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Politics / Re: Why Wike Halted Impeachment Plot Against Governor Fubara by abdullahi45: 2:49pm On Nov 12, 2023
adebayo987:
This is propaganda, also you're just beating around the bush. Wike himself is neither ashamed nor afraid of anything. He clearly stops the impeachment because Tinubu entered the case. Nothing else!

He knew he rigged the 2023 election. Guess what? He even said it on the TV that he said they agreed to give first position to APC and second position to LP, then 3rd position to PDP in Rivers State presidential election. So, that guy is a fearless man who doesn't shy away from his crime.

Fearless you said, shameless would've been the right word.
Health / Re: My HIV Test Result - Farside by abdullahi45: 1:21pm On Nov 12, 2023
Beware Op, sin no more
Health / Re: My HIV Test Result - Farside by abdullahi45: 1:19pm On Nov 12, 2023
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Family / Re: Should I Divorce Or Remain Subjected To This Punishment For My Infidelity? by abdullahi45: 7:33pm On Nov 06, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:
"Sir, should I divorce or remain subject to this punishment for my infidelity? Or leave and start a new life without my family? What should I do ?

I am a married woman. I have no problems in my marriage. My husband had just been posted to another city. But I knew a young man when I was younger. We got back in touch. As chance would have it, we ran into each other one day when we were leaving the hospital.

We called each other regularly and saw each other. But I couldn't imagine it could reignite the flame still inside me. Unknown to my husband I told him out and welcomed him home. One day I introduced my husband to him. Everything was fine.

One day I fall so low by sleeping with him in my home. The children returning from school accompanied by my husband caught us in the act.

My husband and the children didn't say anything and my friend also left. Since that day neither my husband nor the children speak to me. No one eats the food I make. No child accepts that I even touch them for their shower. No one asks for my help with their class assignment. My friend also abandoned me.

I begged my husband for forgiveness but nothing. It has already been 11 months that I have lived as a stranger in the house. Their silence weighs on me. I told my parents about this.

My father no longer speaks to me. My mother occasionally only insults and calls me a harlot and stupid. I don't dare tell his family exactly. My husband also didn't tell his family.

I'm so ashamed of what I did. I broke my home. I do not know what to do"

Indeed, when a man and a woman are in a private space, devil is usually the third. Best way to avoid stories that hurt is by completely staying away from such situation.
Health / Re: I Tricked My Guy Into HIV Oral Test And This Is Now Happening by abdullahi45: 7:13pm On Oct 28, 2023
Adonis69:
Earlier this year I met this guy and we became friends. He started visiting my apartment because him and his friends just moved into my compound. But I noticed that although he looks athletic, well built and physically fit but he's very sexually active, swinging both ways.
Yesterday I got an oral quick HIV test kit and told him it was for gonorrhea test because he's not that enlightened. So he accepted to the test. When the result came out, he's HIV positive. I wasn't so sure, so I contacted a HIV health worker and he confirmed that the owner of the test is positive.

Now, should I tell him or keep it to myself because he's already telling me that condom busted the last time he was having sex with a lady, which gave him gonorrhea. So he was taking drugs for it and was asking me how to prevent such from happening in future. I've advised him to double the condom, since he has a very huge and slightly curved dick, which is the cause of the tear during sex.

So pep, should I tell him he's positive or mind my business? He's been running temperature since yesterday and was complaining of cough and catarrh.

First, I do not know how you manage to have access to his private area.

Second, you gave him a very terrible advice. Note that, "You should never use more than one condom at a time. Using two condoms actually offers less protection than using just one. Why? Using two condoms can cause friction between them, weakening the material and increasing the chance that the condoms might break."

Third, advise him to go for STI tests, including HIV.

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Family / Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by abdullahi45: 11:18am On Aug 17, 2023
Puss360:

Wahala... Oya judge for yourself...
I hate unnecessary argument...

And I'm done with this topic..
Make I rest ...

And don't forget to check the remaining 10 countries.

Family / Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by abdullahi45: 11:10am On Aug 17, 2023
Yinkusgold:


Exaggeration

Abdullahi45

I know right. She is trying very hard to defend her points.
Family / Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by abdullahi45: 7:39pm On Aug 16, 2023
Puss360:

60% of thos living in Qatar are foreigners mainly from Western world.

