Wawelexy:
Yoruba call this Àlànbééré... They lied to us that it will turn to a snake after seeing it, but there's a song you have to sing to avoid it turning to a snake...

African and hoax are like 5 & 6

The song you have to sing to avoid it turning to a snake is as follows -

Alayonbere mo ri e, mo ri e mo ri e, mo ri e, ko to dejo mo ti dabere. (Alayonbere I don sight you o but before you have the chance to turn into a snake, I have turned into a needle)

Zico5:
When will Akpabio resign over budget padding? Nigeria is just a theater of play. Instead for those principal officers of the Senate to be suspended for fraud, they are the one suspending a senator. I have given up on this country many years ago.

Senator Shehu Sani said a few days ago that the minute you are a whistle blower in the Senate or House of reps, your colleagues will suspend you and stop your salary and allowances hence even the ones who want to say the truth will NEVER do so for fear of what to eat and how to fund their lavish lifestyles.

So, NOTHING good can come out of the National Assembly nor from Tinubu, Wike, Akpabio and the lot of them corrupt, greedy and wicked Nigerian politicians.

NFBI:
We didn't come to this world to have only sex

The most important organ in his body (his brain) is intact and I will not be surprised if in the near future, he becomes a world class computer programmer since his brain, eyes and one hand are still intact.

Ilide:
Some girls can pay the sacrifice. But oyibo love is fire shaa. If they love you they love you.

Spot on. Their own love is pure and when they fall out of love, they tell you straight away without deceiving you just to get money from you unlike some women from a certain country and continent who don't have love in their hearts and everything is commercialized to them.

Melagros:
If this incident had happened in Nigeria the victim could have been buried since

Compare that with America where apart from the millions in compensation his employers will pay him, don't be suprised that very soon the guy will be driving a fully funded Government provided car that is adapted with hand controls.

A tale of 2 countries.

gbaskiboy:
Schauers is pictured with his girlfriend after his operation

This is touching and more spiritual than any Nigerian pastor can ever be.

gbaskiboy:
Schauers is pictured attending physiotherapy after the operation in Montana

If na for Nigeria, our wicked, corrupt, greedy, inhuman and diabolical politicians who would have stolen all the money needed to fund hospitals will use the opportunity to use the now disabled chap for rituals and some of them will even be scheming on how to sleep with his girlfriend by flaunting their stolen loot in her face.

gbaskiboy:
His girlfriend stood by him even when she was told it is impossible to save him from the horor

This is an example of for better for worse. It does not mean they may not disagree and call it quits in future but she did not rush to dump him immediately after his accident.

Some women from a certain country and continent need to learn what true love is from this young woman.

hammed71:
So did she file for another greencard for sowore

She must have by the look of things. As she was herself born in America together with their 2 kids, Senator Menendez made mention in one of the videos that as Sowore's wife and 2 kids were US citizens, then America will do all they can to ensure Sowore is allowed to travel back to the US from Nigeria so a good lawyer must have been contracted behind the scenes by Sowore's wife to fight his case for it to have been successful.

LagosFirstSon:
The useless leaders that you enthroned with your votes and ballot snatching are in Abuja sharing billions in the name of constituency projects, while you are at the market square standing under hot sun to buy left over crumbs.

Food for thought.

The day Nigerians will be delivered is when we get to a critical mass of people first knowing that they have been SEVERELY abused by our GREEDY NIGERIAN POLITICIANS and then realizing that it is their right as Nigerians to get fed for FREE by their Government if they can not afford to feed themselves just like it is done in civilized countries.

Corrupt Nigerian politicians have bastardized the humanity of Nigerians.

Konquest:
Police layoffs?... Now this is getting serious.
As the population increases in the UK with a gradual spike in crimes, more of such crack teams of specialist Police officers would be needed... And Police stations are also planned to be sold off to save money.
=>https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2024/03/15/met-police-murder-detectives-neil-cochin-homicide-budget/
=>https://www.standard.co.uk/news/politics/plans-to-sell-london-police-stations-put-on-hold-b1144734.html

Cc: Sukkot

If 60 Murder detectives in London are to lose their jobs and police stations are being sold off in London to save costs then there is serious fire on the mountain and any immigrant who thinks their job is secure is on a long thing.

