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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by Bukolaolamipo: 12:18pm On Nov 26, 2023
Matinox:
This evening I took a reflection on what my wife has gone through in our small marital journey, my heart swirled up with gratitude, I felt like to call my mum and tell her thank you again.

Women are built different!

I just had a baby, I was in the labour room and boy o boy!
The female body is a work of art!

I considered the pains they go through...
My wife for instance, after marriage, sex was a huge desert to cross, it was her first time, she would cry countless times, by the time we crossed that hurdle, she took in, pregnancy came with its own shenanigans!

This thread isn't about my wife, but to all honest women out there, God bless your efforts.

First sex - Pain
Pregnant - Pain
Delivery - Pain
First Breast feeding - Intense pain
Resume sex after child birth - Pain
Wean your baby - Pain

Life for you all is like an art gallery, you all fit into many descriptions. God bless you all.

My mum & wife inclusive!
True sha, but it doesn't tame our evil side,when we do bad things it always goes beyond your imagination,you cannot even think that the most innocent of us would do those kind of things

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by bukatyne(f): 12:20pm On Nov 26, 2023
Paramount01:

Say is who? Is that what you are feed? White woman chooses c.s than natural birth.why? Because they can't bear the pain of bush! Bush!

Are you a woman or have you done C/S before?

If no, then shut it.

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by pretydiva(f): 12:21pm On Nov 26, 2023
God bless you op for this beautiful post. Let’s be honest with ourselves, life of a woman no easy

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by Lukuluku69(m): 12:22pm On Nov 26, 2023
Matinox:


My wife was so sad when she saw her monthly visitor just one month after delivery.

Friends had told her she's likely not to see it till she's done breastfeeding

She is very fertile

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by Matinox: 12:22pm On Nov 26, 2023
id4sho:

They are used to it. Just like taking responsibility ain't easy

Give credit and don't expect one. When it comes receive it and move on, thats what makes you a man!

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by tollyboy5(m): 12:24pm On Nov 26, 2023
Klass99:

The problem we have these days is that on top of handling our female responsibility, we have been forced to also take on or share in your responsibilities as men/providers, because some of you are slacking off and allowing wives or daughters in your families, do the heavy lifting, while you continuously hope on betnaija to win big or you simply do not want to step up.
Sorry to say, this is trash.
Once ladies get to bear little from the responsibility a man carries as norm they tend to scream at the top of their voices. Once they get some little power they feel are common to men they tend to abuse it.
Ladies started sharing responsibility after parents has decided both male and female children get same academic funding and exposed to equal opportunities.
Even at that men still go out to sacrifice more for his family because nature has it that way.
Men gambling still shows they're exposed to more pressure, feel they need to make more even if its by luck or something and still go back home to spend this money on wife and children.
The little burden ladies share from men should be a normal stuff and calls for no celebration or special thanks.

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by Matinox: 12:24pm On Nov 26, 2023
BlackhatMentor:
But they'll never accept to be a man for a day.


Being a woman comes with its on pros and cons same as being a man.


The daily entitlements they get should compensate them.... And Yes females do enjoy sex a lot and big dickk giving them pains is a myth


They'd say they're in pains but will never ever settle for small dickkk



Have you seen those women on porn sites literally going to sex stores, looking for biggest dildos possibly to insert in the puzzzy



What a gender

Don't be stupid. Porn is obviously making your brain leak.

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by Matinox: 12:27pm On Nov 26, 2023
finallybusy:
I dey fold arms look this one. In under four years, he’ll use an anonymous account to complain about his wife withdrawing sex from him.

Don't be that kind that will deny gratitude for the present because there's an expected day of evil.

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by 4KNGOATS(m): 12:27pm On Nov 26, 2023
[quote author=Matinox post=127165126

mumu motivational speaker. If u had just spoken only for the interest of your mum I wouldn't mind that but including girls of this age makes me want to vomit spits.......girls of this age are used to many pains.after many body counts they deserve no pity when you have them create more pains for them,that's what they're are 4kn meant for

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by Matinox: 12:27pm On Nov 26, 2023
Coolsat:
Wicked gender 😂😂😂

Including your mum?

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by Matinox: 12:28pm On Nov 26, 2023
[quote author=4KNGOATS post=127172845][/quote]

Including your sister?

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by Matinox: 12:29pm On Nov 26, 2023
EgusiSoup:


Simpsons everywhere..

Including your father that doesn't know how to appreciate the goodness of your mum right?

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by Matinox: 12:30pm On Nov 26, 2023
DKM123:
It's only small men with little minds that throw tantrums when a woman is being hailed over her biological make up.... See them crying "what about me? ", "I am in pains too", "hail me too", with cataarh in their nose.


NO REAL MAN WILL BE CRYING BECAUSE SOMEONE IS ACKNOWLEDGING A WOMAN'S BIOLOGICAL PREDICAMENT asides p00r, low self esteem, little men who feel insecure about thier manhood.

I wish I can like this post 774 times

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by kenchop: 12:30pm On Nov 26, 2023
That's the result of Eve's romance with the serpent. Na God give them work no be man.

We all carry our crosses , male and female.

Las Las simps will attack me and blame men for what women experience.

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by Aaaaarghmed(m): 12:31pm On Nov 26, 2023
Yes,women dey try well well,I hate to see a woman in physical pains.

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by Matinox: 12:32pm On Nov 26, 2023
Savedday2:
What is really wrong with SIMP? I don't really get it.

I think they should make another world for them. They are so annoying.

