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Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by juman(m): 7:56am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Pay your wife her money contributed to build the house. They have robbed you and your wife of the house. That's how family members and most people one way or the other rob their victims. There is no way to chase them out. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by Nobody: 7:56am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Simran94:Very annoying. The parents are wrong just moving into the apartment without informing him. 2 Likes |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by chrisj2(m): 7:57am On Oct 04, 2021 |
descartes400: I like your comment because just because they are parents does not give them the right to abuse their position... They did not even communicate they were going to move it - that is not nice. African culture is not progressive at all... Weird and backward thinking... What sorry black tax is someone talking about? Parents have children - no one forced them, and not all of them are as good and positive as people claim. He pays their rent too... Lastly, I think some people have missed the part where he said the house belongs to his wife and himself - not just himself to and family... Should the wife now forfeit her investment because the parents-in-law have now done wayo? 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by Davash222(m): 7:57am On Oct 04, 2021 |
mariahAngel:In no distant time, I'll become a parent, hope you'll love me too? 2 Likes |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by AntiWailer: 7:58am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Allow them. Plan to build them a smaller house if the one u are building is for another purpose. But for now just allow them stay there. It is better for the ongoing project. |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by RZArecta(m): 7:58am On Oct 04, 2021 |
emae009:he sent them rent and they collected the money. You don't understand where he's coming from, normally you wouldn't like people making use of your property without your permission. Their moving into his house wasn't in any prior discussion, they should have granted him that courtesy if not as their child then at least as a human being. He shouldn't shout but they should have told him first. That move if theirs has completely altered his plans because we don't know what type of jobs he's doing in that foreign land 2 Likes |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by FahBuLous: 7:59am On Oct 04, 2021 |
T4kbaba:To build for his parents is not a bad thing , I would hv suggested that but what if he doesn't have the funds to?? |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by guru03(m): 7:59am On Oct 04, 2021 |
I just hope you are mentally sound, these you post these morning is unnecessary. |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by Pacesetter123(m): 7:59am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Consent ko, conscience ni. Wen the wer buying akara for you in the morning to eat n go to primary school, did they seek ur consent? Wen they stopped buying new clothes for themselves in order to buy school uniform for you,did they seek your consent?Abeg shift one side make Malle and Popsy enjoy the fruits of their labour in peace! U sef,no be Yankee u based? Or na school or biznes trip u dey go dere? Even with that,wen u come back, if at all you dey come back to stay in 9ja here,build another house for them joor! |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by FahBuLous: 8:00am On Oct 04, 2021 |
afamaustin:How am I wicked?? |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by Emperorsirmi: 8:00am On Oct 04, 2021 |
NaijaOlosho:. You are the biggest fool here What if it’s just a room and parlor apartment? Where is he supposed to stay? Being in abroad no mean say life too rosy for him Stop being foolish and calling other people foolish… his parents need to move out. Period!!!!! Let me ask How many have you built for your parents � 7 Likes |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by DWJOBScom(m): 8:00am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Born2conquer: I even think there's a prompt from another relation to do that or the dude's siblings It's a whole lot and must be jibbed immediately in the bud 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by MoneyTrees(m): 8:01am On Oct 04, 2021 |
If this is your mentality & Someone like you would be chosen to lead this country Then Nigeria will always remain a zoo You lack love The sacrifices OP's parents made isn't enough inheritance? OP's parents ain't looking for inheritance; they're simply considering the present economic conditions with the aim to alleviate how much their son spends and how much they're dependent on him You wouldn't see this because like lots of Nigerians out there mediocrity runs in your veins Shokoloko: 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by Harddiskng(m): 8:01am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Everybody dey talk “They are your parents”, like all parent are good parents. Good parents leave inheritance for their children if you guys don’t know, check your bibles. What happens when @Op needs his house? Until they start dragging the ownership of the house with him, with claims of how they spent their own money to build it too. Wetin consign me sef. 4 Likes
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Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by eseh1(f): 8:03am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Forgive me to say his story looks like a familiar story.. A son left a 3mnths brand new car under his father care while travelling out . Note d current car d father has was bought by d son 3 or 4yrs earlier. Few mnths after d son left, father started driving his new car and finally sold his own car that d car was faulty , with the mind dat e will be driving d son's car. So wat do we call this? What if the owner of d car returns? Y not fix ur car or live it parked there until u can fix it? This happened btw my bro and dad.. You kno wat i spoke d truth... you dont plan with some1's sweat. Its bad. If life was that easy, you wud have made ur money... The children will do their best but pls dont ve entitled, rather pray that God continually blesses them to bless u. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by Acidosis(m): 8:03am On Oct 04, 2021 |