In the UK many years ago getting a civil service job or NHS job was seen as a job for life and it was unimaginable that police officers will be fired or police stations sold to save costs but this is happening in London of 2024 and that tells me that the UK Government is hiding the extent of the belatedly announced recession (which might actually be a depression in my opinion).

These criminal Nigerian Politicians have moved away from stealing billions into the realm of trillions and whilst Nigeria's total GDP is 23 trillion Buhari borrowed 23 Trillion from CBN secured against future oill sales and Tinubu in just 9 months has borrowed and extra 8 Trillion to add to the figure. Now equally Greedy Wike does not want to be left out and his budget for the FCT is 1.1 Trillion just like than.

Its a season of steal as much as you can to secure your election rigging loot into perpetuity.

There was a country.

I don't even live in Nigeria and you would have thought that I will be immune from worrying about what these cannibals are doing to our dear country but East or West home is the best - at least that's what my dad taught us as kids.

But the minute Tinubu came near the ballot, I've been worried about the fate of Nigeria's Treasury under that master treasury looter called Tinubu.

God help Nigeria and deliver it from these HEARTLESS NIGERIAN POLITICIANS.

Raalsalghul:


On more than one occasions you have mentioned your ex-wife in your posts.

Looking back, do you think you should have left her in Nigeria and just send money for upkeep?

Husband living in one continent and wife in the other is not really marriage. I mentioned luck earlier and even in the UK I know some people who met in the UK and are still married although since we don't live with them we don't know the full story of their marriage.

Luck or the lack of it in anything is not something you can predict but if I knew what I know now, I would have delayed marriage if at all and would have married an English white woman as they seem to be more honest in and out of love (although you may have to deal with some subtle/ non subtle racism from some of their family members).

If I had married a black woman born and RAISED in the UK, the marriage might have lasted as these ones are also more honest and have more love in their hearts and will not be like some Naija raised women who show you fake love in Naija and become demons once you bring them to the UK.

Maybe marrying an illiterate Muslim woman is the solution for diasporan Nigerian men who still want to import a wife from Naija 'cos "genuine" Muslim women are less prone to seeking to kick the man out of his house in the UK, they frown at divorce, their families will even shut them down if they contemplate divorce and Muslim women in the UK are generally NOT into dragging power with their husbands.

The illiterate woman is less likely to access or want to follow toxic husband hating ideas on social media and the illiterate woman is always thinking of what her parents back home will say if she kicks her husband out once she gets to the UK.

I have a friend (bros actually) who brought his educated MUSLIM wife to the UK and after settling in the UK and realising that bros was not doing well financially, she got frustrated and phoned her mum in Kwara State to say she was tired of the marriage. Her Mum (a Muslim and an illiterate) told her to shut up and give the phone to her husband and her mum started begging my friend not to be angry at her daughter. The couple are still together more than 16 years on.

Another friend scared at how my Ex changed for the worse after 10 years of my bringing her to the UK (he knew my Ex in Naija) vowed that the night his wife lands in London, he would ask her to strip naked and stand on a bible and swear that she will not change into a monster. I'm not sure he fulfilled this pledge but knowing him, he probably did but I think his wife is still with him despite earning more than him (she is a hairdresser with her own salon) because a) she is not too educated and b) her mum is an illiterate who will not tolerate any talk of divorce from her and whenever she is playing up and my friend threatens to phone her mum in Naija to report her, she begs him not to as she does not want to be tongue lashed by her mum.

So, maybe the trick for those still wanting to import a wife from Naija is to go for a semi-illiterate or illiterate wife whose mum is an illiterate who will not tolerate any divorce talks from her daughter.

All in all, marriage NA STILL LUCK and NOBODY has the right formula for what I now feel is an unrealistic man made institution.

Of late, I'm beginning to believe that this marriage thing is a scam 'cos how do you expect 2 adults with 2 different brains and 2 different thought processes to love themselves forever ?

