FreeIgboho:


You keep talking about choices and choosing. Let’s really take a close look. When did you choose any of the things that determine your choices? Did you choose where you were born, the type of parents you had, the environment you grew up in, the type of consciousness and brain you were born with, etc. You chose non of those, yet those are what determine what choices you’d make.
Maybe you should stop worshipping choices and choosing so much!

FreeIgboho:


What right choice did Joseph make? How did he choose to be sold by his brothers??

Kobojunkie:
.Was she not that way before you married her?

Did you at least ask your wife her reason for not responding to your messages before you decided to flare up? If you are done with the marriage it is ok to get a legal divorce from your wife. Abandonment is what is a crime. Divorce isn't.

Kobojunkie:
Did your father up and abandon you all? Did your father abandon your baby's siblings and pregnant mother? Why would you even conclude that your story is anywhere close to OP's case?

Your father failed as a parent yet you chose to let it slide. That is all you ... not God or anyone else but YOU. You are not better than those who chose to let him eat the cake that he made for himself. So, stop pretending you are. And stop using the mention of the name of God to perpetrate foolishness.

LadyRosa2:


Few eat their cake and have it.
But so many eventually regrets especially at old age.

erniok:

Dey calm down dey digest issue. Your blood too hot. I was referring to the guy you quoted but you had to attack me. No vex, na me chuk mouth for wetin no concern me.

ORIAYO70:
■ You called forgiveness foolishness, and yet paraded yourself in church n mosque, the indelible pain this situation could cause can not be underestimated yet u r not greater than God that let u succeed, what if she is still roaming the street, would she have looked for avenue for vegeance...if u DNT see any sense there...kindly ignore. I rest my case..

Kobojunkie:
Stop lying!

The same story tells you of the Old man who abandoned her. He is married yet he seems rather lonely in it all. Why? Marriage Does Not Give You Company . There are so many more folks out there stuck in marriage who are lonely and miserable in it.

When you selectively choose to remain blind to the reality of things, you lose the ability to reason properly. No sane counselor would ever suggest marriage as a solution for loneliness. Maybe your pastors, many of whom are miserable in their marriages, would gladly feed you that dirty lie, but no person with a brain in the head would.

tete7000:


To disagree with my opinion is also a choice you made. It doesn't matter that you didn't choose to be born, what matters is that after you were born you choices will shape how your life turns out. That you disagree with that truth doesn't stop it from being true.

And the truth actually is even that in as much as you might think you didn't choose to be born, a real analysis of your coming to being might say otherwise. Out of over a million sperms, yours struggled to be ahead of others to fertilise that egg that resulted in your existence. Think about it, you always make choice, even inadvertently.

Acidosis:
Most narratives about fathers or husbands abandoning their homes and children to marry some strange woman often lack critical details.

Only Ka.yanmata can make a man leave like that without some underlying issues. Always ensure you get the details.


Kayanmata my foot!
A stupid man doesn't need Kayanmata to abandon anyone.

Acidosis:
Most narratives about fathers or husbands abandoning their homes and children to marry some strange woman often lack critical details.

Only Ka.yanmata can make a man leave like that without some underlying issues. Always ensure you get the details.

FreeIgboho:


You exposing yourself too much o. You know too much about the intricacies of this saga for this not to be your own family

Goalnaldo:
Might be a deadbeat father to Sarah and her siblings but also the best dad to the children of the other wives. This life