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10 Ways To Love A Job You Hate by Maleeq(m): 6:05pm On Jul 22, 2012

Even people who are relatively happy at work go through periods when they hate their jobs—for days, weeks or even months at a time. Sure, you can quit when the going gets tough, but it’s hard to do that gracefully.
Plus finding something better in today’s tight job market can be a challenge. Thinking about self-employment? That too, has its ups and downs.

So let’s assume you decide to hang in there for awhile rather than bolting. Here are 10 things you can do to make things better.

1. Negotiate changes in your job description.
Talk to your boss about altering your workload or the kind of work you currently do. Whether you’re overworked and overwhelmed, or completely unchallenged, your boss will understand that you will never be as productive as you could be unless something gives.
Just being able to have this conversation can be a great start to shaping something new. Your goal is to come up with a solution that will not only be best for you, but also work for your boss, your team and your organization.

2. Arrange to work with different people.
Even if you don’t necessarily hate your co-workers, it can refresh your outlook on your work and the aspects of it that you hate to involve different people. On upcoming projects, ask to be teamed with individuals you don’t usually work with or even interact with around the office.
On a more informal basis, you can ask these people to react to various ideas or include them in your brainstorming sessions. Another possibility is to find out whether your organization has retained external consultants who you could team up with on certain assignments. Mix it up to get a new take on things.

3. Seek synergy.
If you already know which people you enjoy working with and work well with, find more opportunities to collaborate with them. Internally this could mean asking permission to work on your next presentation with someone you know you have good chemistry with.
Externally, there may be individual suppliers and customers with whom you have a particularly good rapport. Nurture these relationships, strengthen these bonds and take an active role in continuing to grow and develop them. If you’ve previously worked well with specific external consultants, consider asking for their input again.

4. Transfer to a different team or department.
If there’s nothing going for you where you are, think about maneuvering a sideways shift. See if your boss is open to the idea of your transferring to a different business area. Think smartly about how you can be helpful in bringing this about, rather than sitting back and expecting to be moved somewhere new. Do some research before submitting your request and look at which areas of the organization play to your strengths or what new teams are on the horizon that you might want to get involved with. Seek opportunities where your input can be valued.

5. Find a confidant.
Regardless of whether you stay in your current team or switch to a different one, there will be times where you’ll just want to let off steam. Although your boss is the person to talk to about a lot of issues, this is not the kind of individual we’re talking about here. An alternative confidant may be a colleague, a mentor or a close friend in another department. Choose carefully: it should be someone you can trust and have a private conversation with in a closed space, knowing it will go no further.

6. Make the most of your free time.
A lot of us find ourselves resenting the time we spend at work because of what we’re doing –or rather not doing– with our time away from the desk. Spend time off with the people you care about, make sure you get enough sleep, and build in quality time for yourself. Schedule activities that invigorate and energize you. Finding time to chill and unwind will help you enjoy both work and play more.

7. Don’t neglect diet and fitness.
A poor diet leaves us feeling sluggish and irritable, exacerbating any negative feelings we may have about work. By eating well and exercising regularly, we increase our energy levels and alertness and lift our mood. You might be surprised at how much these changes can contribute to a more positive attitude about your job.

8. Reset your work clock.
If you resent your job because your work schedule restricts you from doing the school run or dropping in on your elderly parents during the day, don’t feel you have to put up with it in silence. Talk to your employer about possibly shifting your hours. For example, to give yourself time to do the morning school run, you could start work a little later and finish up a little later. A growing number of organizations are amenable to flexible work schedules.

9. Adapt your surroundings.
If we’re spending at least eight hours a day, five days a week staring at the same blank four walls and the same boring desk, it’s little wonder our office space can feel like a prison and our job like a life sentence. Personalize your working space with photos of friends and family, favorite ornaments or decorations or even a vase of brightly colored flowers. If your chair is uncomfortable or the wrong height, bring in a cushion or two and ask your office manager or a co-worker to demonstrate how to adjust your seat height.

