I saw this clip of Apostle Femi Lazarus saying ladies should heal before considering marriage.

Then there was this artist, Jidenna, that was trending because he confessed that he cheated many ladies out of their childbearing years.

Those ladies and other ladies in similar situation will be very broken. And in my opinion, it takes a broken guy to do such (hurt people hurt people, i.e people that have been hurt, hurt other people).

Ladies and gentlemen, how did you heal from traumatic relationships and homes?

I know many people had different things to say when I asked...

How Did You Prevent Your Parents' Toxic Marriage From Affecting Yours?
https://www.nairaland.com/7900747/how-did-prevent-parents-toxic

But, I think you have to address and heal from the root.

Like wrong behaviours you don't know you have, things you shouldn't accept/tolerate, coping mechanisms, going for therapy etc.

I know there are many things to do, but I'd really like to know step by step how you did it.

So if you've successfully healed and moved on with your life, please let's hear how you did it.

Thanks

Mods please help me push to the front page.

Some heal by locking themselves up in a room
And brood all day

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