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Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by AutoChick4U(f): 4:10pm On Jul 10, 2021
Ambeed:
I'm in my mid thirties, not ugly, a health worker. From the southern part of Nigeria.

Will prefer men not boys from South south or south east. Lives in Lagos.

AS genotype, not much of a talker but cool.

If you are within 38 to 45 dm me, jokers and boys and red pillers stay away.

If there are white men on nairaland you can do me as well.

I need a friend that can become a confidant and husband tomorrow.

Modified:

Abroad based brothers are qualified as well.

Send message to ambeed43@yahoo.com

IF you sent me a dm, please try sending a direct email as I can't see messages from my dm. Thanks
I am a single mother today because I made the mistake of replying one fool's pm. Most of d men I was unfortunate to meet via this app no be am at all. You might be lucky sha, all d best.

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Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by Xilsbridalhouse(f): 4:33pm On Jul 10, 2021
SeaTrade:
Its very funny really.
Like how do you even notice a person is stingy in the first place if not for entitlement mentality and/or you aren't wretched yourself?
Like I just don't get.
I dislike the entitlement mentality with passion!

Even ladies do this among themselves but can’t say much about men, but ladies and entitlement mentality is irritating and annoying! You guys can do better!


He asked you to sell off some items, you instead shared it among your friends...are you serious? And you dared call him stingy?

Mtchew!!!!

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Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by AloneTK: 4:35pm On Jul 10, 2021
AutoChick4U:
I am a single mother today because I made the mistake of replying one fool's pm. Most of d men I was unfortunate to meet via this app no be am at all. You might be lucky sha, all d best.

It’s good that you said most, not all.
Try to understand that unpalatable relationship experiences aren’t limited to online forums like NL. They can occur in any circle and in different form.
It’s critical to note that sometimes, we also need to take responsibility for our actions.
Meeting someone offline, and even doing the needful is never a 100% assurance that things would end well.
Our actions too can cause mishaps.
As a single mum, who knows, this same platform might just be the one that would change your story.

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Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by AutoChick4U(f): 4:36pm On Jul 10, 2021
AloneTK:


It’s good that you said most, not all.
Try to understand that unpalatable relationship experiences aren’t limited to online forums like NL. They can occur in any circle and in different form.
It’s critical to note that sometimes, we also need to take responsibility for our actions.
Meeting someone online, and even doing the needful is never a 100% assurance that things would end well.
Our actions too can cause mishaps.
As a single mum, who knows, this same platform might just be the one that would change your story.
Coming out direct to search mostly never works on NL. There are indirect approach. This her post will only attract piranhas

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Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by AloneTK: 4:40pm On Jul 10, 2021
AutoChick4U:
Coming out direct to search mostly never works on NL. There are indirect approach. This her post will only attract piranhas

You are also right by that.
What if one dolphin comes along?
It’s not an impossibility you know.

That’s where her calmness and wisdom is required.
Remember I said we are also responsible for our actions.

Warm regards.
Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by Raalsalghul: 4:49pm On Jul 10, 2021
AutoChick4U:
I am a single mother today because I made the mistake of replying one fool's pm. Most of d men I was unfortunate to meet via this app no be am at all. You might be lucky sha, all d best.

You are a single mother today because you did not use your head/protection and not because you replied the PM of a nairalander. undecided

Get it right please.

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Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by AutoChick4U(f): 5:06pm On Jul 10, 2021
AloneTK:


You are also right by that.
What if one dolphin comes along?
It’s not an impossibility you know.

That’s where her calmness and wisdom is required.
Remember I said we are also responsible for our actions.

Warm regards.
Oya send d pm seems u a dolphin

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Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by AutoChick4U(f): 5:08pm On Jul 10, 2021
Raalsalghul:


You are a single mother today because you did not use your head/protection and not because you replied the PM of a nairalander. undecided

Get it right please.
Raasalghul d savage e don do. Mini me gives me happiness no man has ever so na win win.

