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Defilement Of A Girl Child by Treasureedosa: 10:43pm On Apr 15
A child was defiled a year ago and was afraid to speak up but this year she spoke out,can the mother of the child make a case.
Age between 8 - 9 years
(A girl child)
Re: Defilement Of A Girl Child by godofuck231: 11:56pm On Apr 15
Where is the father or the family of the father , I don't like ashawoe stories or accounts , where the papa ,SIMPLE QUESTION
Re: Defilement Of A Girl Child by Puss360(f): 4:47pm On Apr 16
Hmmm..
How will evidence be provided?
And anybody she points hands to will be seen as "False accusations"....
Why she no open mouth talk since?...
Well, she should just confide in her parents and the parents should just take more protective steps on her...
Re: Defilement Of A Girl Child by Mindlog: 5:02pm On Apr 16
Puss360:
Hmmm..
How will evidence be provided?
And anybody she points hands to will be seen as "False accusations"....
Why she no open mouth talk since?...
Well, she should just confide in her parents and the parents should just take more protective steps on her...

As long as the child's memory no wipe off, it is not too late to identify the perpetrator and prosecuted, nailing the monster no go hard.

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Re: Defilement Of A Girl Child by Mindlog: 5:02pm On Apr 16
Treasureedosa:
A child was defiled a year ago and was afraid to speak up but this year she spoke out,can the mother of the child make a case.
Age between 8 - 9 years
(A girl child)

Yes.

Where did it happen?
Re: Defilement Of A Girl Child by Mindlog: 5:07pm On Apr 16
godofuck231:
Where is the father or the family of the father , I don't like ashawoe stories or accounts , where the papa ,SIMPLE QUESTION

Presence of father or not, will not be a determinant of investigating the case when handled by the relevant agencies.

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Re: Defilement Of A Girl Child by Puss360(f): 6:18pm On Apr 16
Mindlog:


As long as the child's memory no wipe off, it is not too late to identify the perpetrator and prosecuted, nailing the monster no go hard.
How sure will you be? Will you take the words of the child?
When passing judgement, sentiment Nd emotions no suppose come in...
Facts and evidence wins a case ...
If there's evidence, then it's okay...
Re: Defilement Of A Girl Child by Aaaaarghmed(m): 6:28pm On Apr 16
Take the case seriously, the foolish rapist might still do it again or to another person.Mk sure there is evidence to avoid false alarm.

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Re: Defilement Of A Girl Child by Mindlog: 7:55pm On Apr 16
Puss360:

How sure will you be? Will you take the words of the child?
When passing judgement, sentiment Nd emotions no suppose come in...
Facts and evidence wins a case ...
If there's evidence, then it's okay...

And who is talking about sentiments and emotions, when facts can be established if the minor was defiled. Maybe you think that because the semen is no longer present on the body of a victim of defilement/rape, the case is lost?

Will you take the words of the child? Yes, my specialty in psychology is to take the words of a child and process them, to establish facts and fictions.....by the way, the child need not even say a single word for that to be achieved as there are kids who become non-verbal because of trauma experienced or neurodivergent.

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Re: Defilement Of A Girl Child by Villa12(m): 8:01pm On Apr 16
Puss360:
Hmmm..
How will evidence be provided?
And anybody she points hands to will be seen as "False accusations"....
Why she no open mouth talk since?...
Well, she should just confide in her parents and the parents should just take more protective steps on her...
the rapist can be nail
Re: Defilement Of A Girl Child by Puss360(f): 8:04pm On Apr 16
Mindlog:


And who is talking about sentiments and emotions, when facts can be established if the minor was defiled. Maybe you think that because the semen is no longer present on the body of a victim of defilement/rape, the case is lost?

Will you take the words of the child? Yes, my specialty in psychology is to take the words of a child and process them, to establish facts and fictions.....by the way, the child need not even say a single word for that to be achieved.
I'm not exonerating the man, I'm just saying that the fact that the child didn't voice out when the iron was hot, means that it will be hard to find the suspect guilty...
Unless there's enough evidence and besides, the words of the child can't be used as an evidence!!!!
Re: Defilement Of A Girl Child by Puss360(f): 8:05pm On Apr 16
Villa12:
the rapist can be nail
If there's evidence then it's possible!!!
But if there isn't, it'll be ruled out...

You just don't take matters to court without "Evidence" ......
Re: Defilement Of A Girl Child by Mindlog: 8:33pm On Apr 16
Puss360:

I'm not exonerating the man, I'm just saying that the fact that the child didn't voice out when the iron was hot, means that it will be hard to find the suspect guilty...
Unless there's enough evidence and besides, the words of the child can't be used as an evidence!!!!

And why do think child psychologists are involved as expert witness in such cases by courts handling cases of defilement?

Back in 2019 in Lagos, a Pedophile was found guilty as charged and sentenced to 60 years imprisonment. He was a supervisor at the upscale Christland School and defiled a 2 year old toddler within the school premises. With what little the toddler could say and the use of art and play therapy by the psychologist, guy was nailed.

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