NoToPile: Quite insensitive. The wife deserves a fair compensation sha cos that building is gone gone. The house will officially become the husband's family house. 3 Likes |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by domchike(m): 8:04am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Go and sit down you want to tell us about your fantasy mansion You hve money to build house and your parents are leaving in face me i face you apartment |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by DWJOBScom(m): 8:04am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Emperorsirmi: While am grateful you saw the foolishness but the curse was not necessary friend. I am in agreement with you and just think most people commenting are just full of emotions. I am an advocate of taking care of one's parents but not living with them unless one of them is deceased or incapable of physically taking of themselves. A man has to build his fort and made it strong for his marriage. Thankfully he can afford rent for them 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by GetMeRight: 8:05am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Kehindeaj78: Lol. E remain how you wan comot dem for their son's house. Lol. This shit would be frustrating for you but hilarious to read on this side 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by Acidosis(m): 8:06am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Pacesetter123: This one already is planning to demand N100 million monthly from his kids because of akara and akamu. Tout! 8 Likes |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by gabicon: 8:07am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Kehindeaj78: You don't entrust a goat with a lion. Meaning you cant be sending your parents to build a house for you when they are living in a rented apartment. Your parents don't hate you, neither are they greedy, they just have a need and the solution to that need is under their noses. your only remedy now is to start building another house for yourself. There are companies registered in UK and US that build homes for people in Nigeria one of such is Aridan Construction Company registered in the UK, you can use such companies to avoid stories that touch. |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by DWJOBScom(m): 8:07am On Oct 04, 2021 |
eseh1: There's a place for accountability and respect inspite of any relationship 5 Likes |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by GetMeRight: 8:07am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Emarvel: What a mentality? Not everyone living and working abroad want to die and be buried there now no matter how worse Nigeria is! It is still their root 3 Likes |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by MeghaneMorgane(f): 8:07am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Kehindeaj78: Well, I don’t know what you were thinking by building a house for yourself and allowing your parents live in a rented apartment. Just take it that they are living in your house. Whenever you visit Nigeria, I’m sure there is a room waiting for you in the house. It is still your house but you have to let your parents live in it for as long as they want. In fact, it is their new house now and you have to accept that fact. If you don’t like it, start saving money to build a new one. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by RZArecta(m): 8:08am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Kehindeaj78:guy, get them another apartment ASAP. Using people's property without permission is búllshît behaviour on a normal day (no disrespect to your parents). I'm sure your wife won't be happy with this development but if she says it's cool then leave them alone just let her know you're willing to get them another apartment immediately. Stay blessed 3 Likes |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by PrimadonnaO(f): 8:09am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Kehindeaj78: What do you do? Build another house nau. |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by NoToPile: 8:09am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Acidosis: it is gone as in gone, its a family house already. They should both forget about it and plan on getting another property somewhere else. Husband siblings will so drag that property with them ehn. |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by chelseamann(m): 8:10am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Call the police, arrest and chase them out of the house.. there is no Kind of stupid story we won’t see here on NL everyday |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by Toks2008(m): 8:11am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Kehindeaj78: Just tell them to pray for you so you can have more progress. You just did what many people pray to do for their parents. Thank goodness it syiur parents and not one sibling or family member. Sometimes building a house in naija when you are based abroad can be tiring. Who wan live there at the moment? Your kids abroad sef no wan go home and even you won't be home until your retirement except you want a place to come home to instead of renting hotel. So let them live there for now abeg else nah aboki go dey stay there for you like the case of someone I know. |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by walozanga(m): 8:11am On Oct 04, 2021 |
MY BROTHER I KNOW U ARE TALKING ABOUT YOUR PRIVACY WHEN YOU COME BACK. JST KNOW THAT YOU ARE BLESSED FOR HAVING YOUR PARENTS LIVE IN YOUR OWN HOUSE. OLUWA GO GIVE U MORE MONEY TO BUILD MORE HOUSES. SAY AMEN ! |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by Hushmoni: 8:11am On Oct 04, 2021 |
You get sense, go build your own house, dey done collect that one mugu 1 Like |
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