Trying very hard to fulfill your one-sided argument, huh. How about the other countries that support polygamy and still make the list?
Family / Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by abdullahi45: 6:37pm On Aug 16, 2023
Puss360:
Psychologically, Humans are the most difficult species to understand...
Benefits of Polygamy heavily lies on the mentality of the Man... Not the woman...
There are many reasons men go into polygamy... Some are for sex, some are for children, some are for love generally....
But the most absurd is those who marry "to help some women avoid being a spinster"....

Years back when the earth isn't so populated and technologically advanced,we can encourage polygamy to have more children to increase agricultural production...
But now, this 21st century, Polygamy is an "Economic weigh down" on any country that allows polygamy...
We might not agree, but top 20 richest countries in terms of GDP PPP, doesn't support polygamy, infact most sef are LGBTQ friendly so as to reduce population and increase production and wealth to share among available citizens ...

Don't quote me blindly, do your research and think....

In addition; it's easier for a single man to have 6 kids and train to maximum 18yrs, but it's a heavy burden to the government to provide social amenities to all those kids...
6 kids from one man, uses government road, government electricity, government hospital, occupy government school...
All of dem from one man... Lol...
Now imagine 50 men having 6 kids each... And only like 35 of the men are working...
Isn't it a heavy burden

Have you heard of Qatar, UAE, Saudi Arabia, Bahrain, Brunei? They all make the list, don't they?

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Family / Re: My Husband Is Not The Same Man I Married. by abdullahi45: 1:42pm On Aug 14, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:

*From a concerned lady*👇‼️

My husband is not the same man I fell in love with.

My husband changed totally after wedding day, in fact, it started on the wedding night and its giving me a lot of concern.

It's not that he is not talking to me or we are fighting, but he is not the cheerful happy person anymore.

After months of trying to get what the problem is, he finally opened up to me and I don't know what my fault is, I think he is overreacting.

My husband works in an insurance company and he is just a junior staff, he earns 150k per month, so he is not doing that bad.

When we wanted to get married, my dad wrote the wedding list and everything he would bring, when he saw them, he fumed that they were too much and they should reduce it but my dad insisted that he won't collect it twice, I also told him if he really loves me, he would provide them, he could get help from his family too, it is called bride price and other things, and it is once.

We had little issue then but he later resolved it.

He brought everything they asked for.

During the wedding, my parents told him to buy a cow, rent a hall and decorate it then they'll take care of other things. He said he didn't have money for a big hall and he would prefer a field ground but my dad insisted that rain could disrupt things and he has many people coming.

That almost cause issues too, I had to support him with 50k to get the hall because I know who my dad is, he won't back out.

I didn't know how he did it, he took the hall and designed it, he bought cow too.

His family brought food and everything went fine and that was it.

I don't know what was keeping him moody until he spoke up.

He said I couldn't fight for him, I was there supporting my parents and watch them extorting him, did I even know he had to collect loan to pay for those things?

I got angry because he used the word 'extorting'.

He was the one that wanted to have my hand in marriage and if he cherish me, he should do all they wanted since he is not paying twice.

After I said this, he stopped talking in the house, he comes home, eat and go to bed.

I tried talking to him but he would listen but not talk, he is cold to himself and prefer his privacy.

Have I said something wrong?

I don't like whats happening. My marriage is too young to be going through all these.

I am tired, I don't know what to do.

Advise this lady

A wedding lasts a day, but a marriage lasts a lifetime. Just because he won't do the wedding twice doesn't mean you should burden the poor guy with ridiculous expenses.

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Sports / Re: Nigeria Beats Rwanda, Reaches 4th Straight Afrobasket Women's Final by abdullahi45: 2:14am On Aug 04, 2023
Great team effort. Well done girls!
Romance / Re: Is She Deceiving Me About Her Virginity Status? by abdullahi45: 3:10pm On Aug 03, 2023
Honeybadgerxx:



Exactly what I'm thinking. But this girl swore with her life that she hasn't even kissed a guy before not to talk of sex, I guess she masturbates.

Now bro, what do you think, let's assume she hasn't been penetrated by anyone before and she lost her virginity to masturbation, should one go on with the wedding plans with such lady? Since the whole reason behind this virginity stuffs is to avoid fornication. I really don't care about her masturbating provided she will stop it after getting married, my problem is her having sex with someone else. Should I go on and marry her, I really love her and she loves me more than I do to her, she's respectful, she's beautiful, she's educated and sensible at least for a lady.

And I also want to know if masturbation is same thing with fornication?

