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Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by GrandFinale2021(m): 2:10pm On May 04 |
Biglittlelois:na who them catch na him be theif. Apparently the wife is also cheating but knows how to cover up her shits unlike the dumb husband |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by twilliamx(m): 2:10pm On May 04 |
Broken1985: Kpanshing wahala.. Pele bro |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by alizma: 2:16pm On May 04 |
Broken1985:You ve been caught, the only thing you can do now is to be strong to face loosing your family or getting it back as the case maybe but the road to getting this achieve is not by begging at least not now. Now see what you will do, don't explain what happened to anyone, including those she has reported to. If any of the call you, tell them you will fix things up with your wife but don't call your wife yet. Within few days she will get the message that you are going to fix things up, then travel home after a week or when you are sure the message must have gotten to her, do as if you visit to pick something and return, tell her you guys need to discuss something before you leave. Then explain yourself and then apologize to her, at this point, you may decide to stick to the earlier plan of going back that same day or stay back, this depends on the outcome of your discussion but if things don't go well don't stay back and if she is a hot temper, don't stay back until you are sure it's safe to sleep under the same roof with her. 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by when2(f): 2:17pm On May 04 |
Hypocrites everywhere. If the reverse were to be the case, you see them fuming and dishing out outrageous advise on how to deal with the woman but can't tolerate half of what they dish out to women. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by Okortor: 2:19pm On May 04 |
I swear....we cheating for decades without being caught. A don is a don..no cap bro PerfectStranger: 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by masui(m): 2:19pm On May 04 |
Dogalmighty17: [center][/center] Bad people everywhere |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by membranus: 2:22pm On May 04 |
Fake story. 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by israelmao(m): 2:28pm On May 04 |
You have some bad behaviours which you must give in,you drink and womanize.Resisting temptations demands strong character and fear of God.Take a look at this,if it were your wife that cheated on you how would you feel?If you still love your marriage go and meet your wife and plead with her but it will take a long time before the broken trust can be mended because your every move will be suspected as from now.Assure her you will never repeat such again. 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by GodHimself: 2:31pm On May 04 |
Never beg for forgiveness. Take whatever comes. What you did wasn’t a mistake. You did it with your full chest. Take the good with the bad. Broken1985: |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by TheWinterBird(f): 2:32pm On May 04 |
Imagine. Just within a year of marriage, you've committed adultery. If your wife didn't find out, you had no intentions of stopping. You didn't even mention that you have or will. What a joke of a marriage. 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by iLegendd(m): 2:36pm On May 04 |
I didn't read to the end. If you were a millionaire or a billionaire with a touch of bad boy who is great in bed, you won't make this post. Na your wife go dey even beg you on top not to chase her out. Na rich or poor SIMPs dey make this kind post. Ned Woko wey you fine pass no fit make this post. Wizkid and Aki&Pawpaw wey you tall pass no fit make this post. Even Portable wey you clean pass no fit make this post. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by Vickygirk(f): 2:42pm On May 04 |
Broken1985: Not even upto a year of marriage, you don dey cheat😒😒. This shows that you are among people that did all those mean babe and side babe plus extras by the side.. what do Nairaland call these people again?. Alpha pill abi red males. Anyway, you have seen the reason for self control. You never learnt self control while you were single and in relationship now you are married, you don dey mess up. Young men and Women please and please learn self control. Forget all these slogans of people from trouble home designed to scatter your life. If you want to go far in life, learn and practice self control in all sexual matters. Learn to respect yourself and all institute of relationship. Oh! You seeked for an advice. First advice is to go learn what you should have learnt before you say i do; Self Control. Then you get your woman back. Plead...o, cry..o, mention devil name but gain her back. But to win back your wife trust, your marriage to last and to avoid the mistake not to repeat again go learn and practice self control. Put up some boundaries. My two cents✌🏾 |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by elmagnifico411(m): 2:47pm On May 04 |
I no get advice for you cos you messed up! U should have cleaned up your path before the arrival of your wife. U got drunk again and your fone no dey lock?? That's the 2nd ef-up! The third one, which shoulda been the first, why the recordings? The sex was so sweet so much that u allowed her to reford u and u didn't think that was gonna haunt u later? Oga, make your wife leave u na em be thee best option.. you really messed up the brotherhood. 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by BigYash: 2:47pm On May 04 |
Dogalmighty17:If she do same to you,will you like it? Na marriage we call an o.. if you wanted an open relationship or marriage,you ought to have defined it before paying her price.. me no dey support women o,but you no talk well for wetin u write.. na cheat you cheat you no kill person.. That’s bullshit .. Why not end the marriage,instead of hurting her emotionally.. if she put knife for your belle one day,una go say the gender bad,meanwhile na u start the war o. Be calming down plz 3 Likes |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by ademola2017: 2:48pm On May 04 |
Broken1985: Guy you f**kd up but there is always a way out. Bro, apologize genuniely for days, make her feel heard, acknowledge your mistake and leave her to process and heal at her own pace. Dont force it, dont force her feelings, dont force solution, be quiet and look remorseful most times. Please do not over beg her but make her feel heard!!!!... No go dey cry when begging o!!! She will forgive you!!! Cheating don dey your body already hence it will be difficult to stop...fact!!! Next time, do it codedly and clean up your tracks!!! Whatsapp created disappearing messages for a reason... |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by NOETHNICITY(m): 2:50pm On May 04 |
PerfectStranger:The thing just tire me jare |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by UnfairLife7(m): 2:51pm On May 04 |
Dogalmighty17:will you say this if the table turn around tomorrow? 2 Likes |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by izubext007: 2:52pm On May 04 |
Don't worry bro, she is just mad for now , she will calm down |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by jumper524(m): 2:52pm On May 04 |
too much weakness from you that's why she called families..
