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Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Emmanuel909090: 10:47pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
MrSamsung: If your dad is cheating, please encourage your mum to do same. They are equal okay. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Emmanuel909090: 10:53pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
bukatyne: That statement is still shocking, not all men cheat, happens if and only if he does not have the opportunity with his spec, even a holy filled man. Thats why the bible said flee, he didnt walk or even run, but flee. |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Emmanuel909090: 10:55pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
GenAbacha: Pig poo, i foolish mind will spill foolish things. |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Emmanuel909090: 10:56pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
GenAbacha: Because you are an unfortunate being, i need to tame you before tou get out of control, fool |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Emmanuel909090: 10:58pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
GenAbacha: I cant expect less from a wicked and unforgiven heart. I know you must have heard it a million times but this is just a reminder. Wasted fool lol. |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Emmanuel909090: 10:59pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
GenAbacha: You cant come to a public forum to spill trash and expect sane beings to keep mute on your stupidity. |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by GenAbacha(m): 11:01pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
Emmanuel909090: Pig 19 Likes |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by GenAbacha(m): 11:01pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
Emmanuel909090: Pig 17 Likes |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Emmanuel909090: 11:03pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
GenAbacha: Do you rear pigs, or your dad sells pork abi your mum is a pig, which? |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Emmanuel909090: 11:04pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
GenAbacha: I guess thats your surname lol |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Emmanuel909090: 11:06pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
GenAbacha: I gues you stink like one, looking at your pictures, i can see a piggy resemblance, bingo |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Emmanuel909090: 11:11pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by kodix(m): 12:07am On Aug 24, 2021 |
Let her find something doing first, divorce the man and keep going because she will never be happy in that marriage,work hard for herself and remarry a good man if she wishes. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by ImaIma1(f): 12:47am On Aug 24, 2021 |
Emmanuel909090: In this case, is it the man or the woman that has fallen out of love? Fixing things means that the person acknowledges his/her wrong and turns away from it. But this man has continued in his cheating ways even after resolution. You say "stop comparing people...", yet you compare women with Tonto. Tonto Dike does not represent the average woman. And her choice of men is a personal problem. Women should not be pushed to stay in an unfaithful marriage. Whatever decision they make should be accepted. If this thread was about a cheating wife, the comments would have been different. The woman would have been called unprintable names and slut shamed. But as it is a man, many men will always support their kind and rationalize the situation to suit them. 23 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by tchidi066(f): 1:47am On Aug 24, 2021 |
Na wa o, what i am even concerned about is the randy man giving the innocent woman incurable STD's. Please ladies be financially empowered before you settle down, i hate that word "housewife". Na see finish be that 12 Likes |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by daintyprincess(f): 5:46am On Aug 24, 2021 |
Please your sister should get something doing, preferably a job. Getting money from the man for business, I really don't know o cause I've experienced a situation where a man locked his wife shop cause he pays the rent. But she should get a job first and be sure she can take care of rent and feeding and move. The man should be the one paying the fee and she shouldn't create enemity between the kids and the dad. 9 Likes |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Emmanuel909090: 6:05am On Aug 24, 2021 |
ImaIma1: In this case the woman is. The man is misbehaving, that doesnt mean he loves her less. But generally speaking both genders in this generation easily fall out of love, they keep looking for what doesn't exist. Please, who is the man after Gods heart? David abi, and you know the story. He kept dissapointing God but he was always sober and sorry for his actions, listen no man/woman is perfect we all have flaws,so the earlier you realize that the better for us. Its not an easy task totally cutting off a woman who has a child for you, so she should understand that its a process. He made his mistake sleeping with the babies mother but no child is a mistake. Listen i am not comparing Tonto, i gave a visible instance, that the general public can relate to, their are so many in my locality but you cant relate. Women should not be pushed, yes i accept that, most of us would have not been graduates today, if not that our parents understood and pushed us, i can remember my numerous refusals to return back to boarding school, but my parents kept encouraging and advicing me. Same plays out in marriage, we dont always get all we want, so we need people to encourage us on ways to go about it and not always quitting, thats the job of counselors. I dont slut shame women, men are even treated more badly in the society than women, a lot of men forgive unfaithful women and keep mute, to save her the shame due to the love they have for her, but women find it diffcult to cover, they always want the world to know their husbands shortcomings. Learn to build your home and dont let pride scatter things. 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by crackhaus: 6:47am On Aug 24, 2021 |