Come off it dude, no one will tell you whether to marry someone or not, you have to make that decision yourself. Stop being petty. Make serious inquiries about her from those that know her and will give genuine information about her. Pray over things. Evaluate whether you see a future together with her, be real and avoid being manipulated. If all patterns align accordingly, then go for it.
Romance / Re: Is She Deceiving Me About Her Virginity Status? by abdullahi45: 3:02pm On Aug 03, 2023
talented321:
My concern is why do u choose marriage before sex' as OG way u be.
Fine she may be a virgin or not but that is not enough reason to wait till marriage for this present age.
What if after marriage u discovered she don't have a kpekus or she is not a virgin' but with a borehole
Oga if her claim of virginity is real' then she is masturbating.

And there you go openly encouraging fornication. I hope you realize one day that this world isn't about short minute pleasure.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Slave Masters At Work Place by abdullahi45: 2:48pm On Jul 13, 2023
ChatterHouse:
If you invest in this country an give this jobless youth Job, They will still come online and berate you for putting food in their table
Bunch of ingrate

What ever an employer do is right as long as its benefits the company and moves it up

Stop whinning and work or Leave it for serious people


Best joke of the century! Why is it too difficult to be professional and keep the job to the office. With your argument, I guess employers should start including those weird errands in the job description.

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Education / Re: Aminat Yusuf: LASU Best Student Takes Her Parents To Governor Sanwo-Olu (Video) by abdullahi45: 2:26am On Jul 07, 2023
TemplarLandry:
Amina, let your hair breaaaf.
Don't suffocate the hair. (In Aşiwaju's voice)

It's worthwhile that brain and modesty ain't mutually exclusive.
Politics / Re: Throwback Photo Of Kashim Shettima And His Wife Nana In The Late 90s by abdullahi45: 5:33am On Jun 01, 2023
SugarGirl44:


They were upcoming slaves back then.
Now they’re full time slaves to the arabs.

Wailers will always wail. grin
Politics / Re: Former President Buhari Arrives Katsina Airport Enroute To Daura (photos) by abdullahi45: 4:13am On May 31, 2023
Goodlady:

No rest for the wicked!
He deserved hell!

I believe he did his own part to the best of his ability. Whatever is left is between him and his creator.
Politics / Re: Former President Buhari Arrives Katsina Airport Enroute To Daura (photos) by abdullahi45: 6:40pm On May 29, 2023
Goodlady:
Buhariiiiii I didn't enjoy your tenure.
You are now former aka former president . May Nigeria happen to you and your family so soon, amen.
I v a gift for you cos your tenure is the worst!
Take just one fûck!

Let the old man rest.
Health / Re: See My Narrow Escape Back Then Before I Got Married, You Will Learn From It by abdullahi45: 3:06am On May 28, 2023
taylor89:
How entire family will be HIV carriers?

Them do group sex?

If it was the parents that’s understandable but I no come understand with siblings? Abi them drink am from water in the dinning table

This kind story be like wetin them buy for junction but what do I know. To even think you’re a medical doctor who ended his statement saying HIV is real

Which kind of Doctor? Native doctor? Abi which one

Anyways thank God for saving your life

Im not moved though bcuz Fvck dey hungry me like this

Don’t bother advising me about HIV, if i smell TOTO I go know wether e get HIV or not


Aren't you aware that parents could pass on HIV to their kids, either during pregnancy, birth, or breastfeeding, if the viral load isn't below the baseline.
Family / Re: You Left Your Husband Because He Was Cheating. Then This Happens (pix) by abdullahi45: 5:14am On Apr 29, 2023
dazzlingd:


You can cheat the system, get yourself one wife, but bang as many women as you can in your life time. Don’t just get caught by your wife so you can maintain a healthy family. Don’t let your kids find out too so you will keep your respect.
Make plenty money and go on some kind vacations where you can chop your life and what happens there stays there

And what about God, a system that can never be cheated and nothing is unknown to him?
Politics / Re: Tinubu Seeks More Patriotism In Sallah Message by abdullahi45: 9:43am On Apr 21, 2023
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Politics / Re: Tinubu Seeks More Patriotism In Sallah Message by abdullahi45: 9:42am On Apr 21, 2023
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Politics / Re: 2023 Elections Proudest Achievement Of My Govt – Buhari by abdullahi45: 9:40am On Apr 21, 2023
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Politics / Re: Atiku Congratulates Fintiri, Declares One More Major Mandate To Reclaim by abdullahi45: 6:48pm On Apr 18, 2023
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Health / Re: Over 700 Nigerians Die From Oral Cancer Annually – Ehanire by abdullahi45: 1:33pm On Apr 17, 2023
logicalhumour:
shocked

