Bella rule

This does not make any sense. Please revise and re-post. Thanks.

penelope9: Hey Nairalanders, a dear of mine need your opinion, she got a job offer which require a guarantor using a resume that bear her name and that of her father and she told the father of her kids to be of assistant but he refused and said she must bear his fathers name and this her so called husband have not even finish the payment of her bride price, the DEVIL WHO IS AN INFEDEL HAVE NO SENSE OF SHAME FOR HE IS A SEX ADDICT.She will said she will serve the revenge while cold.

let me get this straight:
the problem is having his name on the resume instead of her father's name?!
if thats the case then if they are married then she should bare HIS name (of course), whether the bride price is paid or not. they didnt wait till the bride price was fully paid to have children so why bring this silly issue NOW? they are MARRIED and he is her husband, and therefore she should carry his name!

The second post is more confusing , may be you should repost in Yoruba