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Poll: Can You Marry Someone You Don't Love?yes: 17% (18 votes)No: 82% (84 votes) This poll has ended |
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Can You Marry Someone You Don't Love? by AloyEmeka8: 7:23pm On Aug 04, 2009 |
Every other thing you need in a relationship is found in this person and he or she is likable but you don't love that person. Can you marry such a person?. Please vote |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Don't Love? by dahcom: 12:03pm On Aug 05, 2009 |
it is the craziest thing to do for marriage determines ones life and love determines the spate of marriage. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Don't Love? by sweetpain: 12:18pm On Aug 05, 2009 |
If the sex is right, why not. Inevitably you get to accommodate or even begin to like your dislikes. The human mind works in mysterious ways. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Don't Love? by Marymos: 12:21pm On Aug 05, 2009 |
Never.Even if the person is very rich,intelligent,highly educated and influential. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Don't Love? by PurestBoy(m): 12:53pm On Aug 05, 2009 |
Why now?? As long as ego is involve |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Don't Love? by Morizo(m): 1:07pm On Aug 05, 2009 |
I would always believe in love. but GIRLS/LADIES dont usually marry for love . Only a few do. my apologies to women sha 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Don't Love? by MUZBO(m): 1:10pm On Aug 05, 2009 |
Yes ofcourse, if we agree to stay married for a mutually agreed-on period, say . . .1 year. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Don't Love? by Nobody: 1:41pm On Aug 05, 2009 |
It varies on the Individual. As for me, NOPE! I can't. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Don't Love? by ayobase(m): 1:51pm On Aug 05, 2009 |
marry ke? ko jo o! |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Don't Love? by otukpo(f): 1:55pm On Aug 05, 2009 |
NO. But when some one is desperate, yes cld be the answer and considering that every other thing i ok, u will believe that with time, u'll come to love the person. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Don't Love? by Nija4Life(m): 2:21pm On Aug 05, 2009 |
Well for me the answer is a straight NO because I am already married to someone I truly loved and who also loves me. Love is very essential in any relationship including marriage. Love enables you to accomodate the other person's shortcomings which is difficult to do when you're not in love. Unfortunately these days marriages are built on other superficial attractions other than love and it's not surprising many marriages end before they even started |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Don't Love? by teababy: 2:27pm On Aug 05, 2009 |
it depends on how u define love,if the person does not respect me then am off |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Don't Love? by Nija4Life(m): 2:34pm On Aug 05, 2009 |
Well you can define love in your own way but how can someone who loves you don't respect you? That falls short of love for me |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Don't Love? by bootycall(f): 2:37pm On Aug 05, 2009 |
Yes i can,love alone is not the basics for marriage.Love can come with time if every other thing is in place. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Don't Love? by eplanner: 2:39pm On Aug 05, 2009 |
Capital NO |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Don't Love? by Nija4Life(m): 2:41pm On Aug 05, 2009 |
@bootycall Are you married? If not then I wouldn't be surprised with your reply and would really be interested to know what other things you think are required for a succesful marriage |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Don't Love? by akigbemaru: 2:46pm On Aug 05, 2009 |
sweetpain: I guess you are right! I came across a lot of friends like that who don't like their girls at first. After months of "if you Bleep and I Bleep u" they became true companions and insperable! |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Don't Love? by Meyour: 2:49pm On Aug 05, 2009 |
It so shocking can u follow whom u didn,t knw expect the supreme God, i can,t marry such oerson dat i dont love. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Don't Love? by Witi(m): 2:55pm On Aug 05, 2009 |
Life will be miserable marrying someone you don't love. 2 Likes |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Don't Love? by Deshola: 2:57pm On Aug 05, 2009 |
No way! |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Don't Love? by Ben13: 3:01pm On Aug 05, 2009 |
The love might ressurect after the wedding . . .I mean during the marriage. don't you think so? |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Don't Love? by Nija4Life(m): 3:06pm On Aug 05, 2009 |
@Ben2001 Don't be naive to go into marriage thinking you can change anything about a person, it doesn't work that way 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Don't Love? by Ben13: 3:12pm On Aug 05, 2009 |
Ok. .sir! 'm still a kid. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Don't Love? by Nija4Life(m): 3:14pm On Aug 05, 2009 |
@Ben2001 Nothing personal I am speaking from experience |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Don't Love? by Ben13: 3:19pm On Aug 05, 2009 |
Jeeez! u're d one talking it personal. . .cos, I humbly said, Yes sir! except u want some other thing from me. Back to topic. . . I can't marry someone I don't love. I hope I'll be left alone now |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Don't Love? by Fhemmmy: 3:47pm On Aug 05, 2009 |
Nope. Nope and Nope. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Don't Love? by eniolape: 4:31pm On Aug 05, 2009 |
Impossible |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Don't Love? by vislabraye(m): 4:49pm On Aug 05, 2009 |
Aloy_Emeka:Every other thing you need like what. What exactly do you mean by love? Is it the passion or what? If you can't get passion from a person then there is nothing else in th relationship |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Don't Love? by Nezan(m): 6:08pm On Aug 05, 2009 |
marriage is all about accepting your partner the way he/she is, this is impossible to achieve if you guys are not in love. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Don't Love? by Fhemmmy: 6:08pm On Aug 05, 2009 |
Nezan: True dat |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Don't Love? by Dave6: 6:34pm On Aug 05, 2009 |
You are in a relationship wit someone u don't even love, then that's not a true relationship. Then what . . . talk about marriage? Hmmm |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Don't Love? by phemygee(m): 6:35pm On Aug 05, 2009 |
I can't marry oh, I can only date if she has kudi, |
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