almondjoy:

Because women are getting smarter.  Enough to realize that you can always survive without taking the abuses of a destructive marriage.  Most women work too and have tasted independence and how pleasurable it is to "sleep" in your own bed without some blaring trumpeter serenading your ear drums every night. 

No more "I am a full time house wife" crap!

Yipppppppppeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!

Gamine:

Divorce is on the rise

because the more we imbibe western culture

they pass on every rubbish to us.

If u don't like someone why shld u marry the person

if u feel u can take care of yourself and be all alone

why marry

is it by force!!

please people ooh, be reasonable!

Frankies:

We are earnestly waiting for you to announce your own divorce on this site.Well, no matter what happens I can't wish you for the worst.Because you still have time to remedy the situation in your marriage.

But a fuckwit like you does not even know the basics for a good and enjoyable marriage.

Why can't you an ill-mannered slowpoke accept your already humuliated being and get a life?

Idiot

Gamine:

Divorce is on the rise

because the[b] more we imbibe western culture[/b]
they pass on every rubbish to us.

If u don't like someone why shld u marry the person

if u feel u can take care of yourself and be all alone

why marry

is it by force!!

please people ooh, be reasonable!

MoOdYLaDy:



These so called Nigerians are copying the white people cultures

Sometimes I wonder if parents every think about the children’s future or the repercussion of getting divorce

Why say "I do", if you know damn well you can't stay in that marriage, I thought people get marry for better or worse, but no oh, these so called Nigerians women of nowadays are on another mission, all they want is money, greedy people

Some people excuses are his cheating or abusive, but you knew damn well that was who he was when he asked you to marry him in the first place, but some woman have these mentality a man will change after getting married, to be a new leaf

Am 100% against people getting divorce

almondjoy:

Hello Moody!

Really? I wonder why "white" people never bothered to copy "polygamy" in black peoples' cultures or from the "real Nigerians as opposed to the so-called Nigerians".

Hmmmmmmmmm! Just wondering!

MoOdYLaDy:

Heyyyyyyyy Alomondjoy


White people loves to be stressful,

and don't want to be bothered with unnecessary things, they don't have the strength and patience like the "Real Nigerians" do. That is why whenever anything goes wrong in their marriage, they

find a shortcut out of it by heading to the divorce court,[/b]see that is why they won't settle or agree to a polygamy

[b]And back in the days a real woman will stay and try to work out things with her husband,

no chicken her way out the marriage.

almondjoy:

You still dey ves?

Still waiting for my "humiliation" package ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooh! I have been divorced now for over 10 years and I am looking for a new "spouse". Would you like to marry me Frankies? I am officially proposing to you via Nairaland--please do not turn me down as that would be the "ultimate" humiliation to my fragile ego.

Even you cannot spoil my great holiday season. You have not written anything worth my attention in the past few days so I will keep looking out for "the new humiliating you"! Till then--you are invisible. Try and make some interesting contributions while you are about Nairaland.

Try programming, computers or technology sections of nairaland like I suggested. As you know my specialty area is "Sexuality and Romance" as a real woman. So go to your area of specialization and show us what you gat and let us see what a real man upstairs you are since you have failed woefully downstairs. you are such a bad "fu-ck"!

Please meet me under the "mistletoe" for a kiss if you know what that means!!!!!

almondjoy:

You still dey ves?

Still waiting for my "humiliation" package ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooh! I have been divorced now for over 10 years and I am looking for a new "spouse". Would you like to marry me Frankies? I am officially proposing to you via Nairaland--please do not turn me down as that would be the "ultimate" humiliation to my fragile ego.

almondjoy:

My dear sister--I will not say anything to you at all. So simple? We will discuss this in about 10 years from now ok? Let me give you time to catch up. You are still in "Disneyworld"!

Hmmmmmmmmm! No need at all, at all!

Frankies:


There she goes again, wishing another fellow bad marriage.10years when she will divorce like you? or get fed up in her marriage?

Get a life , old woman.

herdey2tu:

@Frankies and Admondjoy
i love the chitchat between you two!!!Gives the forum some spice and flavour!!!!!

Anyways, i have a couple of reasons why the divorce and seperation rate are at an increase:

1. Both party are not as patient as our parent generation were.
2. Marriage for the wrong reasons.
3. Lack of respect and devotion.
4.Most marrying couples don't consider their marrital vows as a convenant spoken before God and man, and just say the words for saying sake; some married couples even remix the vows and skip the part of , for worse, in sickness and till death do us part, !
5.Couples do not have time for themselves, their relationship or time to build on their love.they feel exchanging the vows is the zenith of life.
6.Refusal to learn new things in the institution of marriage.

But everything as to do with EGO, PRIDE , ARROGANCE, STUPIDITY and LACK OF FAITH.

Frankies:

*spits after reading the last line of almondjoy post* My december resolution is to avoid any xmas tree around because of the nasty post.



@ almondjoy

Keep waiting till winter is over.You can't even get a hand wave from me let alone that.You will till eternity.MY wife read this.

Now I know why you want all to have a bad marriage just like you. You have said it all. My annoyance with you fool started after reading your post on '' should I know my e-mail password''
I still advise to leave the brothel and find a decent place to stay.

ifyalways:

because peole marry for the wrong reason.
because naija babes are becoming enlightened .
because people marry the wrong people for wrong reasons.
because divorce is an option when things get irredeemable.
because its better to be alive and divorced than married in your coffin.

almond and frankies ;[/b]D keep the fire burning jare

herdey2tu:

ALL Nairalanders on this Forum, please lets raise our glasses, in a toast to the newest Bride and Groom; Admondjoy and Frankies, Long life the fires that sparks up the love between them.

To the Bride and Groom!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1