10. Prune the backlog.
Few things are more demoralizing at work than the inbox on your computer screen filled with unsorted and unread emails or the inbox on your desk crammed with papers you haven’t even glanced at yet. Set aside time to sort emails and hard copies into different folders so you have a clearer idea of where things stand. Also, play around with the apps on your tablet or smartphone to see which ones can help you be more organized going forward.
source: How Turn A Job You Hate Into A Job You Love

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Re: 10 Ways To Love A Job You Hate by Afam4eva(m): 2:25pm On Jul 23, 2012
All na zobo abeg.

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Re: 10 Ways To Love A Job You Hate by princeFAD: 2:26pm On Jul 23, 2012
on point
Re: 10 Ways To Love A Job You Hate by tonyx4x44(m): 2:27pm On Jul 23, 2012
prince FAD: on point
Re: 10 Ways To Love A Job You Hate by stepo707: 2:32pm On Jul 23, 2012
Doesn't work in Nigeria!

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Re: 10 Ways To Love A Job You Hate by Lordrama: 2:32pm On Jul 23, 2012
sorry
Re: 10 Ways To Love A Job You Hate by sylve11: 2:35pm On Jul 23, 2012
smiley cool
Re: 10 Ways To Love A Job You Hate by kayswag100(m): 2:36pm On Jul 23, 2012
text book crap written by some1 who possibly hasnt worked in an inconvinent position all his/her life!

. . . Imagine one who works as a customer care consultant, attending 2 irate customers 7hts, 30mins, 5dys a week (9t shift inclusive); with Indian bosses who WONT listen but care ONLY about d next call u pick? No time flexibility, job security, and no negotiations for departmental change?

...worst of all, U CANT QUIT NOW because IT ALL U'V GOT!!!!

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Re: 10 Ways To Love A Job You Hate by SisiKill1: 2:37pm On Jul 23, 2012
Matt- God! I hate my job! I can't stand my boss, bitch knows nothing yet she gets paid 10times my salary! I hate the pay. . .I mean I am literally working for peanuts! I hate my cubicle it so tiny! I hate my freaking co-workers. . .back stabbers, all of them.

Mukaila - God! What I will give to be in your shoes right now. . .At least you have a job!

OP know thy audience!!!

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Re: 10 Ways To Love A Job You Hate by miteolu(m): 3:10pm On Jul 23, 2012
[size=14pt]I CANT QUIT A JOB WHEN I HAVE NOT GOTTEN ANOTHER JOB. [/size]

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Re: 10 Ways To Love A Job You Hate by yommy2sure(m): 4:23pm On Jul 23, 2012
Life is too short to be spent on something you dont like at all just because its paying the bills...if you cant build excitement around it.....just get out and go start something you really love!
Re: 10 Ways To Love A Job You Hate by peruxie: 5:16pm On Jul 23, 2012
I Freaking hate my job!!duno if this will work
Re: 10 Ways To Love A Job You Hate by Nobody: 5:51pm On Jul 23, 2012
miteolu: [size=14pt]I CANT QUIT A JOB WHEN I HAVE NOT GOTTEN ANOTHER JOB. [/size]
That's you. I'm about quitting a job even though I don't have another to fall back on. I hinge my trust in GOD.
Re: 10 Ways To Love A Job You Hate by Stallion77(f): 7:23pm On Jul 23, 2012
careytommy:
That's you. I'm about quitting a job even though I don't have another to fall back on. I hinge my trust in GOD.