Raalsalghul:


How can a man who wants to get married in the U.K circumvent the bold.
How una dey do am self.

Most men in the UK just grin and bear it or if you are radical enough and don't want to go to prison on trumped up domestic violence charges you just move out of the house to save your sanity and freedom.

Forget the children as kids in the UK WILL always gang up with their mother against the father.

MOST married men in the UK are suffering and smiling and the weakest ones have become girls blouses all in the name of my wife, my wife, my kids, my kids.

The VERY few men who have dutiful loyal wives in the UK were just DAMNED LUCKY.

Marriage the world over for men is a lose lose contraption and marriage is a case of fools rush in where angels fear to tread.

yaseer111:
I am a street cleaner earning 15k monthly I save up to 80k now.

As a man thinketh, so is he. With your mindset, I have no doubt that you WILL suceed in life because you've got prudence, resilience, honesty, hard work ethic, resourcefulness, a teachable spirit, openness and a willingness to learn from others, risk taking ability and also you are bettering yourself by going to school.

YOU WILL SUCCEED IN LIFE.

TOBILOBA2023:
PLANTAIN CHIPS
PLANTAIN DODO

IT'S PROFITABLE. IF YOU HAVE A MARKET FOR IT.

Produce & Package in Nylon, Supply Aboki Shops and other small small shops. You can also supply whole sellers. You can also package in Plastic containers and supply offices and/or homes.

Very true. Plantain chips will always have a market wherever you have a lot of Nigerians including abroad.

I had a very close friend (bros actually as he is older than me) who made a lot of money by going to Brixton market in London many years ago to buy plantain and take it home, slice it (can't remember whether manual slicing of using a grater) and fry it in a deep fryer, spread it out to dry, bag it and seal the bags and then go around supplying both Nigerian and Asian shops.

Bros made so much money that he was able to pay a £40,000 deposit to buy a house and when he sold this house to move to a bigger one, he made a profit of £90,000 but he is no longer into this business as a) he was distracted by the problems the first wife he went to bring from Naija was giving him (she wanted to take his house from him) and b) I think the plantain crisp market became saturated in London.

All Nigerian Women especially those living in the UK, Europe and America need to learn LOYALTY from Sowore's Wife.

Sowore last week finally joined his wife and 2 children in America after 5 years of enforced captivity by the Nigerian government.

Throughout Sowore's travails, his wife stood by him and below are some of the steps she took to ensure that her husband rejoined her in the US -

1. She complained bitterly to Senator Bob Menendez who used his office to pressure the Nigerian Government as shown in the first video below.
2. She also complained to a member of the US House of Reps Congressman Josh Gottheimer
who also took up Sowore's case and was even part of Sowore's Homecoming celebration party in the US last week. Congressman Gottheimer even brought a gift for Sowore last week.
3. She complained to the Robert F. Kennedy Human Rights Centre that advocates for human rights issues and pursues strategic litigation to hold governments accountable at home and around the world.
4. She went on live TV programs on CNN and CBS News to talk about her fight to get her husband released from confinement to Abuja.
5. She led protesters to the United Nations Plaza in New York on September 24, 2019 to demand her husbands release.
6. Even when Sowore lost his American Green Card after 1 year of not visiting America, the wife did not give up on him or see it as a reason to declare herself as a single parent in the hope of collecting welfare support for her children and neither did she turn her childrens mind against their father in those 5 long years.
7. Instead she kept Sowore's case on the front burner by constantly reminding Senator Bob Menendez and Congressman Josh Gottheimer of Sowore's inability to leave Abuja talk less of coming back to America since his green card had expired after 1 year.
8. Because she was born in the US, she used that fact plus her UNRELENTING complaints to the 2 US lawmakers mentioned above to impress on the authorities and convince them to allow Sowore come back to re-unite with her and her 2 kids since they all were born in America.
9. Senator Bob Menendez pressured the Nigerian Government on Sowore's case as shown in the first video below and this is all thanks to Sowore's wife not giving up on her husband who was away for 5 years.
10. Sowore's wife ensured her husbands plight was ALWAYS kept on the front burner and this LOYALTY ensured that Sowore was able to reunite with her and their 2 kids last week in America.
11. Also important is that she did NOT turn Sowore's children into his enemies by lying to them, confusing them and brain washing them against THEIR FATHER in those 5 years of Sowore's absence like a LOT of Nigerian women in the UK, Europe and America are fond of doing (for single parent financial support from these foreign Governments) when the husband goes to Nigeria to try his hands at business for just a few months and these women lie to the children that THEIR FATHER has abandoned them.
12. His wife Opeyemi Sowore is the Vice President, Head of Consumer Engagement at Teladoc Health having previously led as executive at American Express, Citigroup and Delta Air Lines. She holds a BA from State University of New York at Binghamton in 1995 and an MBA from the Simon School of Business at the University of Rochester in 1997.
13. She has a good job, her own money, was born in America and yet she did not abandon Sowore who was away for 5 years !!!!!!!
14. What a woman. And how lucky Sowore is to have accidentally found such a LOYAL and DUTIFUL wife who loved him genuinely and did NOT give up on him or abandon him when he was stuck in Nigeria for 5 years.
15. Sowore and his wife are now embarking on a second honeymoon with their 2 kids in tow.

