Debbie is married to Adebisi. A female coworker of Adebisi has lately been inviting him to share her cooked meal at lunch break. To that effect the lunch is packed with two spoons in the bag. Adebisi did not think anything of it, and delighted in joining coworker to eat lunch.

This has gone on for sometime before Adebisi revealed to his wife.

To any wife anywhere in the world, this is taboo. This transgression can lead to destabilization and destruction of lives and livelihood on many dimensions. It is never to be tolerated, much more accepted.

Some years ago in US, a female space Astronaut, Naval Pilot Nowak, in Houston, Texas, got jist through the grapevine that another lady, Air Force Officer Colleen, was spending time with her boyfriend, a co-space explorer, William, stationed in Kennedy Space Center, Florida. Space exploration is the apex reach for any scientist, in fact for any human. So you can imagine that someone in this position will be very analytical, logical, and approach challenging issues through demonstration of critical thinking and intelligence. But our lady failed at this. Upon getting the gist, she pulled out a space diaper, strapped it on, jumped in car, filled up tank and took off....speeding to Florida. She stalked Colleen to Orlando Airport and attacked her with pepper spray. Colleen called cops and got Nowalk arrested. This story goes to highlight the rage and danger that comes into play when a woman believes her territory has been compromised.

Let's turn to Debbie and examine her response to the outside threat.

1. She understood the scale of the problem and the imminent danger if she failed to act.

2. She approached the problem with calm and self-sufficiency.

3. She correctly diagnosed the problem, took steps to address it.

4. She turned anger into love

5. She got out of her comfort zone, put effective changes into place.

6. She demonstrated maturity, leadership and conflict resolution.

Because she took these steps above, she still has her husband and marriage. If she had reacted irrationally to go fight like Nowak did, she might have lost her household and family.

Women, learn from Debbie@4am.

ImperialYoruba:
Debbie is married to Adebisi. A female coworker of Adebisi has lately been inviting him to share her cooked meal at lunch break. To that effect the lunch is packed with two spoons in the bag. Adebisi did not think anything of it, and delighted in joining coworker to eat lunch.

This has gone on for sometime before Adebisi revealed to his wife.

To any wife anywhere in the world, this is taboo. This transgression can lead to destabilization and destruction of lives and livelihood on many dimensions. It is never to be tolerated, much more accepted.

Some years ago in US, a female space Astronaut, Naval Pilot Nowak, in Houston, Texas, got jist through the grapevine that another lady, Air Force Officer Colleen, was spending time with her boyfriend, a co-space explorer, William, stationed in Kennedy Space Center, Florida. Space exploration is the apex reach for any scientist, in fact for any human. So you can imagine that someone in this position will be very analytical, logical, and approach challenging issues through demonstration of critical thinking and intelligence. But our lady failed at this. Upon getting the gist, she pulled out a space diaper, strapped it on, jumped in car, filled up tank and took off....speeding to Florida. She stalked Colleen to Orlando Airport and attacked her with pepper spray. Colleen called cops and got Nowalk arrested. This story goes to highlight the rage and danger that comes into play when a woman believes her territory has been compromised.

Let's turn to Debbie and examine her response to the outside threat.

1. She understood the scale of the problem and the imminent danger if she failed to act.

2. She approached the problem with calm and self-sufficiency.

3. She correctly diagnosed the problem, took steps to address it.

4. She turned anger into love

5. She got out of her comfort zone, put effective changes into place.

6. She demonstrated maturity, leadership and conflict resolution.

Because she took these steps above, she still has her husband and marriage. If she had reacted irrationally to go fight like Nowak did, she might have lost her household and family.

Women, learn from Debbie@4am.

The 5 points are on point!