Well while waiting for out turn prior to our first interview, the guy just before us made a smart move. He just stood up and went to the toilet. We should have done the same, because after us others made excuses to the toilet.
I hope this alert gets to the front-page many families, professionals, school kids have been her victim (Rejection without a reason). YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO SAY NO TO HER WINDOW AND PATIENTLY WAIT FOR ONE THAT WILL AT LEAST GIVE YOU A FAIR HEARING, YES YOU HAVE THE RIGHT!
If you have experienced her torturing applicants or have been a victim, please feel free to share your experience. It will go a long way to help.

embsyNEWS:

Please if anybody is going for an interview at the American embassy Abuja. There is a sadist who does not even look and sound American, but surprisingly is an interviewer. She is of Asian origin.
Now this is the word: if you love yourself and your family DO NOT GO TO HER WINDOW when she presses the buzzer for the next person, SHE DOES NOT GIVE! She takes about 30-45 minutes (believe me, you can verify from those who have gone to Abuja this year) to interview a person.
During this time she dehumanize you emotionally until you almost start telling her 'I killed my mother', she picks on anything, just anything to get you out.
My Husband and I have been regular flyer to the USA for 12years and we have 5 years UK visas, we were at the embassy with nothing to worry about, just the formalities and then they issue us a renewal.
While sitting there waiting for our turn, we saw the torture from her.
Elderly women, frequent flyers, professors, clergymen (those ones where the worst, even insulted their religion). We were looking 'is this for real, don't they have camera around to see and hear what this woman is doing and saying?' not even one person, while other interviewers where just dishing out the visas if you have the right documents.
We were the only person she gave amongst just 13 people she managed to interview that day, she didn't still give us the visa that day, told us to come back within 24 hours with more evidence after my husband told her he will litigate if she cannot tell the reason why she is refusing us (she had already handed the refusal letter to us), she now said 'ok I have been making mistakes today and I don't want you to be a victim, bring more evidence’ . Lady we brought a whole suitcase. So you know you have been making ‘MISTAKES’ whoa!
Everyone knows her, from the securities there, to the pickup drivers to tour agents, you name it. The next day we went was no difference.
Well while waiting for out turn prior to our first interview, the guy just before us made a smart move. He just stood up and went to the toilet. We should have done the same, because after us others made excuses to the toilet.
I hope this alert gets to the front-page many families, professionals, school kids have been her victim (Rejection without a reason). YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO SAY NO TO HER WINDOW AND PATIENTLY WAIT FOR ONE THAT WILL AT LEAST GIVE YOU A FAIR HEARING, YES YOU HAVE THE RIGHT!
If you have experienced her torturing applicants or have been a victim, please feel free to share your experience. It will go a long way to help.

EmbAbjLag:

hmmm

embsyNEWS:

Well while waiting for out turn prior to our first interview, the guy just before us made a smart move. He just stood up and went to the toilet. We should have done the same, because after us others made excuses to the toilet.

AjanleKoko:


That's why I like us Naija. We just S-O-J-I all round.
The dude's brain was working like the Core Duo processor ;[/b]D

laughing my head off at the bolded.

Vicjustice:

As someone who studied psychology, I'm not at all surprised at the behaviours of the Asian woman: The interviewer, being a female, and of Asian origin would most likely want to prove that she can do a better job than her white male colleagues, and therefore she is more likely to over-act to prove her seriousness. The same thing goes with female police officers, when you get into their trouble, they are more likely to be merciless than their male colleagues. [b]Have you considered why short people are over-active when one has a dispute with them? They take this unnecessary offensive measures because they think you are trying to intimidate them for reason of their small status.

sledjama:

u have one already, madam Patience

~Bluetooth:

It's a woman thing,give them power and they become superstar.I can't even imagine what will happen if we have a female president in Naija.

Vicjustice:

  As someone who studied psychology, I'm not at all surprised at the behaviours of the Asian woman: The interviewer, being a female, and of Asian origin would most likely want to prove that she can do a better job than her white male colleagues, and therefore she is more likely to over-act to prove her seriousness. The same thing goes with female police officers, when you get into their trouble, they are more likely to be merciless than their male colleagues. Have you considered why short people are over-active when one has a dispute with them? They take this unnecessary offensive measures because they think you are trying to intimidate them for reason of their small status.

Bottom line is to get prepared for the interview, do not present documents you cannot defend, talk to those who have been through it and succeeded, be confident, have nice disposition (afterall life wont end soon and your life doesn't depend on the visa) and the interview will be a piece of cake.

TBrownAuto:

If they refuse you visa stay in your country what all this nonse why must you bring suitcase for visa that nonse people like you are the one causing all this nonsense you have uk 5 year and the us deny you fine to to uk why must you fight for visa well you cant stay because your type spoilt the country and want to run away you people are disgrace to this country you are educated illitrate and will alway talk about exposure trash.

Toaskarity:

what if this will be our savior!  men has been there with nothing for us!

Toaskarity:

pls i did nt see where the poster says there is is a missing document(that means she is prepared), they have been travelling,so must have the knowlegde they needed(no need of asking). through my understanding>the woman may be kind of f.r.u.s.t.r.a.t.e.d in life or

~Bluetooth:

How are the women in Naija politics better than their male counterparts ? How can people like Iyabo obj,patriricia Etteh,cecelia ibru,Adenike Grange,ndidi Onyuike,patience jonathan be the messiah we are waiting for ?

adeboy77:

personally, i think our government is responsible for the unruly treatment metted out to prospective tourists/visitors to the United States. i think the ways the interviews are conducted does not give cognisance to the issue of privacy, why would you expose personal information when conducting interviews, because the way the process is, is that many others waiting for their turn get to listen in to the coversation between the interviewer and prospective travellers,

i guess its because a lot of the topshots get their visas via their protocol offices so they dont feel the pinch, those americans are just out there to collect our hard earned money, refusing us visas for not tangible excuse but for vague reasons of not being sure if you are coming back and financial situation, with no recourse to appeal also, thats absolutely rubbish, at least the UK gives you an opportunity to appeal, imagine refusing an applicant because he is single, wtf? Is he not going there to spend his money? kmt

igbonla:

Pretty sure you did not see it and you should be educated enough to know that the portion you quoted was a general advice to all readers and not directed at the poster.