Whalis:
So he was counting the money? This is pure lie.

How is it pure lie? So u mean someone will give u money and u won't verified it if it's complete or not? If he take the money to the third party and that one said the money is not complete don't u know he will lose his job and can be kill self.

You think the rich ppu joke with their kibo, in as much one can't trust naija and their kangaroo trial, there's also need not to throw one sanity of reasoning away.

Thank you so much. May we not learn the hard way.



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Sorry man. Glad you bounced back.

I write it here all the time, that when real-life problems show up, all the criteria young people use to qualify for a good partner will disappear. So rubbish such as spec, body type, accent, certification, shape, etc.

Youth these days tend to think that their realities in their 20's or 30's will be so in their 40's, 50's, 60's, 70's, and beyond. Life is hard, and I see it all the time how even the rich suffer.

A good person is like a representation of God in human form. Nothing on earth is more useful, an asset, and an ally compared to such a person. Someone who means well for you, and sees you as an extension of themselves, just in another body.

A person who when everything in life fails you, they are there by your side, gives you their shoulder and pats you on the back that all is fine, and I am here for you. Your personal person, to whom your heart is well pleased.

To be loved is the closest thing to experiencing heaven on earth. Marriage is sweet if done rightly. Two good heads are much much better than one. But if done wrongly, it is worse than hell. [/quote]

bigpicture001:


Lesson for the unmarried....sorry bro for the turbulence...I keep telling ppl dt degree is meant for jobs and not home....compatibility ,sacrifices, love above all makes a good home.....not degree qualifications!!!!!

Thank u so much, I appreciate though I have moved on but the scar is so visible like d breaking of a new day.

Most time the unmarried seems to have a better advice. May God help us all and bless every home, I don't wish my friends/enemy to go tru what I went tru with my ex.

Let me speak from experience, when I wanted to married degree was one of the criteria I used then, and not even HND I specifically said it must be a University grad. As a banker then, I saw how HND was being rubbish so I opted for a BSC holder.

Brethren, I can tell u with my full chest that was one of the greatest mistake in my life.I lost everything, I mean everything. She later left, cuz I lost my job and I can't provide for the huz. It took God in His infinite mercy and help from friends to make a way for me and I bounce back. Now, such criteria is not in my book, first thing is attitude, peace of mind, is she God fearing, etc.

May we not married wrongly both as a male/female. I tell u, all this saying she must be this and that will vanish into a thin air. I pray God give us a good man/woman as our spouse. Degree, wealth, beauty, just name it does not make a home or happy marriage life.

Beyond the charades, what makes a home is deeper than what will see. May God help us in Jesus name.

I pray God replenish her loss, and police were able to trace the phone without compromise. Reading the story, just make me wondering how naija think when it come to evil av. Now it will be difficult for any bank to help bcuz the transaction look more of like self induced.

I think best options is to start doing the sim lock and if possible have two accounts one with ATM and those mobile stuff and the other without any e-banking except ur sms.

Trust any naija politicians at your own peril, about four years ago every one on the social media were screaming "Edo no be Lagos" and most ppu even think the outgoing gov will do better bcuz of the fist with him and Osho. On this platform he won Edo gov seat, but tell me what he did diff, what is that spectacular projects he brought to Edo state?

Those ppu screaming on top of their voices Edo no be Lagos, Apc this and APC that suddenly lose their voices and no one is calling to put the gov under check bcuz he's not an APC. Imagine if it was the APC candidate that win the election then, so many critics and bloggers wont allow us rest. Gov Adeleke, of Osun state same thing, almost two years in office no policy from him or any eyes popping project.

I am tired of naija politicians, most times they speaks for their self and use divide and rule to ridicule the masses.

Naija ppu we need to learn lesson, we all seem to be interested with the Fed or who becomour Presido, we seem to careless about our state gov or politics.

Her Father, may not own a house o. Every hustle a man make shu all be about them. Is it a crime if they hustle and build a house at 21yrs?

When we pray to God to deliver us from evil, that evil na girls trap in all ramifications u can imagine.

I believe now he is regretting his actions, the most annoying thing the girl is "vulnerable" her mental health affected. Biko the man nko? If he loses his job won't he be vulnerable, while is nobody talking about the man, his own mental health nko?

Appletek:


My brother, the amount of Red Bull consumed in Lagos on Friday night ALONE is more than what the other states consume in a whole week.
Those guys mix it with anything as if they don't have kidneys.

Lagos na baba, no be mouth.

Hmmm u are not far from the truth, just thinking out loud..don't u think all this stuff keep making the state over populated

Must every good thing start from Lagos? Can this companies think outside Lagos?

Cmanforall:


Rashford should be on the bench and may be used as substitute.
He plays as if he's doing ManU a favour

God bless you, he is not passionate about winning the ball whenever he loses it. I think he want to leave, Ten Hag shu bench him and play more or Garnacho or someone else.

brainhgeek:


Exactly! With the exception of Evans, and maybe Hanibal, all of them, including the captain didn't look coordinated. Faulty and unintelligent passes, wasteful attempts...in my opinion, Evans should have been named man of the match, not Fernandes.