BEHIND EVERY HAPPY, ACHIEVING HUSBAND IS A LOYAL WIFE THAT REFUSES TO GIVE UP ON HIM IN TRYING TIMES.
https://twitter.com/RepJoshG/status/1766857418418368740
https://gottheimer.house.gov/posts/release-gottheimer-and-haworth-community-welcome-home-yele-sowore
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Opeyemi_Sowore
https://www.cbsnews.com/newyork/news/yele-sowore-jail-nigeria-release-reunited-with-family-new-jersey/

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T351Xlz1WKo

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2t1xkRnnnFs

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Uie70ZeJLzE

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6ow222n5yR0

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ytAr1ME0OXo

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2t1xkRnnnFs

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bCoxXiJOiqo

Zwooks:
Respect the dead. Dont parade them naked

If there is any need for proof that we are uncivilised in Nigeria, its the way we see nothing wrong in snapping and posting online pictures of defenceless dead people.

This is before we start talking about our super Corrupt Politicians unwillingness to provide for the weak, the disabled, the old and infirm.

When we see crippled beggars selling chewing gum in dangerous traffic to avoid starving or we drive past dead bodies on our highways without batting an eyelid, its a sign that we no longer have human feelings which is the foundation for building a healthy sustainable society.

A number of the universities in the United Kingdom, UK, face bankruptcy as the numbers of international students from India and Nigeria – the most populous countries in Asia and Africa respectively – have declined.

Serves the UK right. When the former Home Secretary Suella Braverman was villifying immigrants and even moved some asylum seekers onto a floating boat prison even when the fire brigade said it was a fire hazard and she did not even wait for the result of the tests on the water supply on the boat to come back before rushing to move the immigrants onto the boat. The water supply later turned out to be dangerous to humans before she now moved them off the boat.

Suella Braverman (and Rishi Sunak who looked the other way for selfish political reasons) for the past 2 years has been CONSTANTLY castigating and vilifying UK immigrants in the hope that the conservative party will win the next election if they appealed to the inherently racist tendencies of EVERY white UK citizen and then Suella can after the elections topple Rishi as PM since she is now loved by the majority of the electorate who are white and want to blame all their woes on immigrants.

The main thing in the UK right now is a desperate Prime Minister Rishi Sunak and his increasingly right wing (racist) conservative party trying to blame every problem in the UK on refugees and migrants just so they can tap into the inherently racist Oyinbo majority's sentiment and win this years election in which they are forecast to be wiped out.

The oyinbo politicians who will be called out as racist if they said the same thing Suella Braverman has said about foreigners and immigrants in the past 2 years are playing a dangerous game of outsourcing their racist ideas into the mouth of Suella Braverman a former Home Secretary and Attorney General of the UK in the hope that no one can call her out as racist because she is of indian heritage herself and Suella is basking in that opportunity and I can bet that she will win her seat in the elections and if Rishi loses the election for the conservatives, Suella will be made the Tory party leader because most white people like her racist rhetoric because she can say what they have always wanted to say about immigrants without her being called racist since she is brown skinned.

