My advice to women is to stop seeking too much attention from their husband. Provided he does his responsibilities in the house. Unfortunately most women/girls that complain of their husband going outside the house are always the people driving them out. Just like my wife, she will always ask me to look at her eyeball to eyeball anytime she is talking to me.

Does he play draft at home . . or leaves the house to play?

Rubbish, the guy no even fit abandon u for better thing

xbox, dstv, ps3, bb , hot chicks

na draft

attention seeking gone daft

abeg give us a better story jare

Does your husband have a job?

Cos if he goes to work like 8 in the morning and comes back at 6-7pm when does he have time for draught

oyb:

Rubbish, the guy no even fit abandon u for better thing

xbox, dstv, ps3, bb , hot chicks

na draft

attention seeking gone daft

abeg give us a better story jare

I wonder ooooo,  Tell him to get a life.

Fhemmmy:

^^^ You wicked no be small oh

.                       Wetin i do oooooooo?

Young lady, you said your husband abandoned you and your new born baby for draft? I want to ask you a question. Was your husband married to the Draft game or what Americans call checkers of which you knew before you married him?

If yes, you don’t blame anybody or him because you knew him before you accepted to marry him, so, you have to hang in with him. If No, which means, he does not have a job or he must be dumb aaaaaaaaassh. Your husband must be a complete foo-l to have been married to the game of Draft. You must be in a position to answer some questions further. Are you a trouble maker and don’t give him peace whenever he is home with you. Some men develop bad attitude as a result of their wife’s nagging attitude. Check your character to see if his action is as a result of your behavior. Are you the loving type? Do you keep yourself neat after delivery? There are some women who act like pig when they put to bed. There is no reasonable husband that will abandon his wife to the game of draft without a reason. Is your husband an educated person having a descent job? He has a good job and maybe comes home by 8-9pm only to marry draft? If yes, then you must be the cause of his marriage to the game of draft,

With a draft ring?
lol

Draft is a game for two, i don't think your hubby will be insane enough to play draft alone for hours.

You need to tell us more i.e who he plays draft with, time of the day he plays it and how long he plays draft.

Is your baby the first born? Did he start all this after you had your child? If yes, carefully take a crosscheck of your personal relationship- time spent together, behavior towards him etc- with him in the last 8 months and if you can't find fault with yourself, with wisdom, have a talk with him maybe after he finishes eating or any time he's relaxed. Also talk with other elderly women you respect. Above all be prayerful. JESUS LOVES YOU

I want to deviate a little.
this happen long time ago its a true life story.
The person name is ?? .
He was undergoing 6yrs training. Selling of Salt.
Always the boy(now Man) will be busy playing draft instead of selling Salt for his Oga.
The Oga had warned him several times but the thing dey in blood.
Oga no complain again.
After 6yrs of training settlemet /freedom time don reach.
Oga call everyone and he bought ORIGINAL DRAFT board for the Boy and said this is your settlement.

Is your husband fully employed?

What your Husband need to learn is Time management 101.

@ poster
was he like this before you got married to him?
are you always complaining/nagging over trivial issues ?
does he have a job??
i,ll suggest you take a careful look at yourself, perhaps you are the cause of him being married to his game.

Woman, i think ur story is cut and join story. Maybe u ain't finish with ur story yet. Nevertheless, I guess ur husband is bored staying at home with u and that's the reason why he always go out to his draft friends to catch fun. Do a self analysis, maybe u will find where sth has gone wrong. Are u the nagging type or are u the type that always present ur

Woman, i think ur story is cut and join story. Maybe u ain't finish with ur story yet. Nevertheless, I guess ur husband is bored staying at home with u and that's the reason why he always go out to his draft friends to catch fun. Do a self analysis, maybe u will find where sth has gone wrong. Are u the nagging type or are u the type that always disturb ur husband with problems or complaints whenever u are together. Check urself very well. Bye

Am laughing!!! Your hubby married to a draft!!! Don't know guys are still married to such games!!!

tigerleggs: @Poster
Are you sure you're not dragging your hubby with another woman. I love the game but never fail to grace my wife's bed. I hope you'd get the advice you seek here. Many had given testimonies.

Thanks

9jaBabe1: Thanks

you are welcome sweedie.

9jaBabe1: Thanks

Hi OP,

You did not back with the feedback of how the issue was resolved

[color=#990000][/color] Is your husband Idoma? Anyway, perhaps he is finding it difficult coming to terms with his new role as a father, or maybe you have turned into a mama over night and so he not getting turned on by you anymore. Look for a way to get the mojo back into your marriage or buy a draught so both of you can play together.

Must be a village couple. Mobile phone, ps4, dstv, movies, and her husband gets addicted to draft?

Anyway, just an attention seeker

Ninapha: @Op

There are so many reason why your hubby could be away from you at this time. First i want you to check yourself, it may sound harsh but its always true, most women after giving birth becomes aggressive, always nagging, insensitive to their appearance and withdrawn. Most men would want to see you still vibrant and radiant. If you allow the breast-milk to become your perfume that could send him away and his next abode would be wherever that makes him happy. secondly make ur bed, u know what i mean, If he has being coming on that bed with u before, check what he is missing on that bed and light the candle again. And if he is adamant then it may be psychological issue associated with some men who fear u may look tokubo on bed, u can talk to him about how u feel or both of you can go for counseling

gentlegg:
My advice to women is to stop seeking too much attention from their husband. Provided he does his responsibilities in the house. Unfortunately most women/girls that complain of their husband going outside the house are always the people driving them out. Just like my wife, she will always ask me to look at her eyeball to eyeball anytime she is talking to me

The same old draft?? Abi my ear dey pain and me??