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Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by Nobody: 5:12pm On Jul 10, 2021
AutoChick4U:
I am a single mother today because I made the mistake of replying one fool's pm. Most of d men I was unfortunate to meet via this app no be am at all. You might be lucky sha, all d best.

Why would you even agree to sleep with a man from this rotten site when he has not married you?.

The closest I've come with any of them was in my PM. And that was when I advertised a training and only replied them because of the training.


It is well.

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Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by AutoChick4U(f): 5:15pm On Jul 10, 2021
CharisEleos:


Why would you even agree to sleep with a man from this rotten site when he has not married you?.

The closet I've come with any of them was in my PM. And that was when I advertised a training and only replied them because of the training.


It is well.
Lol, well that question has no and will never will. Shit happens
Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by AutoChick4U(f): 5:19pm On Jul 10, 2021
PrimadonnaO:



LMAO cheesy grin

I know one like that, too... Story's so similar. He returned from the states, brought a few things along with him and gave them to his babe that she should sell them.

Petty things... Clipper, sneaks, tops, etc.

The babe kept some for herself, gave her siblings the rest. Oga was furious... Was asking for the money that would have been realised from the sales. Babe didn't bring any money. They broke up. That dude is a minute away from 40 and still unmarried.

Abeg, I'm bias. If I find anyone 40, not broke, yet single, I'll assume he's got a problem.
But she should have done as told naw. The lady no try cos that could simply b a test and maybe the guy never meet woman wey go pass that test.
Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by Ishilove: 5:32pm On Jul 10, 2021
AutoChick4U:
I am a single mother today because I made the mistake of replying one fool's pm. Most of d men I was unfortunate to meet via this app no be am at all. You might be lucky sha, all d best.
What happened?
Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by AutoChick4U(f): 5:56pm On Jul 10, 2021
Ishilove:

What happened?
Nne I decided to give a broke man a chance o because of all the cries and rantings from guys here about broke shaming guys and building up, na so I jump enter gutter. God forbid me to have anything to do with a broke human again.

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Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by Ishilove: 6:09pm On Jul 10, 2021
AutoChick4U:
Nne I decided to give a broke man a chance o because of all the cries and rantings from guys here about broke shaming guys and building up, na so I jump enter gutter. God forbid me to have anything to do with a broke human again.
Eyah. The brother no get ambition? There are some broke brothers with sense and ambition, while there are others who are broke and unfortunate.

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Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by pocohantas(f): 6:14pm On Jul 10, 2021
AutoChick4U:
Nne I decided to give a broke man a chance o because of all the cries and rantings from guys here about broke shaming guys and building up, na so I jump enter gutter. God forbid me to have anything to do with a broke human again.

Hhahahahahaha! Error 404! grin

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Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by KevinDein: 6:19pm On Jul 10, 2021
AutoChick4U:
Nne I decided to give a broke man a chance o because of all the cries and rantings from guys here about broke shaming guys and building up, na so I jump enter gutter. God forbid me to have anything to do with a broke human again.
Truly remarkable how women always manage to blame others for their actions. Just hopped out of a thread where the op was literally blaming men for women's prostitution choices, the ladies on that thread seem to concurr, and here I am again.
Quite an admirable skill, not gonna lie.

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Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by Biglittlelois(f): 6:21pm On Jul 10, 2021
SeaTrade:
Exactly,na now you don hit the nail on the head.
You stingy yet you and your family want dey milk another person,very bad and irritable.
That is one thing I can't take and a lot of men as well,exploitation!That is why I advise guys not to marry just women but also their families,and I'm glad people are doing so these days.
I hate am die!!!
Where a person comes from always play a major role of who that person is or will become.

@bolded, hell yes!!!

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Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by AutoChick4U(f): 6:25pm On Jul 10, 2021
KevinDein:

Truly remarkable how women always manage to blame others for their actions. Just hopped out of a thread where the op was literally blaming men for women's prostitution choices, the ladies on that thread seem to concurr, and here I am again.
Quite an admirable skill, not gonna lie.
Lolz
Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by mariahAngel(f): 7:16pm On Jul 10, 2021
AutoChick4U:
Nne I decided to give a broke man a chance o because of all the cries and rantings from guys here about broke shaming guys and building up, na so I jump enter gutter. God forbid me to have anything to do with a broke human again.