Until the UK realises that immigrants are not the cause of all their problems, I have no mercy for them.

I have no pity if the UK economy tanks as it currently doing and i was not really shocked when the London metropolitan Police announced a few days ago that 60 Murder Detectives were going to lose their jobs as a cost cutting measure to plug holes in their finances as they have spent all their reserves propping up their expenses and now their annual funding from the Govt is not enough to pay wages for all their police staff. This is serious if UK police is sacking experienced Murder detectives to save money.

I also just read that some London police stations are being sold off to save money.
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2024/03/15/met-police-murder-detectives-neil-cochin-homicide-budget/
https://www.standard.co.uk/news/politics/plans-to-sell-london-police-stations-put-on-hold-b1144734.html

A few hours ago, I saw 2 Oyinbo middle aged men approach our bulding and knowing it is election time soon, I thought they were Conservative Party vote canvassers and I went out to meet them but the one who stopped at our building and dropped Labour Party campaign leaflets through the letter box of every flat including mine turned out to be Labour party officials and I told him that I thought they were from the Conservative party and if so I had meant to tell them that I would NOT be voting for the Conservative party because of the divisive politics of Suella Braverman.

He agreed that Suella was a divisive figure before he left but from the tone of his voice, his body language and his wanting to leave in a hurry, I could sense that he is one of these stiff upper lipped white aristocrats who a) is wary around black people and b) thought they were better than anyone else talk less of black people and although he is from the Labour party, I made up my mind NOT to vote Labour as I originally intended but to vote for the Workers party founded by George Galloway since those ones SEEM more tolerant of the grass roots and George Galloway himself is closer to ethnic minorities than the Conservative and Labour parties.

In the UK and America there is a phenomenon called "White flight or white exodus" whereby white people start moving away en-masse from any areas where ethnic minorities have started moving into. Its very common in London and I first noticed it in the SW16 area of London many years ago when the Somalians first started moving into that area of London after the UK granted a lot of them Asylum during the Somalian civil war.

A former white colleague in the NHS tried to justify "white flight" and he was quite condescending towards black people by saying he has daily arguments online with black people where he tries to tell them that white people are better than black people. I just simply told the then 25 year old "boy" to mind his utterances and not carry the same mindset to America where he was due to relocate to 'cos the African Americans will not tolerate such statements from him.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/White_flight

kkins25:
You still use her. Why didn't you decline the sexual advances knowing you had made up your mind not to be with her again? She obviously thought things were back to normal.

Sex is not the first thing on my mind IF I am seeking a partner. When she sent a complete stranger an elderly man to beg me by giving him my number, I thought she had changed her ways and character and i decided to honour their invitation to a restaurant to talk things through and she knelt down in the restaurant to beg me to take her back and she herself asked me if we were sleeping at her house or mine that night.

It was a few days later in a telephone conversation that I realised that she had not changed much and she was still verbally aggressive and I skirted the issue as I did not want to tell her outright that we were not compatible but when she sensed what I was avoiding telling her, she said "stop beating about the bush" , and I was forced to spill it out and tell her I did not think we were compatible.

So, after that lucky escape, whenever I felt temped to call her, I quickly brought out my list of her bad characters (which by the way outnumbers her good characters) and before reading the whole list, I would have lost interest and i will just go and have a shot or 2 of brandy in the kitchen.

Women should learn to control their tongues when arguing with their partners b'cos some people are VERY good listeners and have a very good memory.

Life is too short to spend even a minute with someone whose idea of life is completely different from yours.

Eyin loro, to ba ti jabo, ko se e ko mo. Words are like raw eggs dropped from great heights; Once spoken, you can no longer call them back or ignore the mess they create when they fall.

Mindlog:
Swimming lessons are life savers.

In the UK, swimming lessons are part of the school curriculum and ALL children are taught how to swim as part of the school timetable at Govt cost and I don't think any parent is allowed to opt their child out of swimming lessons.

