cococandy:
OP the thing you could have done to avoid conflict is to let them make the big decisions since they have been taking care of her since she was born.

You don’t have to have your way. Since you didn’t want to marry the lady, you should have realized you won’t have a great deal of access to her life. Go along with their plans and support as much as you can.

You are very wicked.

Op.. Please ignore