NB, I OPENED THIS ACCOUNT FOR THIS

Hello my friends, I need you different view and please I need your in put about my wife.
We live in the states. she is in kenya for a three weeks visit with the 2 kids. She has been in kenya for about 10 days, three days ago, she called me and said she will be attending her friend's marriage ceremonial, which is taking place 600km away she did not say if the person is a male or female ( I did not ask because I was just kind of not wanting to be drawn into the discussion), she said she may not be able to come back same day, because event is starting late that she will like my brother to come with her, because she does not want to go alone. This is the first time I am hearing about this occassion, she never mentioned it before and I do not know the friend she is talking about. (or at least I am sure, because I do not really know most of friends, and she is not the friend keeping type)
I just told her that I am not ready for the discussion yet.
Please guys what are your take, I do not feel like telling her to go ( well, she may still go without my consent )
Please it may sound stupid, I just need your genuine advice

Oga, the woman has told you out of respect she has for you, besides that, she also want to go with your own brother, so whats the fuss all about. This is festive period and activity galore, allow her to go with your brother and then squeeze out very other detailed information you need from your brother. If you dont trust your wife dont you trust your own brother also ?

Obolor123454:
■ I just told her that I am not ready for the discussion yet.
Please guys what are your take, I do not feel like telling her to go ( well, she may still go without my consent )Please it may sound stupid, I just need your genuine advice

Op, what exactly is it that you are afraid of? Let's start from there?

Obolor123454:
NB, I OPENED THIS ACCOUNT FOR THIS

Hello my friends, I need you different view and please I need your in put about my wife.
We live in the states. she is in kenya for a three weeks visit with the 2 kids. She has been in kenya for about 10 days, three days ago, she called me and said she will be attending her friend's marriage ceremonial, which is taking place 600km away she did not say if the person is a male or female ( I did not ask because I was just kind of not wanting to be drawn into the discussion), she said she may not be able to come back same day, because event is starting late that she will like my brother to come with her, because she does not want to go alone. This is the first time I am hearing about this occassion, she never mentioned it before and I do not know the friend she is talking about. (or at least I am sure, because I do not really know most of friends, and she is not the friend keeping type)
I just told her that I am not ready for the discussion yet.
Please guys what are your take, I do not feel like telling her to go ( well, she may still go without my consent )
Please it may sound stupid, I just need your genuine advice

Men die from high blood pressure, pls calm down.
.i believe you're more mature than your wife, so dont let her phase you into frenzy or any agitated states.

Calmly accept what she has said.

Whenever she is in your physical space, hacck her phone 📱, get spy apps or even with her consent get location apps for every member of your family so you can know where they are exactly.

You can get a phone case tracker for her and install it without her knowledge and be able to know where she is even if doesn't inform you and you'll have peace.

Furthermore if you are doing these, they are free tutorials on YouTube.
Android or iOS apps that can be downloaded for it.


Never again worry about secrets when you can find out for yourself.


Thank me later.

Kobojunkie:
Op, what exactly is it that you are afraid of? Let's start from there?

it is strange, very unlike her, she never attend events , here i literally drag her, but she ever attend social gatherings

Obolor123454:
■ it is strange, very unlike her, she never attend events , here i literally drag her, but she ever attend social gatherings

Maybe she wants to attend them now that she is back in Africa, so what exactly are you really afraid of?

Did she make a pact that she would never attend social gatherings or what ?

Obolor123454:
it is strange, very unlike her, she never attend events , here i literally drag her, but she ever attend social gatherings

That's the reason
she wants your brother to be company with her. Or don't you trust your brother with your wife?

Would you require her consent before traveling yourself? If not, rest the matter

With women you have to be CUTTHROAT in your scrutiny. why don't you call her later in the day and get more info about this trip: Who's the friend? what's the occasion? How long she plans to stay and why so important? What happens to the kids when she's gone?

And If you don't trust your bro as her chaperone then tell her how you feel.

We all give out vibrations as humans. Men mostly dont pay much attention to it but when they do it's for a reason (or maybe not)

As I type this (5.18am) I have a barnie in my bed who's just banging me for fcuks sake. She most def has a bf abroad who's sponsoring her entire trip abroad...