Wisdom is profitable to direct...do not leave ur job if u dont hav anoda to fall to or even a biz to fall back to.Dont make a mistake u will regret...i hav passed tru dis road b4...i knw wat dat means.
Re: 10 Ways To Love A Job You Hate by Afodot0022(m): 8:47pm On Jul 23, 2012
ha, my job attimes could be so irritating, frustrating and stressful. Attendin 2 customas 4rm morning 2 evening counting their cash al tru witout no rest. Sometimes u hate ur job nd think abt quiting at that particular moment. A job where u pay when ur cash is short despite ur working hard. No motivation, nd my boss not helping mata . She talk 2u as if u zero. Anyway got no choice now cos thats what paying d bill. Now i dont work wit full capacity cos they dont appreciate ur effort. Mole waku jo.
Re: 10 Ways To Love A Job You Hate by makonko(m): 10:10pm On Jul 23, 2012
Afodot0022: ha, my job attimes could be so irritating, frustrating and stressful. Attendin 2 customas 4rm morning 2 evening counting their cash al tru witout no rest. Sometimes u hate ur job nd think abt quiting at that particular moment. A job where u pay when ur cash is short despite ur working hard. No motivation, nd my boss not helping mata . She talk 2u as if u zero. Anyway got no choice now cos thats what paying d bill. Now i dont work wit full capacity cos they dont appreciate ur effort. Mole waku jo.

Sounds like a bank job grin
Re: 10 Ways To Love A Job You Hate by Afodot0022(m): 10:34pm On Jul 23, 2012
makonko:

Sounds like a bank job grin
u can imagine jo
Re: 10 Ways To Love A Job You Hate by blackbeau1(f): 10:40pm On Jul 23, 2012
@ op,if you work in nigeria,u will understand that all the things you've mentioned above are just textbook stories. As for those of you that intend to quit your job inspite of not having anything to fall back on,I'd advocate that you do not try it.do your families a favour and keep working until uve found something better to do.or else,you will end up being a bitter disappointed person.
Re: 10 Ways To Love A Job You Hate by Nobody: 12:41am On Jul 24, 2012
kayswag100: text book crap written by some1 who possibly hasnt worked in an inconvinent position all his/her life!

. . . Imagine one who works as a customer care consultant, attending 2 irate customers 7hts, 30mins, 5dys a week (9t shift inclusive); with Indian bosses who WONT listen but care ONLY about d next call u pick? No time flexibility, job security, and no negotiations for departmental change?

...worst of all, U CANT QUIT NOW because IT ALL U'V GOT!!!!
so fcking thru...
Re: 10 Ways To Love A Job You Hate by Honeycity(f): 9:31am On Jul 24, 2012
learn to love your job, even though it sucks just hang in there cus thats wots paying your bills
Re: 10 Ways To Love A Job You Hate by Money12: 10:01am On Jul 24, 2012
OMG! I always tought i am the only one that " hate my job". Yeah. I hate it & there is no means of practice all these 10 good point.
Am a marketer in an Organization. Unfortunatenly, what we are selling is saturated in the market, & my salary had been slashed from 70k to 28k. Now imagine wot would happen if i call my inpatient Boss 4 negotiation al whatever. What would be will be.
Re: 10 Ways To Love A Job You Hate by Egelife(m): 12:11pm On Jul 24, 2012
I've alwayz said this- forget about working in private owned establishments who usually see their staff as slaves and pray to GOd for a federal government job,some times my heart skips for those working in Lagos, though d pay are not alwayz attractive bt come to think off It, its margins are not much, u av ur time for ur private businesses, ur pension is alwayz waiting 4 u, u don't av to worry about ur boss cos in most cases they are not alwayz at work,av worked in both and I can tell these great differences
Re: 10 Ways To Love A Job You Hate by Emmana(m): 4:17pm On Jul 24, 2012
GOOD TALK
Re: 10 Ways To Love A Job You Hate by forgiven(m): 9:56pm On Jul 24, 2012
miteolu: [size=14pt]I CANT QUIT A JOB WHEN I HAVE NOT GOTTEN ANOTHER JOB. [/size]

Yes you can, only you have not got the right motivation.

Afodot0022: ha, my job attimes could be so irritating, frustrating and stressful..... Now i dont work wit full capacity cos they dont appreciate ur effort. Mole waku jo.

Very wrong approach. Always work at your full capacity as if you are doing your own personal work with a purpose.
Re: 10 Ways To Love A Job You Hate by cindyrella(f): 7:22am On Jul 25, 2012
This won't work in nija
Re: 10 Ways To Love A Job You Hate by profstar(m): 1:16am On Nov 04, 2012
Thanks man i guess i gained something from your post

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