EFCC Uncovers How REA MD, Top Officials Misappropriated N12.4b

Fair enough but when is EFCC going to expose how Tinubu has been looting the Lagos state Treasury and public bodies since 1999 and counting or how does EFCC think Tinubu got the money to rig the election and bribe his way into Aso Rock including bribing the shameless Supreme Court Judges ??

Akalia:
Not all virgins are sexually pure.

Israel DMW told Daddy Freeze that he met his wife a virgin and so he was confused when his wife later said he was not "doing it" well ??

inoki247:
Lol Virgin Hunter....
Mr Ned shey dem don update u say dem dey edit pvssyy now to look tight nd look like say na virgin..
Fake Virginity dey I jus say mk I update you.....

Its called Vaginoplasty and the surgery used to cost £5,000 some years ago.

Jman06:
Why do some of you want to somehow blame men for sex usually done in agreement with the lady? Ladies have sex whenever and with whomever they want, so stop blaming men for an act which ladies tend to enjoy more!

Na so I tell one WOMAN say I no dey do again because we are not compatible. She is too loud and uncouth especially when she gets angry gets possessed by demons.

The woman begin voke for me talk say after I don sleep with her I con dey say we no dey compatible. She con dey tell me say make I no try the same thing with woman wey no dey forgive.

I had to remind her that I had already broken up with her months earlier and I was minding my own business before she gave my number to one bros wey I no know tell the bros to begin beg me and after I agreed to meet her and the bros at a restaurant she knelt down in the restaurant to beg me and after bros left, she asked if we were going to her place or mine and I chose my place.

So I told her that if she did not give my number to a stranger asking him to beg me, we would not have reconciled and her saying that I wanted to leave her after sleeping with her was a bit childish for a woman of her age.

After that, anytime I am tempted to reconcile with her, I just look at my written down list of the uncouth utterances she had made in the middle of unnecessary arguments and once I read a few of them I quickly advise myself against phoning her.

allanphash7:
I wondered what the next generation would look like.
This generation is gone completely
Imagine embarrassing your home on the social media

Nothing wey some people no dey post for social media o.

Some women dey even post video of where dem dey baf for YouTube ?

Some people are not mature enough to have an internet enabled phone or to have uncontrolled internet access.

meum:
There are some things one shouldn’t bring online. Calling her husband “I better pass my neighbor” is very wrong.

She is not ready for marriage yet. So, if her husband drink vomit for house, she go video am upload for internet abe she think say such shit no dey happen for marriage This immature wife should go and learn from senior married women what their eyes have seen in marriage and maybe then she will realise that no be every cloth she suppose dey spread inside sun. Ki i se gbogbo aso laa sa loorun.

mactoni91:
Ladies in this Category full UK...

Na bad characters(Feminism) dey work against them.

I think most of the women in the UK are destined to be single for life because their own breed of feminism seems propelled by demons.

When a woman wants to wear the trouser and give the man the skirt, then the men will stay away. You can't be the woman and at the same time want to be the man in a relationship. They need to make up their minds if they want to be feminine or masculine 'cos at the moment most UK women are super aggressive both verbally and at times physically.

One of these UK women told me some years ago that she is looking for a submissive man and then her Aunty later told me in her presence that I don't look like I could be submissive else her niece would have dated me ?

Good riddance.

Etosha:
One about 36 didn't hide her feelings for me lately, but I can't marry someone older than me.

Age is just a number. I married a woman 5 years my junior and the marriage did not work out. So, its not about age but LONG TERM compatibility and lasting love from both parties.

The lesson in the Reverend Fathers message is that women should stop playing hard to get. Today's men no longer have time for mind games and endless chasing or drama.

JuanXXx:
Might go there with a camera maybe I'd capture anything unusual.

Please respect the dignity of the dead. DON'T take your camera there. No one will like their dead body or that of a loved one snapped and posted online. Even the dead should have rights to dignity biko. Its true that they can't speak but they should still be respected.

Ireje o si ninu foto. Bo ba se duro lo mase ba ra e. No cheating inside photo 'cos na as you stand you go see yourself inside the photo.