you are the one, jus file for divorce

Do whatever u can but don't do anything unlawful as u will regret and could even get greater shame than those who committed the act.

Ahmed0336:
This post reminds me of what a friend told me about his past.
He had a fiancée whom he had finished paying her dowry.
She visited uninvited from the state where she resides to where he was then only to meet him on top of a lady
He wasn't aware of her presence,only for him to realise after Cumming that she's sitting, watching them.
He was so shocked and confused but she was calm. She now asked them if they were through that she'd want to wash the bedsheet
After seeing the other lady off, his fiancée washed the bedsheet and even prepared pounded yam without showing any sign of anger.


My people my people, because of his fiancée reaction, HE REFUSED TO MARRY HER.

That she's capable of murder

😂

CHoccolaTE:


If this actually happen then the fiancee is just a desperate and pathetic human being. She actually offered to wash filthy after-sex bedsheets of other people after she caught her fiance cheating on her?
What kind of low self esteem is that?
I can understand some married women doing low, degrading stuff like that because they want their marriage to continue, but the girl in this situation is not even married to the cheater yet, she has every chance to leave him now that she discovered his true colors.
Once a cheat, always a cheat.

Or was a guy a very rich man that she was desperate to hook? Na wa for some girls o.

She is married because dowry had been paid

Inukwa ooooo

Another very useless and childish thread for babies. I'm out of here.

Kajaard:


She should walk away and decide her next line of action from a safe distance.

Mumu
Na so it easy?

My wife once caught me about 6 years ago. We kept it within ourselves.
Though it was a difficult one year before she regain her confidence.

Now I work in another state and go home once in two weeks and no issue since then.

It happens but she has to give him a second chance

CHoccolaTE:
Hello Nairalanders,
What would you advice a woman who walked into the room and found her husband on top of another woman (having sex) to do?

What should be the best reaction for her at that moment?

Should she fight the husband and his female companion? Should she walk away?

Should she discuss with them calmly?

I need both male and female inputs please, thank you.

What is the best response for a woman who walked in on her husband sleeping with another woman?.
Thanks.

Is she still there?

CHoccolaTE:


If this actually happen then the fiancee is just a desperate and pathetic human being. She actually offered to wash filthy after-sex bedsheets of other people after she caught her fiance cheating on her?
What kind of low self esteem is that?
I can understand some married women doing low, degrading stuff like that because they want their marriage to continue, but the girl in this situation is not even married to the cheater yet, she has every chance to leave him now that she discovered his true colors.
Once a cheat, always a cheat.

Or was a guy a very rich man that she was desperate to hook? Na wa for some girls o.

You did not read the part that says he had finished paying her dowry. ?

He’s evidently missing something at home. African women can drive you to do things you would normally not do.

And so.
Are we not in Africa, A man cheating has nothing to do with you. The baby gotten from the affair has nothing to do with u, but if a woman cheats , she will want you to take care of what is not yours, I make sense.

Maybe the husband mistakenly fell on top the other woman.

Advice is no use to a woman at that moment ... she will be guided by her emotions.
" Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned "

Never walk alone

CHoccolaTE:
Hello Nairalanders,
What would you advice a woman who walked into the room and found her husband on top of another woman (having sex) to do?

What should be the best reaction for her at that moment?

Should she fight the husband and his female companion? Should she walk away?

Should she discuss with them calmly?

I need both male and female inputs please, thank you.

What is the best response for a woman who walked in on her husband sleeping with another woman?.
Thanks.

People react to such situations differently.

Even if you wanna cheat must you bring the woman to your matrimonial home? That's so disrespectful......Some men are just too stupid!

CHoccolaTE:
Hello Nairalanders,
What would you advice a woman who walked into the room and found her husband on top of another woman (having sex) to do?

What should be the best reaction for her at that moment?

Should she fight the husband and his female companion? Should she walk away?

Should she discuss with them calmly?

I need both male and female inputs please, thank you.

What is the best response for a woman who walked in on her husband sleeping with another woman?.
Thanks.

You don't have a G-lock at this time why na I'd shoot my hubby in the dick and shoot the girl in the head I'll also cut off his hands and tongue,e go dey explain tire but evidence no dey

Ahmed0336:
This post reminds me of what a friend told me about his past.
He had a fiancée whom he had finished paying her dowry.
She visited uninvited from the state where she resides to where he was then only to meet him on top of a lady
He wasn't aware of her presence,only for him to realise after Cumming that she's sitting, watching them.
He was so shocked and confused but she was calm. She now asked them if they were through that she'd want to wash the bedsheet
After seeing the other lady off, his fiancée washed the bedsheet and even prepared pounded yam without showing any sign of anger.


