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Bedweting Or Stealing, Which One? by bid4rich(m): 10:06am On Feb 23, 2012
Will you prefer your spouse bedweting or stealing with the mind that you go out on visit often. Also considering your love for him or her and not minding the shame.

Take for example you and your spouse go out and something got missing and they trace it to ur spouse or you go out, you are given an apartment and before daybreak your spouse have wet the bed. Which of these two bad habits can you successfuly defend your spouse with?
Re: Bedweting Or Stealing, Which One? by dovay(f): 10:14am On Feb 23, 2012
Non of the above, haba!
Re: Bedweting Or Stealing, Which One? by dominique(f): 11:22am On Feb 23, 2012
^^^ +1.
Re: Bedweting Or Stealing, Which One? by Anssybaby(f): 12:31pm On Apr 03, 2012
none of them ℓ☺ℓ
Re: Bedweting Or Stealing, Which One? by Nobody: 2:18pm On Apr 03, 2012
bid4rich: Will you prefer your spouse bedweting or stealing with the mind that you go out on visit often. Also considering your love for him or her and not minding the shame.

Take for example you and your spouse go out and something got missing and they trace it to ur spouse or you go out, you are given an apartment and before daybreak your spouse have wet the bed. Which of these two bad habits can you successfuly defend your spouse with?

As one who thought up this bizarre topic, what's your stand on this? Let's hear your view.
Re: Bedweting Or Stealing, Which One? by EfemenaXY: 4:42pm On Apr 03, 2012
bid4rich: Will you prefer your spouse bedweting or stealing with the mind that you go out on visit often. Also considering your love for him or her and not minding the shame.

Take for example you and your spouse go out and something got missing and they trace it to ur spouse or you go out, you are given an apartment and before daybreak your spouse have wet the bed. Which of these two bad habits can you successfuly defend your spouse with?

Neither.

These are two separate issues, both of which need to be dealt with, with sensitivity and understanding and not a Pick or Choose situation.

If a spouse bed wets, there could be an underlying health or emotional/psychological issue at play here. What you need to do is try to get to the bottom of the matter here by seeking medical help / counselling to resolve the problem.

Slightly different approach needed to deal with stealing / shoplifting as this is a criminal offence and the spouse could be prosecuted if caught.

I'm not an expert on either issues but what I do know is that your spouse would be appreciative and grateful to you for trying to help them find a lasting solution to both problems - rather than having you try to "defend" their "habits".

That's my take on this.

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