God might have to deliver me. I saw "Oral..." and my mind autocompleted the sentence to something else. What have I turned into? Ahhh

You ain't too far off. That too is a risk factor. HPV has been implicated in such types of cancer and it can be sexually transmitted.
Health / Re: Over 700 Nigerians Die From Oral Cancer Annually – Ehanire by abdullahi45: 1:30pm On Apr 17, 2023
Islam for Muslims / Re: Lessons From Hadith 7 Of The 40 Ḥadīth Of An-nawawih: Avoiding Doubtful Matters by abdullahi45: 9:34am On Apr 14, 2023
Jazakallahu khairan

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Islam for Muslims / Re: The Importance Of Giving Sadaqa (charity) by abdullahi45: 9:34am On Apr 14, 2023
hgnbello:
Bismillah Hir Rahman Nir Raheem

All praise is due to Allah, the Lord of the Worlds, and may His peace and blessings be upon His final messenger, Muhammad, and upon his family and companions.

Dear brothers and sisters in Islam, Today, I would like to talk about the importance of giving Sadaqa, the voluntary charity that we give for the sake of Allah.

As Muslims, we are blessed with many opportunities to give Sadaqa, whether it is in the form of Zakat, which is a compulsory charity that we give once a year, or other forms of voluntary charity, such as helping the needy, supporting Islamic causes, and contributing to the well-being of our community.

Giving Sadaqa is an essential part of our faith, and it carries great rewards and benefits, both in this life and in the hereafter. Allah has promised us in the Quran that those who give Sadaqa will receive manifold rewards from Him, and their wealth will not decrease as a result of their giving. Allah says in Surah Al-Baqarah:

"The example of those who spend their wealth in the way of Allah is like a seed [of grain] which grows seven spikes; in each spike is a hundred grains. And Allah multiplies [His reward] for whom He wills. And Allah is all-Encompassing and Knowing." [2:261]

Brothers and sisters, giving Sadaqa is not only a means of earning rewards, but it is also a way of purifying our wealth and purifying our souls. When we give Sadaqa, we demonstrate our gratitude to Allah for the blessings He has bestowed upon us, and we acknowledge that everything we have comes from Him. By giving to those in need, we strengthen the bonds of brotherhood and sisterhood in our community, and we fulfill our obligation to help those who are less fortunate.

Moreover, giving Sadaqa is a way of seeking the pleasure of Allah and earning His forgiveness. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, "Charity extinguishes sin as water extinguishes fire." [Tirmidhi]

Dear brothers and sisters, we should always remember that the wealth we possess is not truly ours, but it is a trust from Allah. Therefore, we should use it in a way that pleases Him and benefits others. Giving Sadaqa is a way of fulfilling this trust, and it is a means of earning the love and mercy of Allah.

In conclusion, let us remember the importance of giving Sadaqa and the great rewards and benefits that come with it. Let us strive to give generously for the sake of Allah, and let us purify our wealth and souls through our charitable acts. May Allah accept our Sadaqa and bless us with His mercy and forgiveness.

And Allah knows best.

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Islam for Muslims / Re: The Difference Between Zakatul AL-Fitr And Zakah On Wealth by abdullahi45: 9:33am On Apr 14, 2023
Lukgaf:
All praise is due to Allah.

As Muslims, we are required to observe the five pillars of Islam, and one of these is giving zakat (zakat on wealth). It's important to note that zakat al-fitr (also known as Sadaqatul-fitr), which must be paid at the end of Ramadan, is different from the regular zakat on wealth.

Brothers and sisters, let us not forget that the time for giving zakat al-fitr is fast approaching. Remember that this must be paid before Eid al-Fitr, so make sure you fulfill this obligation in a timely manner.

May Allah accept our good deeds and make it easy for us to fulfill our duties towards Him. Ameen.

Jazakallahu khairan

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Islam for Muslims / Re: Ruling On Zakaat Al-fitr And How Much Is To Be Paid? by abdullahi45: 9:33am On Apr 14, 2023
Ma Sha Allah

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Religion / Re: CAN Accuses Peak Milk Company Of Offensive Advert, Demands Apology by abdullahi45: 4:21pm On Apr 10, 2023
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Events / Re: Nigerian Lady Dances In A Daring Outfit At A Wedding Event, Causes A Stir by abdullahi45: 3:57pm On Apr 10, 2023
Too bad

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