geeez:

I got married over 5years ago and 3 kids down the line I still don’t love my wife. 80% of me wanted a fling when it all started and 100% of my friends were too sure I couldn’t marry her but my mother liked her and she pulled those ‘wife material girl’ stunts which endeared some of my family members to her. Like in most Pentecostal Xtain homes, she took me to a ‘prophet’ before we got married and the man of God said he saw trouble which we could overcome through prayers. A few months later she got pregnant and before we knew it, we were married. Before we got married she confessed to having the following intimate relationships:

1.Some guy in a school in Kwara State when she was 21
2.Some guy in a SW polytechnic she dated for 4years (This guy was razz and rough)
3.Some albino in the same polytechnic who also was her neighbor back in Lagos
4.Some married guy who was a drug dealer that helped her when she went for her WAEC certificate
5.A married man she claimed helped her financially in Jos and she was in hotels with him on several of his biz trips but she claimed she only had MouthAction all of the time
6.Some guy she met through her friends. She claimed they hung out at a bar and next thing all the girls went into separate rooms with the guys. She said she was bleeding at that time and only had MouthAction. Hmmm
That was all the affairs she said she had. However after the marriage, she confessed to some more affairs:

1.Some guy that gave her a ride from her big sis’s house on the island
2.The MD of her company (where she still works). This man is well known to her big sis who got her the job in the first place
3.Some much older guy who is a friend of her much older elder brother

Ever since I’ve felt cheated and she just pisses her off each time I see her. To make matters worse, her diction and spoken English was kinda horrible before we got married and she promised to do everything to change. Till date, nothing has changed and she apparently makes no effort to improve on it.

I’m tired and frustrated.

jennykadry:

Lol, womennnn some things are better left unsaid. Which sane woman will give her husband a list of people she's slept with.
Ehn your mama say and pastor say, you still went ahead to marry her, she was good for fcukng but not good enough for marriage. Did you marry her at gun point?

Fight for your woman, divorce is not an option.

Ujujoan:

This your wife has a big mouth sef.

The thing no tire you?

I tell you most women are the cause of the problems they are facing now. What a man doesnt know doesnt kill him!

jennykadry:

Hang on, did she have affairs Whilst married?

jennykadry:

Hang on, did she have affairs Whilst married?

Firearm:

geez,
Dont you think you are giving out too many personal information here.  How can you make that list for the whole world to see?
Thats a very immature act.

Do you know the kind of emotional scar you will inflict the mother of your children when she stumbles across this thread? It wouldn't be difficult for her to know she is the one been referred to.

My Advice:  Quickly edit and remove that list.

@ topic,

I hate women who engage in extra-marital affairs.  Once married, thats the end of sleeping around.  Sleeping around (although it is a sin and not justifiable) can be forgiven if it occurs before marriage.  After marriage is simply a no-no and disgusting.

geeez:

I got married over 5years ago and 3 kids down the line I still don’t love my wife. 80% of me wanted a fling when it all started and 100% of my friends were too sure I couldn’t marry her but my mother liked her and she pulled those ‘wife material girl’ stunts which endeared some of my family members to her. Like in most Pentecostal Xtain homes, she took me to a ‘prophet’ before we got married and the man of God said he saw trouble which we could overcome through prayers. A few months later she got pregnant and before we knew it, we were married. Before we got married she confessed to having the following intimate relationships:

1.Some guy in a school in Kwara State when she was 21
2.Some guy in a SW polytechnic she dated for 4years (This guy was razz and rough)
3.Some albino in the same polytechnic who also was her neighbor back in Lagos
4.Some married guy who was a drug dealer that helped her when she went for her WAEC certificate
5.A married man she claimed helped her financially in Jos and she was in hotels with him on several of his biz trips but she claimed she only had MouthAction all of the time
6.Some guy she met through her friends. She claimed they hung out at a bar and next thing all the girls went into separate rooms with the guys. She said she was bleeding at that time and only had MouthAction. Hmmm
That was all the affairs she said she had. However after the marriage, she confessed to some more affairs:

1.Some guy that gave her a ride from her big sis’s house on the island
2.The MD of her company (where she still works). This man is well known to her big sis who got her the job in the first place
3.Some much older guy who is a friend of her much older elder brother

Ever since I’ve felt cheated and she just pisses her off each time I see her. To make matters worse, her diction and spoken English was kinda horrible before we got married and she promised to do everything to change. Till date, nothing has changed and she apparently makes no effort to improve on it.

I’m tired and frustrated.

jennykadry:

Lol, womennnn some things are better left unsaid. Which sane woman will give her husband a list of people she's slept with.

Ehn your mama say and pastor say, you still went ahead to marry her, she was good for fcukng but not good enough for marriage. Did you marry her at gun point?

Fight for your woman, divorce is not an option.