You guys are right, but in my own view I think they lack confidence due to recent losses. Who
knows with two or three win they may regain their confidence back.

I pray Mohbad get justice, though in a twist of things it might be the innocent looking ones that behind his death.

Amotolongbo:
Wait till she starts winning bigger. Some of them started like this as a teenager.

The issue is not starting in faith but continuing and ending in faith.

You are 100% right, can she continues like this? Soonest the power that be in Tennis will tell some of her fans are not christians, so it won't be nice to hurt their beliefs. Before Jack Robinson they will introduce her to clubs , night crawling then drugs.

They will offer her the luxury of this world, and I pray she will stand on her faith and reject them like Christ

ManirBK:
What was he saying for 30hours?

Nigeria problems off course.

Olúwa help me o, I am a victim o. Kazeem here I come @op where are u the one here convinced to.

Edo no be Lagos....

Excell2:

That's the problem, I'm tired of looking for a new job every 2years. I've worked several places that gave similar promises and along the line I'd realise the job is unproductive then quit and start looking for another, in all these jobs, my side hustle have been sustaining.
Not completely jobless like i said, I've got a small hustle that i run conveniently which pays me same 80k or even a little more than it monthly. So I'm wondering if I should focus on my business till I find a befitting job that is well-paying.

I pray u get the one that will give u joy. If u are still within 27yrs, u can try this agency that recruit for banks like, Tribesr, ICS,and others.The paynow for contract new intake is above 100k and possibility of career growth.

When u apply, notify me.

providencia:

That's how it should be unlike the former president who is not aware of anything

Abeg Let Buhari Breathee...una no dey forget things.

Death the ultimate.

This is one reason i don't have any mobile app, and my personal savings account don't av any e-banking stuff

Last time I was in the bank to make a transfer, the cash officer was furious and asked the lady to tell me to make use of my mobile bank i told him i won't download the app and no one can force me to use it. He was like that is the bank policy and i told straight the last time i checked there is no constitution that said i must use an app for bank transfer. He looked at me and was hold the transfer form as if he won't act on it. I just told him if it's compulsory i can close my account and move to where i won't be subject to app usage by compulsion.

After some few minutes he verified the transaction and said "all this ppu wet dey too dey do i too know" I just told yes with my full chest, one if there any fraud in that account all u will say is pls don't be angry we are working on, it's only sympathy most bankers will show u and not empathize with customer. Hardly u hear a banker give a customer who loose money his/her money back..na so so story

It seem na Company owners dey visit Tinubu ear and dear.

helinues:


Na Baba Bisi akande be that

One day someone will tell us the relationship that exist between Tinubu and Baba Akande. Their relationship need to be study...

senatordave1:


Who is that guy wearing agbada and cap sitting third on the right after dapo

One day someone will tell us the relationship that exist between Tinubu and Baba Akande.

Zxcvbnmghtr:
They should please release him to the general public. We want to tell him something.

You are wicked...😜😜😜😜😜

Hmmm

Nasige:
Those that started all this non sense should be sentenced to death wallahi, how can they agree to start such kind of evil without considering the later effect. Some people have already made up their mind to destroy Nigeria as a country if not for God.

If we are to know all d dirty stuff been carry out by the leaders both past and present u will agree with me this country foundation is a mess

Honestly i don't understand o

Kog45:
Yes you are right about women but we have exceptional ones,a friend’s wife saw hell with her husband for 10 years but they survived it and kudos was given to the woman for her perseverance cuz the sufferings no be here o.Imagine a lady with a car before working in construction site as laborer….The lady is the talk of the town now with her 2015 Camry bought by her husband for her loyalty

Wow o I cut cap for her, her type are rare.

pacespot:
As far as I am concerned as a man, Nigerian women are not the problems in this country. Until you experienced the toxicity among Nigerian men towards each other, you would never understand the truth in that statement.

I am in my late 30s but I can tell you vividly that I've never for once encountered any issue with Nigerian women in all my deals with them. Anytime I run into trouble, it is always because of fellow Nigerian men, and most often because of this inexplicable jealousy.

Bros the op is actually talking about marriage if the lady in your life will leave in case u eventually go broke?

Funny enough a total stranger met me this morning, a grown up man but from the look of things u will know he is going tru some challenges. As i opened my car door and put my feet down he approaches me and find it difficult to utter a words he later pick his words when i encourage to speak no matter what the issue is.

This man lost his job since last year, and since then things has been so difficult for him, according to him he has not taste any meal since ystaday afternoon. He told me how is wife is frustrating him and threatening to pack out of the marriage that has produce two kids.

He was talking and u can see his teary eyes even when he is trying to hold back the tears, the water won't just stay back. After narrating his story i told him how i went tru the same path some few years back and why he shu encourage himself that things will get better.

The answer to the op question is that out of 10 ladies only 2 will stay with their men if things are difficult, the remaining 8 will tell u the story of ur life, and ur mate are making it.

Maysdevices:
You probably didn’t read to the end

She survived

I did the woman is still alive, receiving treatment, and the man is dead. Tell me if the woman live long which i pray she do, won't she remarry or even have a boy/ma friend. So there is no reason to kill or commit suicide for.


I am not justifying any of their act but u see in this life just live in Peace.