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Re: Parent(s) Laying Curses On Their Child by kpolli(m): 2:49pm On Nov 03, 2011
Anyhow curses don't work but curses from ppl u have wronged dey work ooo
Re: Parent(s) Laying Curses On Their Child by DonChimax(m): 2:57pm On Nov 03, 2011
whether curse work or not that is not the final case what is important is that every sinner or cursed person must come back to God in repentance for he is able to break any curse and forgive sins. ALWAYS MERCYFUL JEHOVA IS HIS NAME.
Re: Parent(s) Laying Curses On Their Child by MissyB3(f): 3:52pm On Nov 03, 2011
pslm23:

I agree with you. Whenever I visit Nigeria, i look forward to the times I will kneel before my grandma and have her place her hand on my head and bless me in the name of our Lord. When my mom was alive, even when we are speaking on the phone, she will always end our conversations by heaping blessings on me.  Everybody has their own opinion and beliefs about whether curses and blessings are for real, I believe that they are. Does this mean that when i have kids i will curse them if they piss me off, No. rather I will pray fro them. But back in those days (the days of my great grand-parents) curses were rampant and people believed in it.
A mother says to a wayward child that has exasperated her to boiling point "your children will do it to you" Is that a curse  or a warning?
I think the effectiveness of a curse depends on the frame of mind of the curser.
The 'E nor go better for you' I tell a friend during one of our usual banters is/should be quite different from the 'E nor go better for whoever is against my progress' I say as 'prayer'.
Re: Parent(s) Laying Curses On Their Child by swiftycool(m): 12:58am On Nov 04, 2011
Ah curses do work ooo! if u doubt it go to any of em lagos ghettoes where some mostly uncultured yoruba women heap heavy curses on their kids for small mistakes made or perhaps for fun of an intended joke and check out years later how em kids turn out. u will b convinced curses really 4uck peoples' lives up.
And b4 u throw in d tribe card let me have u know omo yoruba gidi ni mi o!
Re: Parent(s) Laying Curses On Their Child by claremont(m): 12:17pm On Nov 04, 2011
"Do unto others as you want them to do unto you" is a maxim that has guided primates for generations. I don't believe in such a thing as curses, but I do believe in the law of Karma. If you don't like being treated in a certain way, then the onus rests on you not to treat others that way, simples!
Re: Parent(s) Laying Curses On Their Child by kooto(m): 12:20pm On Nov 04, 2011
parents should bless and not curse their children, no matter how bad they feel about them or what they have done  wrong,because if you curse  you are directly or indirectly affecting your own future, children keep alive (posterity) of a family, the child that do bad today can be good tomorrow.

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Re: Parent(s) Laying Curses On Their Child by Nobody: 3:09pm On Mar 26, 2012
ntn lyk if u blv it it wuld work,wen adam and eve sind,God cursd d earth nd dm as there parent,Jacob too,chldrn of israel in d wilderns nd u as man r d image of God nd we r powerfl, mre dan we thnk ,so parents b cautious cs wat u say owt of anger cn hold ur chld.God was angry.a mum cnt say dat wen hapy.xtians read ur bble u wuld knw wat curses r only God cn lift dm if u repent nd ask 4gvns.
Re: Parent(s) Laying Curses On Their Child by Nobody: 1:09pm On Jun 19, 2017
There is something about family issues, especially between parents and children. Family politics can make or break the course of the lives of children. “Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. ‘Honor your father and mother’--which is the first commandment with a promise—‘that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth,’” Ephesians 6:1-3.

Notice that the commandment has a promise—“that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth.” The promise is hindered or goes unfulfilled when serious conflicts come in between the parent(s) and a child.
The passage that follows talks about parents’ input to their children. “Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord,” Ephesians 6:4.

From here we realize that it’s a two way street. If parents treat their children well the children are likely to treat them with honor. There is no single formula of ensuring a two way healthy relationship but it can take so much work, prayer, occasional mistakes, differences, breaking and making up. In the final outcome making up must win to ensure that it “may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth.”

Parents have immense biblical authority to influence the destiny of their children for better or for worse. Their words are not mere words. They carry with them the power to bless or to curse -socially, spiritually, materially or physically. Children don’t have this privilege over their parents. Their words are mere words. Their privilege lies in continuing the family lineage.

In case a parent uttered cursing words against you or someone you love and channels of reconciliation are still closed please continue praying for God to open them up. It may require sessions of prayer and fasting for God to break the spiritual strongholds over emotions, memories and thoughts that are blocking the way. Like any relationship there is no single formula to reaching a breakthrough. Entrusting it to God will enable him to work in their hearts and minds.
He may also create matters and events that can facilitate healing and reconciliation. There is no requirement to bind and loose demons in any way. Some resort to binding and loosing spirits they categorize as spirits of division, spirits of unforgiveness, spirits of rebellion, spirits of disrespect, spirits of divorce and so on. It ends up being a ritual of inviting more demonic attacks.
The bottom line is that you or anyone you’re burdened for would like to close any doors that may provide legal access for problems that come through parent-child conflicts. But you need to follow prescriptions that are in line with scripture, regardless of the urgency. No short-cuts to deliverance, unless endorsed by the bible.
Commit more days of prayer and fasting if possible. Fasting brings amazing breakthroughs. Walk in love, mercy, charity, read more on biblical deliverance on family matters, etc.
Any one in courtship with someone who has scores to settle with parents is better off waiting and praying for the conflict to be settled before getting into a marriage. Without the conflict settled you could have a rough road ahead. Consolidating such areas is an asset for a strong foundation against life’s storms.



http://www.spiritualwarfaredeliverance.com/books/07-breaking-curses/html/breaking-family-curses.html

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Re: Parent(s) Laying Curses On Their Child by tuscani: 5:03pm On Jun 19, 2017
ksam:
The greatest problem a man can ever have is woman.forget the curse
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin men you gat no chill
Re: Parent(s) Laying Curses On Their Child by tuscani: 5:04pm On Jun 19, 2017
stagger:


Well, since you have a brain, I will be glad to pump it out with some lead shots! F[i]o[/i]ol! angry angry
cheesy cheesy cheesy easy man, you gat no chill
Re: Parent(s) Laying Curses On Their Child by tck2000(m): 1:59pm On Jun 28, 2019
They no longer work

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