I got married over 5years ago and 3 kids down the line I still don’t love my wife. 80% of me wanted a fling when it all started and 100% of my friends were too sure I couldn’t marry her but my mother liked her and she pulled those ‘wife material girl’ stunts which endeared some of my family members to her. Like in most Pentecostal Xtain homes, she took me to a ‘prophet’ before we got married and the man of God said he saw trouble which we could overcome through prayers. A few months later she got pregnant and before we knew it, we were married. Before we got married she confessed to having the following intimate relationships:

1.Some guy in a school in Kwara State when she was 21
2.Some guy in a SW polytechnic she dated for 4years (This guy was razz and rough)
3.Some albino in the same polytechnic who also was her neighbor back in Lagos
4.Some married guy who was a drug dealer that helped her when she went for her WAEC certificate
5.A married man she claimed helped her financially in Jos and she was in hotels with him on several of his biz trips but she claimed she only had MouthAction all of the time
6.Some guy she met through her friends. She claimed they hung out at a bar and next thing all the girls went into separate rooms with the guys. She said she was bleeding at that time and only had MouthAction. Hmmm
That was all the affairs she said she had. However after the marriage, she confessed to some more affairs:

1.Some guy that gave her a ride from her big sis’s house on the island
2.The MD of her company (where she still works). This man is well known to her big sis who got her the job in the first place
3.Some much older guy who is a friend of her much older elder brother

Ever since I’ve felt cheated and she just pisses her off each time I see her. To make matters worse, her diction and spoken English was kinda horrible before we got married and she promised to do everything to change. Till date, nothing has changed and she apparently makes no effort to improve on it.

I’m tired and frustrated.

ronkebp:

@ Firearm, the posters wife, got what she deserved, ''embarassment'', because seriously, how can you confess all those things to a man and expect him to still be Sane?

Missy_B:

The only reason I think women should be secretive about their sexuaal experience is because of societal sexuual double standard, otherwise, there's no reason why a woman shouldn't feel free to clearly inform her husband(to-be) of her past (where he is one with a good head on his shoulder)

Sagamite:

All I will say is that: Just make sure you are a virgin, otherwise I no go gree at all if you even include ONE in the list. 

I don talk my own. I don warn you.

Missy_B:

You know you're going to be my first and last.

chaircover:

If I have the right end of the stick, she slept with men before she married and not after.

Double standards I should say, considering the poster was attempting to be chop and clean number 10 and run away before he was "caught" with food, sex, iyawo ile traits and pregnancy

How many men sleep with less than 9 women before they get married in this our today's world of facebook and twitter?.

I don't agree with the married men bit, but shouldn't the onus be on the man who took the vows? and I agree some of her relationships were just   but lets ask ourselves the truth how many of us are proud of every single tiny weeny thing that we have done in our lives.

The woman talks to much sef . . . way too much  

geeez:

I got married over 5years ago and 3 kids down the line I still don’t love my wife. 80% of me wanted a fling when it all started and 100% of my friends were too sure I couldn’t marry her but my mother liked her and she pulled those ‘wife material girl’ stunts which endeared some of my family members to her. Like in most Pentecostal Xtain homes, she took me to a ‘prophet’ before we got married and the man of God said he saw trouble which we could overcome through prayers. A few months later she got pregnant and before we knew it, we were married. Before we got married she confessed to having the following intimate relationships:

1.Some guy in a school in Kwara State when she was 21
2.Some guy in a SW polytechnic she dated for 4years (This guy was razz and rough)
3.Some albino in the same polytechnic who also was her neighbor back in Lagos
4.Some married guy who was a drug dealer that helped her when she went for her WAEC certificate
5.A married man she claimed helped her financially in Jos and she was in hotels with him on several of his biz trips but she claimed she only had MouthAction all of the time
6.Some guy she met through her friends. She claimed they hung out at a bar and next thing all the girls went into separate rooms with the guys. She said she was bleeding at that time and only had MouthAction. Hmmm
That was all the affairs she said she had. However after the marriage, she confessed to some more affairs:

1.Some guy that gave her a ride from her big sis’s house on the island
2.The MD of her company (where she still works). This man is well known to her big sis who got her the job in the first place
3.Some much older guy who is a friend of her much older elder brother

Ever since I’ve felt cheated and she just pisses her off each time I see her. To make matters worse, her diction and spoken English was kinda horrible before we got married and she promised to do everything to change. Till date, nothing has changed and she apparently makes no effort to improve on it.

I’m tired and frustrated.

geeez:

That was all the affairs she said she had. However after the marriage, she confessed to some more affairs:

1.Some guy that gave her a ride from her big sis’s house on the island
2.The MD of her company (where she still works). This man is well known to her big sis who got her the job in the first place
3.Some much older guy who is a friend of her much older elder brother

chaircover:

^^^ I did 31mph on a 30mph limit road

dayokanu:

Thank God your wifre didnt include my name, When I was reading your post, my heart was beating very fast thinking I would see my name.

The girl self no dey try, Doesnt she knw the typical girl line: I have only slept with 2 guys, 1 was the guy who disvirgined me when I was young and the second was my last boyfriend of several years.

Every guy they meet is always their 3rd boyfriend