My people my people, because of his fiancée reaction, HE REFUSED TO MARRY HER.

That she's capable of murder

The guy na wise guy o. The lady will def make life tough for him later.

na so I do one lady like that something very strong
later when small time pass she come dey try come back my side
I let am know straight say I no do again.... make she no go jonze me wen I don drop my guard for her.

Ahmed0336:
This post reminds me of what a friend told me about his past.
He had a fiancée whom he had finished paying her dowry.
She visited uninvited from the state where she resides to where he was then only to meet him on top of a lady
He wasn't aware of her presence,only for him to realise after Cumming that she's sitting, watching them.
He was so shocked and confused but she was calm. She now asked them if they were through that she'd want to wash the bedsheet
After seeing the other lady off, his fiancée washed the bedsheet and even prepared pounded yam without showing any sign of anger.


My people my people, because of his fiancée reaction, HE REFUSED TO MARRY HER.

That she's capable of murder

Lol..i think say him na man....e for marry na....na wetin fit some men b this

She should weigh her options...
Is she independent?
If yes.... She should take custody of the kids and start a new life....
If not... Then she may have no option than to forgive the man and move on.
Personally, I don't take cheating lightly at all.....
Before she sit down for house one day... The man come infect her with disease wen them no fit cure....

CHoccolaTE:
Hello Nairalanders,
What would you advice a woman who walked into the room and found her husband on top of another woman (having sex) to do?

What should be the best reaction for her at that moment?

Should she fight the husband and his female companion? Should she walk away?

Should she discuss with them calmly?

I need both male and female inputs please, thank you.

What is the best response for a woman who walked in on her husband sleeping with another woman?.
Thanks.

how did she catch him exactly? did he cheat in his matrimonial home or outside?

whatever the case ask him why he cheated and if he shows any remorse u must distance urself from him sexually until there is a better discussion. Do all other home responsibilities like a good wife till further notice.

capnies:


ANY WOMAN THAT DID NOT MARRY A VIRGIN IS FOREVER UNFAITHFUL. ONLY VIRGINS CAN TALK ABOUT CHEATING.

if that is d case...a man also should be a virgin....

Ahmed0336:
This post reminds me of what a friend told me about his past.
He had a fiancée whom he had finished paying her dowry.
She visited uninvited from the state where she resides to where he was then only to meet him on top of a lady
He wasn't aware of her presence,only for him to realise after Cumming that she's sitting, watching them.
He was so shocked and confused but she was calm. She now asked them if they were through that she'd want to wash the bedsheet
After seeing the other lady off, his fiancée washed the bedsheet and even prepared pounded yam without showing any sign of anger.


My people my people, because of his fiancée reaction, HE REFUSED TO MARRY HER.

That she's capable of murder

Not real. Or not in Nigeria or Israel or USA. Not in UK

Powerhouse5050:
Nigerian women don't know how to walk away.

Nigerian women don't like to walk away

The title "Mrs" means much more than life to them.

Nigerian women would always search and find reasons to stay.

Most Nigerian women can't live or survive without cash inflow from husband.

The biggest, ultimate achievement of most Nigerian women is to be married.

Thus walking away is not an option.

If they post about single mother in Nigeria, you won't think twice before you use ur leprosy hand to say all sorts of derogatory on Naija woman.

Indeed I salute Naija woman in the hand of several beasts in Nigeria.

Ahmed0336:
This post reminds me of what a friend told me about his past.
He had a fiancée whom he had finished paying her dowry.
She visited uninvited from the state where she resides to where he was then only to meet him on top of a lady
He wasn't aware of her presence,only for him to realise after Cumming that she's sitting, watching them.
He was so shocked and confused but she was calm. She now asked them if they were through that she'd want to wash the bedsheet
After seeing the other lady off, his fiancée washed the bedsheet and even prepared pounded yam without showing any sign of anger.


My people my people, because of his fiancée reaction, HE REFUSED TO MARRY HER.

That she's capable of murder

And the man didn't faint

Ola9ja23:


Mumu
Na so it easy?

My wife once caught me about 6 years ago. We kept it within ourselves.
Though it was a difficult one year before she regain her confidence.

Now I work in another state and go home once in two weeks and no issue since then.

It happens but she has to give him a second chance

You must be an idiot to contribute with an insult. How old are you?

Only illiterates and morons without a working brain resort to insults in a discourse. Pathetic.

It rains everywhere but the man shouldn't have brought a woman to his house... That's a total lack of respect... My advice: sit him down and settle the issue in whatever way

Nackzy:
They will say its a man's world, if woman cheat them go send her packing, this inequality is too much

It's a man's world actually (at least in Africa)!! Your believing it or not is irrelevant!