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| Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by mirinder: 10:31pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
princewarri1985:what will people say |
| Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Segeshow: 10:32pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Buy yourself a new car. Always makes you happy, 3 Likes |
| Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by VULCAN(m): 10:32pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
You want to give him sleepless nights abi. It's better you don't tell some people somethings-this type may kill himself if it turns out that the kids belong to the friend. Let's hope it ain't so vicksbaba: |
| Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Kobojunkie: 10:35pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
duduade:No, does one throw all standards away simply because one is lonely?  Nothing in that story indicates that he is single by choice.... he seems to know what he wants and will not settle for less.... is what it seems. According to the OP, he is also afraid of commitment - another level of complication. 1 Like |
| Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by AfroKnight: 10:36pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
debbydams: See talk. Is that how they “get” wife? Just enter registry and select one babe and marry or what? Oya, marry him na. After a while as a bachelor, marriage no go dey hungry you again. Only occasional intimacy after which you’d want your space again. It’s addictive. 3 Likes |
| Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by AfroKnight: 10:40pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Thank you my brother. You truly understand. The fact that he sometimes feels lonely doesn’t mean he should ignore red flags or just marry any babe he is introduced to. Some people remain bachelors for long because of heartbreaks. For example, would he choose someone who has the same bad vibes as his Ex just because he wants to marry? No. There are diverse reasons for remaining single and as one gets older you begin to narrow your choices and become more specific when choosing a partner. The days of experiments are past. 1 Like |
| Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by hotsuavity(m): 10:41pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
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| Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Elsueno: 10:45pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
 There was a time I spent three full days( covid lock down) in my apartment without even opening d front door. All I did was eat, sleep, play video games, watch anime etc....Nepa was faithful during night hours & my solar was faithful during the day..... It was freaking great!...No annoying little kids dat usually disturb my peace & no any GF to bother me 7 Likes 1 Share
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| Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Junnior: 10:47pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Oblongata:I hope he is not treating your wife like his? 1 Like |
| Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Nonexisting1: 10:50pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Oblongata:Make sure to do DNA tests on your children. I am done talking. 2 Likes |
| Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Komu1048(m): 10:51pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Oblongata: Pls at age 34 am I an old bachelor or normal bachelor. But I do know I can’t be considered a young bachelor |
| Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by cardoctor(m): 10:54pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Na ayangba hustle dem dey. |
| Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by opribo(m): 10:54pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
when you enjoy love and peace and happiness then you don't ever need loneliness in your heart again never to be lonely anymore but when you are living in bondage 6ft down below will be sought like the desert desires rain. |
| Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by lilvicky68(m): 10:54pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Oblongata:They want a family but they can't miss having a family because they haven't had one yet.. I cannot say I miss my children when I don't have any child.. 1 Like |
| Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by lilvicky68(m): 10:56pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Komu1048:Old bachelors are from 40 years 1 Like |
| Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by ahnie: 10:56pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Old overused male bachelor's I'm here to greet you people. Una Weldon o 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by LyfeJennings(m): 10:57pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Oblongata: I'd be 36 Life is good Small apartment Lovely car but if there is anything I want right now is having my own family I dey be like nuisance to myself sometimes 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by ezechi24(m): 10:59pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Oblongata: bachelors wey never get money ..i beg make una no listen to them o.....getting married in porverty is far worse than lonliness...even if it takes you 55yrs to make money ..oga make am first ...because your pikin no go forgive you because you use am do experiment wey no work. 2 Likes |
| Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Tzar(m): 11:01pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Being a bachelor isn't the same as being celibate and/or lonely. We get company as required from time to time. Most are even happier than the so called married ones. 1 Like |
| Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Komu1048(m): 11:04pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
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| Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Kobojunkie: 11:14pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
ezechi24:ROFLMAO  1 Like |
| Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Codedlyon: 11:24pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
lilvicky68:Ori e wanbe |
| Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by seanjy4konji: 11:26pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
May God forbid the spirit that will make you listen to OP and go and marry when you know there is no way to feed them at the moment... I watch ,movies,i drink beer,i take long walks,i go shopping,i take quiet drives,i listen to music,I wear jerseys and go to a pub and socialise with goldberg,i watch aljazeera,i welcome ruth and we have sex,,,,we go out and eat fish pepper soup,i go to site ad see how far work has gone,i come back and browse nairaland,i make calls to loved ones and drink some beer,i book a hotel in far away place ad get a hook up and use few days?i eat and drink, i abuse Buhari....i make some money?i buy more clothes and new wrist watch  I host friends and girlfriends we gist and play ludo....i am happy...Its not a must to have family to be happy....i have a family and we dont live together and i am still happy..when i feel bored at home>i dress up?call my shanapoos and we go have fun... Kalas. 4 Likes |
| Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by mkoabiola: 11:28pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
It not been easy Make i shoot my shot Serious, mature and willing babe Dm Lagos base. May God help d singles No pa  |
| Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by 46arcadez(m): 11:28pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Oblongata: They are not lonely |
| Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by AutoChick4U(f): 11:37pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
macho44:True 1 Like |
| Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Candycrushy(f): 11:37pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Archangels2:Ehyaa 90 percent?? It must really be stressful  |
| Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by AutoChick4U(f): 11:40pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Tzar:You don't miss having that bubbly home? Someone to come home to? |
| Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Candycrushy(f): 11:43pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Nwaotu10:Nwaotu like you Lol |
| Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by LastProphet: 11:50pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Oblongata: Depends on your background, don't always assume everybody comes from the same background as you, open your mind always to know where your knowledge or EXPOSURE ends. I used to have an adult friend who couldn't watch movies? Looked silly to him or he just don't understand the story plot, doesn't make sense to him. Later I realized is because he grew up in the village and never read literature growing up, he never heard of Adolf Hitler before, he never knew why Abraham Lincoln was revered, never heard of asteroids even though one nearly wiped out humanity in 1997 when it missed earth by just 4 hours, he just knew his maths and physics well and felt that was all there was to life. So young man it all depends on your background because it determines what preoccupies your mind. My younger friend is 45 never married and not missed one bit of fun, he's been rich for over 20 years and obviously traveled more than you or all those that support you. See if you go and ask Don Jazzy in private if he's lonely his true answer might confuse you. Pls there's farrrrrr more to life than that your tiny happy family, my dear some people are preparing for the one-way Mars trip as we are typing so you see is about your background, your exposure. I can bet you have very low ambition like most black people. 12 Likes |
| Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Gamesmart: 11:51pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
lexy2014: The real question is: Tell me what are the achievements of home-based players in CAN, WAFU, ACL etc. that shows they are worthy as the main base for selection to represent Nigeria instead of the foreign-based players. |
| Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Nwaotu10(m): 11:55pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
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