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Black American Meeting His Parents For The First Time by LegalDiva: 4:57am On Feb 21, 2012
In Mid March I will finally meet my boyfriend's parents and I'm scared to death. Any tips I know with meeting the parents you should always be respectful but I just want to make sure I don't say the things you're not supposed to say etc or defy any cultural norms. Oh and he's Igbo!
Re: Black American Meeting His Parents For The First Time by EEngineer1(m): 3:06pm On Feb 22, 2012
Well u cant speak d language neither do u know d culture but i guess his parents already know that, dont try to be ibo jst try to respect ibo. D most important thing is being respectful and submissive. There is no need to be scared, am ibo and i can confidently say the ibos r very hospitable, his parents wont try to interrogate u fiercely neither will they show u their negative notion about u but u hv to be careful to show them by ur respectful character wat their son wud benefit 4rm u instead of d regular cultured ibo girl. Goodluck
Re: Black American Meeting His Parents For The First Time by ifyalways(f): 3:27pm On Feb 22, 2012
^A choro m ikpo gi ewu awusa but I cant bring myself to.Onye bekee/onye obia dere Igbo,I zuzuru ka ugbo oloko na e nweghi brake ede BS ibo. ibo kuwa gi isi ebe ahu.

@Topic,Just be your normal self.Don't :
Go out of your way to impress them
show them that you are intelligent/they are dumb
Buy presents or give cash gifts in exchange for their love/acceptance.
Show geniune interest in them,their food,way of life and culture.Ask questions.
Dont force conversations,it should flow naturally.
Re: Black American Meeting His Parents For The First Time by EEngineer1(m): 5:33pm On Feb 22, 2012
ifyalways:

^A choro m ikpo gi ewu awusa but I cant bring myself to.Onye bekee/onye obia dere Igbo,I zuzuru ka ugbo oloko na e nweghi brake ede BS ibo. ibo kuwa gi isi ebe ahu.


u r nutin more than an animal. Bastard so u couldnt understand dat i meant igbo. Amosu, ara gbabuo gi, otu nne gi, anuofia
Re: Black American Meeting His Parents For The First Time by Nobody: 5:37pm On Feb 22, 2012
E-Engineer:

Well u cant speak d language neither do u know d culture but i guess his parents already know that, dont try to be ibo jst try to respect ibo. D most important thing is being respectful and submissive. There is no need to be scared, am ibo and i can confidently say the ibos r very hospitable, his parents wont try to interrogate u fiercely neither will they show u their negative notion about u but u hv to be careful to show them by ur respectful character wat their son wud benefit 4rm u instead of d regular cultured ibo girl. Goodluck

E-Engineer:

u r nutin more than an animal. Bastard so u couldnt understand dat i meant igbo. Amosu, ara gbabuo gi, otu nne gi, anuofia

Wow!! Just shot yourself in both foot in one standing.
Re: Black American Meeting His Parents For The First Time by ifyalways(f): 6:29pm On Feb 22, 2012
E-Engineer:

u r nutin more than an animal. Bastard so u couldnt understand dat i meant igbo. Amosu, ara gbabuo gi, otu nne gi, anuofia
LOL
Ga nojuo odu otu ebe.
Osukosu sugbo gi.
I bacha nba,i ga rie nshi afo osisa.

O buru na i bughi "Osu",kedu ka i ga-esi akpo onwe gi onye ibo?Ibo awu aha ndi ole?
Otondo.
Rofl.
Re: Black American Meeting His Parents For The First Time by DaRapture: 7:01am On Apr 28, 2012
Damn, them Igbo love them some Akata love. The number of Igbo/BA couplings/marriages is off the charts these days.
Re: Black American Meeting His Parents For The First Time by Sugardiva(f): 12:53pm On May 02, 2012
@ OP Mid march has come and gone. C'mon tell us how it went.

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