you should get your shit together. |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by unclejb2(m): 2:53pm On May 04 |
Broken1985:man up. Solomon married 700 wives and had 300 concubines. Unless na your wife dey feed you, nothing dey happen. And it shouldn't stop you from doing it again. 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by UnfairLife7(m): 2:53pm On May 04 |
DrAkpamudehe:give am your sister to marry, broke alpha male 3 Likes |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by Zaheertyler(m): 2:59pm On May 04 |
Broken1985:Sorry OP She will comeback but yourself try not to do it again |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by Michaelcircuit(m): 2:59pm On May 04 |
You have said it all. A pure lesson to all. Stop cheating on your wife because if your wife cheat on you, you will never be happy. Faithfulness is the key to attract God's grace to your marriage. quote author=Jaycobbs post=129775322]She called your family, friends, colleagues... you'll never be able to win back the trust you lost. Even if you do, it won't be at the same level. One very big issue staring you in the face is the long distance relationship you're having with your lawfully wedded wife. Either quit the job and find one closer to home, or arrange for your wife to live with you in the new location permanently, or for as long as the job requires. Newlywed couple, y'all need to be spending as much time together as possible. If your wife was around, you wouldn't have fallen into that trap. Make the move and make arrangements to always be together with your wife, show her your actions and she'll see you're serious about avoiding future temptations. It won't be easy, but it's a first step. If you're going to step out on your wife, at least do it with someone decent. I'm not condoning adultery, but nigga, if you missed the red flags in this your new side piece, then juggling multiple women is not for you because they'll probably both connive to kill you. You're better off remaining faithful to the Mrs. "You got high"... Lol. Bro, is this the example you want to set for your kids? I don't know what got you high but as you can see, it probably doesn't have good effects, so maybe you should FVCKING GET RID OF THAT? I dunno. You'll need to do a lot of begging. And the people who could have helped you might already be disappointed, so you may have to do most of the shii on your own. If you want her back, be ready to crawl. There'll probably be lots of gifts, long talks, missed calls, and spending involved Oh, and if she decides to revenge by cheating on you (who knows maybe you missed that red flag in your wife too), then don't complain because you set the ball rolling yourself. Look for a male figure in her life she respects (pastor or something) and get them to set a meeting where you both talk. If you want more couple's therapy, hmu. If, against all odds, you're able to fix this, then keep your pants zipped, keep constant communication with your wife regardless of distance (you should make time to have at least thirty minutes to an hour of flirty, dirty conversation with your wife every day if you're separated by distance. This should keep the sexual spark in your marriage going), take steps to rid your mindset of cheating, and set up time to go for therapy with her to rebuild that trust you just casually threw away. [/quote] |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by victorazy(m): 3:01pm On May 04 |
Broken1985: Man is the gatekeeper of marriage bro! Clean all the shits and shower love, she go forgive n move on. (David Adeleke aka Davido's formula) |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by Abee79(m): 3:03pm On May 04 |
Nice story. Next |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by Hedonisco: 3:04pm On May 04 |
All these weak men sef. |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by thinkmoney(m): 3:05pm On May 04 |
PerfectStranger:When ur type fall sick at later years of your life you will now know that they do not use macho to deal with a wife. When u cheat on your wife it should be a really big deal. Your life is at risk 2 Likes |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by nams77: 3:14pm On May 04 |
PerfectStranger:I tire o. Well I know my self. |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by dauntless15(m): 3:16pm On May 04 |
Listen to my advice carefully, pack your bags, fake your death and escape to somalia |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by Blackshadow12: 3:18pm On May 04 |
Tell her its a prank.simple |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by Lifemanage: 3:18pm On May 04 |
cybertron88:It's a fictional story |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by PeterObi4LP: 3:20pm On May 04 |
Jaycobbs: I am not condemning him, but I am condemning the act. Who wants to cheat will cheat irrespective of distance. I got married last year June, 5 days later my wife relocate to UK. I only spend 3 days with her after our marriage. Though we've been together for a while and dated for 4yrs. Bottom line: I am not cheating on her and she's not cheating on me. Though the urge comes sometimes, but I have self control. 2 Likes |
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