You are stupid. Na your mama I pity for what she went through to produce this absurdity that you are. What a degenerated red piller

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by zexy2030(m): 12:32pm On Nov 26, 2023
Olam09:
Lol.. sex should be pleasurable na.. why pain.. what about the alshh... yea.. ah.. when having sex lol.
If sex isnt sweet, u wont like to bear children. The thought of responsibility would make you run away from it. This is why fornication and birth control looks ungodly.
Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by Lovelydaisies: 12:33pm On Nov 26, 2023
Ulunne777:


That breastfeeding pain,i told my mum it was insincere for them not to relate their experiences to us .I cried so much cos of its pain .My nipples had cracks and blood even came out only to be told my baby had to keep sucking it to heal.It was true anyway but i dreaded breadtfeeding then which was like every 2 hrscheesy

It's true, my sister. They never told us these things o! I suffered those sore n**ples. And the worst part was that they said I had to continue. I wondered with what n**ples I'd breastfeed when it was literally a sore. Lol

I was near depression, until I got the idea of using a breast pump. That saved my life. My husband saw me weeping and immediately ran to buy the pump. grin

The ordeal wasn't so different, but it wasn't my baby's mouth I was dealing with, rather, the breast pump. I did that until I healed better and then could continue breastfeeding.

They probably kept these things from us so as not to scare us. It's well. cheesy

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by Matinox: 12:35pm On Nov 26, 2023
Lukuluku69:


She is very fertile

Lol, tell me this is a joke
Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by tete7000(m): 12:37pm On Nov 26, 2023
Every gender had its fair share of pain and challenges, it is part of living. Sin brought all of us here, it is why we need Christ, the Redeemer. He said "Come to me all you who Labour and are heavy laden and I will gibe you rest; my yoke is easy,my burden is light"
Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by 4KNGOATS(m): 12:39pm On Nov 26, 2023
Matinox:


Including your sister?
My sister is not a promiscuous goat like yours so 4k the 4k off
Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by Lovelydaisies: 12:40pm On Nov 26, 2023
Kudos to all the women and mothers out there. Undergoing childbearing and its attendant pains don't make us immune to pain. It's from one to the other.

While this thread is for appreciating women, I appreciate the men too. Biologically different, we undergo different challenges to make the world go round.

God bless the hardworking, brave and helpful men.

God bless the OP's wife. Keep loving her and let her keep loving you. Life go better.

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by Olumaeme: 12:41pm On Nov 26, 2023
Later they will tell you, God created everything good.
Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by Matinox: 12:43pm On Nov 26, 2023
Lovelydaisies:


It's true, my sister. They never told us these things o! I suffered those sore n**ples. And the worst part was that they said I had to continue. I wondered with what n**ples I'd breastfeed when it was literally a sore. Lol

I was near depression, until I got the idea of using a breast pump. That saved my life. My husband saw me weeping and immediately ran to buy the pump. grin

The ordeal wasn't so different, but it wasn't my baby's mouth I was dealing with, rather, the breast pump. I did that until I healed better and then could continue breastfeeding.

They probably kept these things from us so as not to scare us. It's well. cheesy

I can relate.
At some point blood was dripping from mine's nipples
Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by Emekayoung(m): 12:46pm On Nov 26, 2023
id4sho:

They are used to it. Just like taking responsibility ain't easy
You got it right bro. Every gender was built in their own uniqueness.

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by Rubyjade: 12:48pm On Nov 26, 2023
grin
finallybusy:
I dey fold arms look this one. In under four years, he’ll use an anonymous account to complain about his wife withdrawing sex from him.
Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by NoToPile: 12:49pm On Nov 26, 2023
bukatyne:


Are you a woman or have you done C/S before?

If no, then shut it.

grin grin


Bukatyne has vexed.

Happy Sunday.
Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by Emekayoung(m): 12:49pm On Nov 26, 2023
Moyinoluwa35:
Men too go through alot of pains, if we must credit women , men should be credited too
You are a wowan with experience and knowledge. Women like you are rare,your man must be lucky to have you.

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by Matinox: 12:51pm On Nov 26, 2023
4KNGOATS:

My sister is not a promiscuous goat like yours so 4k the 4k off

No sir. Don't single out your sister now. Be honourable and own your words. You generalized it in your earlier statement, so it includes your mother and your sister.

Degenerated fool under the guise of a red piller.

Ozwo!
Spits lipsrsealed

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by Moyinoluwa35(f): 12:51pm On Nov 26, 2023
Thank you sir..happy sunday 🥰
Emekayoung:

You are a wowan with experience and knowledge. Women like you are rare,your man must be lucky to have you.
Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by professore(m): 12:53pm On Nov 26, 2023
Matinox:
This evening I took a reflection on what my wife has gone through in our small marital journey, my heart swirled up with gratitude, I felt like to call my mum and tell her thank you again.

Women are built different!

I just had a baby, I was in the labour room and boy o boy!
The female body is a work of art!

I considered the pains they go through...
My wife for instance, after marriage, sex was a huge desert to cross, it was her first time, she would cry countless times, by the time we crossed that hurdle, she took in, pregnancy came with its own shenanigans!

This thread isn't about my wife, but to all honest women out there, God bless your efforts.

First sex - Pain
Pregnant - Pain
Delivery - Pain
First Breast feeding - Intense pain
Resume sex after child birth - Pain
Wean your baby - Pain

Life for you all is like an art gallery, you all fit into many descriptions. God bless you all.

My mum & wife inclusive!
Even cooking is not easy. I respect women of integrity.

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by Exceed15: 1:02pm On Nov 26, 2023
And men face all the dangers out there to provide for the family.

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