy, get rid of ur wrappers and replace dem wit killin lingeries, try new ways of makin up so dat ur facial appearance will vary. ,men luv adventure also change d mood of ur bedroom get rid of clothes books chairs and tables it is a BEDroom and learn to pamper ursef get ur nails don. Also tell her to read ''diet for sex'' |
Re: Married For 5 Years And My Partner Hardly Want S*x Anymore! What Can I Do? by coogar: 5:55pm On Oct 24, 2011 |
bekay911: it has to be more than all these nursery tips. . . . if the physical appearance is meh. . . . .no amount of spicy perfumes can turn a man's head. she should watch her weight and clear all stretch-marks/cellulites etc. she has got to have that sex appeal before talking about lingerie or smell. a man with not sleep with a gorilla dressed in victoria's secret lingerie. |
Re: Married For 5 Years And My Partner Hardly Want S*x Anymore! What Can I Do? by pendo89(f): 6:25pm On Oct 24, 2011 |
What made you connect in the first place? What eroded all that? This is my tip.Even if you dressed up in whatever secret and made sure your bedroom smells frankincense,myrrh and looks like a rose and lily garden,nothing will change if the connection is lost. I remember a mentor of mine used to tell us that sex begins in the morning when a couple leaves the house. How you treat each other the whole day everyday has a great impact on your intimate life. So my dear look out for the loopholes and fill them.Once that is done the intimate connection will be back. Go back to your first love and romance and revive it. But if hes intrigued with somebody else then that is a matter to address gently.Confrontations never work at all.The best way to destroy an enemy is doing good to them cz its like heaping coals of fire on their heads. |
Re: Married For 5 Years And My Partner Hardly Want S*x Anymore! What Can I Do? by bekay911(f): 6:37pm On Oct 24, 2011 |
Every tin works interdependently with each oda u cant ignore one and do d oda the dressing fragrance, looks, attitude, affection attention and ma list goes on and on |
Re: Married For 5 Years And My Partner Hardly Want S*x Anymore! What Can I Do? by easyemoney(m): 3:39pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
Thanks for all the wonderful contribution I think I Have a lot to tell her about how to revive her sexlife and relationship. Thanks nairalanders. you are all wonderful people and interesting too. |
Re: Married For 5 Years And My Partner Hardly Want S*x Anymore! What Can I Do? by MrsChima1(f): 3:47pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
pendo89: True. OP Putting a band aid on an open wound will not heal the issues underneath. Find out the source of the problem and deal with the problem. Face reality of what it is going on with your life and work it out. If one doesn't want to put forth the effort to make the marriage work then it will not work. It is not about sex something else is the bigger problem. Figure it out and work at it. |
Re: Married For 5 Years And My Partner Hardly Want S*x Anymore! What Can I Do? by nchete(f): 9:31am On Nov 02, 2011 |
girl it is either your husband has a problem with is sexual faculty or he is seeing another girl |
Re: Married For 5 Years And My Partner Hardly Want S*x Anymore! What Can I Do? by kpolli(m): 11:40am On Nov 02, 2011 |
Viagra |
Re: Married For 5 Years And My Partner Hardly Want S*x Anymore! What Can I Do? by Nobody: 12:47pm On Nov 02, 2011 |
Op na man ooooo .Na wetin a man-lover go come dey do here asking for advice in his relationship |
Re: Married For 5 Years And My Partner Hardly Want S*x Anymore! What Can I Do? by Nobody: 9:43pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
Your husband is going out..... Dear, some men go out because their wives dont do to them what girls outside do to them. He is your man and you must keep him. The wife must keep the home tight and accommodating. Forget who may be at fault, its your territory. I once read a book titled " she stooped to conquer" Sorry for being blunt but truth must be told, i pray you have your husband back. |
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