jeak123: we need 2 ask d essence of creation..is it not for procreation. God said 'go ye into d world and multiply and fill d earth'. How can u multiply without children. I think we need 2 tell ourselves d truh here instead of behaving like we live ind moon and nt here in naija. However, luv is still d pivot of every marriage.

but isnt it d same God dat gives children? So wot would u av sugested d couple d op is talking abt do? Would it av been okay by u if they ad gone astray and looked for a child by all means in ways dat are not of d LORD?

hmmm,interesting story,but d probability its was d man dat had pro is high and d wife decided to stick with him cos i knw a family dis happened to!

In xtiandom, child is d 3rd n last reason 4 marriage. Couple should nt place priority on 1 but d 3. Love is d most important thing in marriage, children wil soon leave u.

Wow!You guys have spoken your views well.Many of these sensitive issues lies on the individual families especially how they respond to these confronting battles of life.There is a general perspective such as having the child is more important than love.But ther is a better understanding and that is Love is the Greatest.

As close and believing the couple were (the story)the wife says they still made love few days before his death and had always been doing that from time to time.God may just show up.I am keenly observing what may follow believing God along with her.

But I do not pray for my enemy to go through such an ordeal.I will prefer Love.

ifihearam: Let me very clear here: there is no such thing like true undiluted love without kids....
When a man and woman that claims to be madly in love finally gives birth,my dear the man and woman transfers 80% of the love they have foe each to their child/children as the case may be.
In a nutshell the primary aim of marriage is for children becos if a sitation presents itself God forbids between making a choice over ur child between father and mother,u will be shocked that everyone would prefer the child.. So u see.

I completely disagree. Children are the third eason for marriage. People who transfer love never loved each other anyways

ifihearam: Children r not d primary aim of marriage



My dear stop deceiving yourself. They are the primary reason

You are the one deceiving yourself. If all you want in marriage are kids, then there is no need to get married.

Tcrack: ABEG ABEG ABEG. make i hear word. any marriage without children can never be happy. forget story. if each of the couple has a child from a previous marriage, its understandable. but live through life without a child? lai lai. what am i living for? just to eat and wear cloth. which kain stupid love be that?

Just because you can't imagine it does not mean it's silly.

What do I do with this kind of thread?
Well, I ain't the TYPICAL NIGERIAN. I dun like to drink IMMODIUM for another pOrsIn's Jedi-Jedi!

Next please.

God bless the white race forever and ever!
Amiiiiiiiiiiiiiin o!