I shared a good relationship with my boyfriend for 4years he broke my heart and i find it hard to get over it, please tell me what i can do to forget this guy. i look forward for your kind response
one thing that hurts me much is that i have a child with this guy and the child resembles him so much, when i look at my son i see a picture of my xguy, when i open my note book i see his handwriting there, when i open my album his pictures are there, there is is just too much around me that makes it hard to forget the guy. please tell me what to do because i want to forget this guy and get along with my life he is already married to another woman now .

Hey DELLY
take heart ok,i wish i could say u should burn the pictures and books,but what about the child?
the solution is that u should try to forgive him and face life like normal,mayb get busy with work and mingle with friends.Very soon you will get the man that is meant for u ok.
Take heart,God will help u

best way to forget a man, put urself out there nd when i say out there, i mean go out clubbing meet new people, hang out, take ur kid out , dnt sit at home nd look at pictures nd mope around, u gotta be strong nd move on bless,

I'm sorry about that. Indulge yourself in some new activities and you'll soon get over with him. He probably isn't worth having you anyway.

oh poor girl dont mind the stupid boy he's probably regreting why he broke up with you but let me tell you dont start thinking that all boys are bad,the only way to stop thinking about it is get someone else it must not be a boyfriend maybe just a male friend or even your fellow girl is a good company afterall maybe the boy no reach sef no worry beta the come

At this stage he has become part and parcel of you and forgetting him will be difficult but with time and friends around you keeping you busy, you will end up not even remembering he ever existed in the first place. trust me, i have be in that shoes before.

Take care.

pray to God

Hey girl, i feel sorry for you ok, but there is nothing u can do now other than to brace urself up and continue with life ok nd for u to forget about him u have to take away everything that keeps reminding you of him e.g his pics, gifts but not your son.

Start thinking of another life and how to secure the future of your son. Best of luck

Delly dear,its quite unfornate that you still love him so much.but if you really want to forget about him you must do these two thing they are very simple and effective.forgive him from your heart and of course you cant forget him ,dont even think about that and then replace him.its that simple.best of luck

1) Are you married to him?
2) Why do you have a child with him?
3) I suggest you crawl back on your knees and beg for forgiveness

dear, the best u can do is to forgive ur past
you must learn to forgive d guy in question 2 if u really want to put him behind.
even if u destroy all d pics u have of him, u might not have destroyed him in ur heart, so u must forgive. its quite unfortunate u have a son for him, i wish u had waited to be married and very sure of him.

only God can ease ur hurt, go to HIm giving thanks for ur situation afterall, better a broken courtship than a broken marriage. u still have anoda chance baby, stay happy

What you can do is to forgive him what he did to you and thank him for doing you a great favour,

for I personally think that it would have been disastrouse if he had married you and them leave you.

Then believe it in your inner most mind that he was not for you, what you guys had was just a period

of stolen passion and thank God it ended when it did. When would have deprived you the joy of meeting

your own man. Then go out and make new friends, male, female, it doesn't make a difference, just make[/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000]
new friends is all.

U can join me on seguntoonice and let chat with yahoomessenger, and i we heal ur wound

you v got all the useful advices up there,guess all i can add is that the best way to get over heartbreak is to move on n get busy with somethn else, but pls resist the temptation to pinch the boy or give him a smack anytime u remember what that face did,

gal i definitely ask ya to have fun out there in da clubs, the more ya sit home watching his pics and so on, will just but make the life more dump, once he is gone,he is gone, and actually happy with some other lady, treat it like he was not meant for ya!!
engage in activities that will get ya real busy.
this is normal, it has happened to many of us, but life did not stop even for a minute, it had to take on and it's still on and will always go on. We have to 4get some hurting events in life, we count them as part of life but we can't live our lives sad.
get some courage gal, face it and go on with life, get busy with what ya do best.
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx, cheers, xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx, God be with ya.

Invest in some good liquor. That way you'll be too spaced out to think about him half of the time. Problem solved.
P.S. is it me or do some people have really serious issues, a guy dont want you babe get over it!!!

hi delly,
its a normal thing for you to be disturbed about your ex boy friend.anyway the only way you can stop thinking of him is by having fun,going places and most of all dont stay alone,because that will always make you remember him.have fun babe,go out as many times as you can with your friends.,
thanks and take care

hi,delly you just have to go on with your life cos the guy has gone and i think the best way is to get your self occupy,and take good care of ur son because he is ur wealth.[color=#000099][/color]

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