...and when we make love she reminds me she doesn't want to get too loose as she was very tight the first day we bleeped which suggests lack of penetration for a long time

(I guess it's because she has a man abroad and wouldn't want him to suspect a thing when they fcuks too)

E just dey pain me say my delay cream done finish if not Na like 35mins straight I suppose dey bang am b4 I come. Now I barely do 20mins.

cococandy:
Would you require her consent before traveling yourself? If not, rest the matter

If no be say we get the same surname for NL I for slap your empty skull now

Obolor123454:

OP stop playing with your marriage!

Give your wife a call and ask her all the information you need. The person's gender, her relationship with the person (school mate, old friend etc), why the person invited a married woman alone to a wedding and not together with her husband, as a respectful individual should do. When this invitation was given and why you didn't know about it sooner etc.

I see that she requested your brother go with her. Even if you trust this arrangement and decide to grant this request, you still need to know exactly who this friend is, what her role in the occasion is (if any), the address and phone number of the friend, the venue of the wedding, emergency contact number etc, before asking your brother to go with her, and be with her the whole time

This is NOT unnecessary control, and even if it is control, it is GOOD control. It's for your family's protection.

Person dey fry this one woman dey smack am like omelette

Old monikers stop opening new accounts on nairaland because you don't want people knowing stuffs that have happened to you
It's so annoying .
The worse is after the advices and all they don't even come back to give an update.. very few update

Obolor123454:
NB, I OPENED THIS ACCOUNT FOR THIS

Hello my friends, I need you different view and please I need your in put about my wife.
We live in the states. she is in kenya for a three weeks visit with the 2 kids. She has been in kenya for about 10 days, three days ago, she called me and said she will be attending her friend's marriage ceremonial, which is taking place 600km away she did not say if the person is a male or female ( I did not ask because I was just kind of not wanting to be drawn into the discussion), she said she may not be able to come back same day, because event is starting late that she will like my brother to come with her, because she does not want to go alone. This is the first time I am hearing about this occassion, she never mentioned it before and I do not know the friend she is talking about. (or at least I am sure, because I do not really know most of friends, and she is not the friend keeping type)
I just told her that I am not ready for the discussion yet.
Please guys what are your take, I do not feel like telling her to go ( well, she may still go without my consent )
Please it may sound stupid, I just need your genuine advice

And you think some of us are ready to pity a weak man? Continue!

If you guys aren't having any trust issues, I think you should just relax.

For every single trip, I always buy my own tickets and go my own trips as well after which we have family trips together. No time!

I will not attend a wedding with such short notice, and neither should you or your wife.

She has been in kenya for about 10 days, three days ago, she called me and said she will be attending her friend's marriage ceremonial, which is taking place 600km away ......Is the wedding holding in Kenya?

Mindlog:
She has been in kenya for about 10 days, three days ago, she called me and said she will be attending her friend's marriage ceremonial, which is taking place 600km away ......Is the wedding holding in Kenya?

we live in the states

Hmmm

Just tell her to stay put and be a man.

DIVORCE AM ASAP

Wife travelling without the consent of her husband is equivalent to a bride visiting her ex a day before her wedding

Las las,na gbola go solve the equation

Bbb

Chicagoesontop:
Oga, the woman has told you out of respect she has for you, besides that, she also want to go with your own brother, so whats the fuss all about. This is festive period and activity galore, allow her to go with your brother and then squeeze out very other detailed information you need from your brother. If you dont trust your wife dont you trust your own brother also ?

You said it all!

# CaseClosed

I don't really understand why you are worried.

She requests that your brother comes with her.

Is there more to the story that you aren't telling us?

Israel DMW is that you. You cant stop her from going so why all this long talks

It's for personal reasons. Way women work is different from men.
Besides she already took ya brother with her. Except you dey suspect both of them.

Ofelodoko niyen o.


Check Google for the meaning sir.

Oga calm down joor...

Chicagoesontop:
Oga, the woman has told you out of respect she has for you, besides that, she also want to go with your own brother, so whats the fuss all about. This is festive period and activity galore, allow her to go with your brother and then squeeze out very other detailed information you need from your brother. If you dont trust your wife dont you trust your own brother also ?

Finito !!