Powerfly:Is MrSamsung a "her"? Well you did a lot more than she/he by answering the question instead of being patronizing... Do I even need to break down your answer? I'm sure you already know how terribly unrealistic it is. |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by dahmie2013: 6:57am On Aug 24, 2021 |
bukatyne:Dear OP,this is the advice you should give her. When they say women should work, they think it is just a joke. If she leaves, she will be like a prodigal wife, later coming for crumbs. She should just make sure she uses a condom if she has to sleep with him. 4 Likes |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Powerfly(f): 6:59am On Aug 24, 2021 |
crackhaus: By 'her' I mean the other lady you were asking. And yes! It is totally possible... Maybe in India and my beloved country Nigeria. After all it is said.. " Nothing is impossible only if you Believe'!. 4 Likes |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Klass99(f): 7:00am On Aug 24, 2021 |
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Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Klass99(f): 7:23am On Aug 24, 2021 |
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Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Hathor5(f): 7:27am On Aug 24, 2021 |
Klass99: I love this part: "is she a trash, or a woman deserving of no honor, or is she a piece of wood or animal I bet you, you will dignify your pet more" That's exactly how some peeps here think about women. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by crackhaus: 7:29am On Aug 24, 2021 |
Powerfly:Only in a woman's very wild imagination can such be possible with Nigerian men... In India, could be possible considering they run a matriarchal family system, which I'm sure Nigerian women would have loved to be a part of. But with Nigerians? A very interesting fantasy. "While in Rome, best act like Romans". As long as the system favours a particular gender, expect the members to take full advantage of it. It's what it is... 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Powerfly(f): 7:38am On Aug 24, 2021 |
crackhaus: If I ever find myself married to a Nigerian man, I'll be sure to keep things in place, then I'll shock him with a reality of that fantasy. 7 Likes |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by crackhaus: 7:47am On Aug 24, 2021 |
Powerfly:Except you want to resort to spiritual control na. And even with these charms, I believe you can only use them to eat your husband's money or cause him to hate his mother and siblings. The day you cheat on him, get pregnant for your side-bobo and then tell him you want to bring the child into the marriage for him to raise (even if it's only for infancy), that charm will clear from his eyes sharply. 5 Likes |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Klass99(f): 7:55am On Aug 24, 2021 |
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Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Hathor5(f): 9:50am On Aug 24, 2021 |
Klass99: Yet they will shout moral decline when it comes to monitoring vaginas even though they can't follow the golden rule of doing unto others as they want to be done unto themselves. 14 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by ImaIma1(f): 10:05am On Aug 24, 2021 |
Emmanuel909090: I totally disagree with the second to the last paragraph. Men find it very difficult to forgive cheating women. In fact, it's a big blow to their ego. But a woman will keep staying to patch things up. The man can not cut off totally from the woman does not mean he has to keep sleeping with her if truly he loves his wife. He told her that he would stop but a cheat cannot help himself. I knew a doctor that worked in an HIV centre and he told me that most of the married women who had the disease contracted it from their husbands. That shook me and made me fear men who throw caution to the wind and cheat recklessly. If a man keeps cheating that way, his love for his wife is questionable. How can someone love you and put you in danger? What is love? Definitely not what this man is showing. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by LofP(m): 10:34am On Aug 24, 2021 |
Advise your sister to apply wisdom and not anger. If she leaves, then her suffering will begin as she can't shoulder the financial burden alone. As a matter of fact, she doesn't have a source of income so she should strategize and sit down until she can boast of financial stability. Don't encourage to leave except you want to add her responsibility to yours. |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Queenzzy: 10:38am On Aug 24, 2021 |
obiekunie01:Why do you men like supporting evil? So how about the husband that started the home destruction first by cheating and getting another woman pregnant Would anything had happened if she checked the phone and saw nothing? 10 Likes |
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