Is he (involved) in your child's life at least?
Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by Munzy14(m): 7:36pm On Jul 10, 2021
Ghostlander:

Your over sabi no be here.
Abeg swerve go one side make people with brain advice op
grin grin
Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by Munzy14(m): 7:44pm On Jul 10, 2021
Ambeed:


Bros, this your Monika is making me shocked shocked.


Ok

Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by FatherChrismas: 8:16pm On Jul 10, 2021
OPINION,... @ OP do you understand the meaning of relationship? Now you posted that you want a man of some category then asked men to pm you.

Do you mean you'll date every one that smeds you a pm and meet your requirements? Isn't a relationship meant to be between 2 partners.
Also hope you don't intend billing the men even before the relationship starts.
Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by Munzy14(m): 8:28pm On Jul 10, 2021
FatherChrismas:
OPINION,... @ OP do you understand the meaning of relationship? Now you posted that you want a man of some category then asked men to pm you.

Do you mean you'll date every one that smeds you a pm and meet your requirements? Isn't a relationship meant to be between 2 partners.
Also hope you don't intend billing the men even before the relationship starts.
Point and kill...grin
Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by cassyrooy(m): 4:12am On Jul 11, 2021
Nairaland sha.
Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by AutoChick4U(f): 7:20am On Jul 11, 2021
mariahAngel:


Is he (involved) in your child's life at least?
Not at all
Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by AutoChick4U(f): 7:21am On Jul 11, 2021
FatherChrismas:
OPINION,... @ OP do you understand the meaning of relationship? Now you posted that you want a man of some category then asked men to pm you.

Do you mean you'll date every one that smeds you a pm and meet your requirements? Isn't a relationship meant to be between 2 partners.
Also hope you don't intend billing the men even before the relationship starts.
She'll pick the one she vibes best with.

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Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by ikllbrokehoes(m): 10:43am On Jul 11, 2021
mariahAngel:


[s]See who's talking? DEFAMER-IN-CHIEF OF NAIRALAND!
You're one to talk? A LIAR AND SLANDERER like you? Please! cheesy
Well, I don't blame you. Na Poco I blame for being gracious enough to give you audience after your atrocious act!

Snake like you wey be say she no suppose allow close!
If na me ehn, by the time I'm done with your lying, slandering, and defaming ass, you'd still remember me 7lives after!
I no go even wait for karma![/s]
Plead don't let this girl accuse you and go Scott free

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Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by Masturbator2020: 10:46am On Jul 11, 2021
Ambeed:


Go to my main post, you will see my email there. Let's start from there.
Hi.
Looks like the mails with attachment finds it difficult to deliver..
Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by mrblessed(m): 10:54am On Jul 11, 2021
Masturbator2020:

Hi.
Looks like the mails with attachment finds it difficult to deliver..
Baba, you have gotten something to keep yourself busy. Imagine the relentless exertion of energy to get a bimbo!
Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by Mogadishuu: 10:56am On Jul 11, 2021
mrblessed:
Baba, you have gotten something to keep yourself busy. Imagine the relentless exertion of energy to get a bimbo!
grin
Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by Masturbator2020: 11:01am On Jul 11, 2021
mrblessed:
Baba, you have gotten something to keep yourself busy. Imagine the relentless exertion of energy to get a bimbo!
Lol..well,I'm actually a busy person but I'm really interested in getting to know her..Truth is,I have been searching for Nigeria woman for quite sometime now.And the fact that she came online to make such post sound appealing to me.So let's see how it's goes.
Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by mrblessed(m): 11:11am On Jul 11, 2021
Masturbator2020:

Lol..well,I'm actually a busy person but I'm really interested in getting to know her..Truth is,I have been searching for Nigeria woman for quite sometime now.And the fact that she came online to make such post sound appealing to me.So let's see how it's goes.
Godspeed.

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