Wait till the "Igbo-Yoruba" cultural troupe jams this thread.
why don't you and your bride/groom to be consult with your families,relatives and decide on what's best for two of you?
In as much as we all want to do things right and follow our traditions,when it comes to marriage,a couple should be able to make personal choices/ decisions based on their pocket and taste.
Congrats on your marriage.I love inter tribal marriages.

See that's the problem. We are consulting but everyone seems to have different ideas
My mum (yoruba) says that the groom ought to come to the brides church to get married, but my partner seems to think its the other way round.

In Igboland, the man marries the woman and not the other way around, therefore the traditional marriage ceremony must be done in the bride's church compound.

Since he is marrying the woman, he must marry her according to the customs of her people.

As for attire, it doesn't really matter if the husband is not concerned with it.

Good luck!

Thanks guys!
Looks like hubby-to-be is getting his wires crossed. I would like like to get as many opinions on the subject (also any other aspect of the wedding/marriage procedure) before I confront him with the evidence!

Too much drama right now. The wedding has been called off

Awww
This must be the handiwork of "Bluetooth-Dayokanu V chino-Okija juju"
Sweetie,what went wrong ? Dry your tears,it is well.