I recently lost a childhood friend who was very close to my family and to tell u the truth it hasn't been easy. Sometimes I wonder why we really come to this world just to die. Why is it that no matter how sophisticated a person is when death calls he or she becomes as useless as a log of wood? Now back to my question: which of these death pains the most?

(1). Death of a father.
(2). Death of a mother.
(3). Death of a sibling.
(4). Death of a friend.
(5). Death of a mentor.
(6). Death of a spouse.
(7). Death of a child.

The reason I'm asking this question is because I saw how my dad who is up to 60 yrs of age and his siblings cried the day my grand parent died. I saw how my dad and siblings cried when they lost their eldest brother in 2019. A man that was about or more than 64 yrs of age by that time.

There's no reason for this comparison

All are painful. Stop reasoning down like Helinues.