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Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by chrisj2(m): 8:26am On Oct 05, 2021 |
Acidosis: Could not agree more with your last two comments, and many of the others before. Only God knows if this man is living off the grace of his wife - just because he is abroad does not mean he is rich and everything is rosy. Building the house before marriage and now with funds from the wife tells me a lot more about his situation... Abroad people should always be wary about doing anything in Nigeria... There are now organisations or folks setting up scheme to help abroad folks to invest, including building in Nigeria. Phrankleen the blogger has too many cases of folks be diddled and frustrated by their nearest and dearest - he has in fact collaborated with others to help abroad folks through the processes of investing in Nigeria. A word is enough for the wise! Lastly, it is not ideal to flaunt wealth or build wealth through people that are not so wealthy themselves but since the project had already started and he will also be abused for putting someone not family in charge... Damned! One way or the other! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by kapelvej: 9:11am On Oct 05, 2021 |
Kehindeaj78:you should be happy you have parents to enjoy your wealth. pleaese ! 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by Efewestern: 9:15am On Oct 05, 2021 |
Kehindeaj78: Oshare, let them be, as African, we owe it to our parents to always provide and care for them. Leave that house for them. 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by Efewestern: 9:15am On Oct 05, 2021 |
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Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by Doctorflaky(f): 3:44pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Acidosis: Well said...God bless you. 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by Beninwitch: 8:40pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
NoToPile: Exactly! The type of comments I have been reading on this thread shows a high sense of entitlement from our people. How can they move into the house without telling him? I am sure they even called pastors or Imams to pray and threw house warming party. Finances, properties are some of the things that can wreck a marriage. Op has been put into a delicate situation with his wife. I for one, would never have it. Throwing them out now is almost impossible and will cause a lot of bad blood. But it is best he let's them know the position of the house and that it belongs to him and his wife. I hope op doesn't have any strong headed siblings? They will join and claim the house and turn it into a family house. It is well. 2 Likes |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by Nobody: 10:33pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
enesexy: And I hope you wont claim any personal property your husband has due to the fact that you're married to him? Everything he has is his, are you cool with that? |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by CanadianNaija: 11:22am On Oct 07, 2021 |
SaintUlot: The Op didn't post complete story. The wife created a thread and apparently she lives in Naija. He travelled after they got married, and they have been contributing to build it together for years. I'm trying to understand how the people commenting here completely disregards the wife’s financial involvement as if she's not a person. If I were in that marriage, my husband will repay every amount I saved to put in that house. Also, that will be the end of any joint investment in that family. His parents will lose their respect in the presence of their daughter Inlaw for being so badly behaved and disrespectful, and the fact that people here condone and justify this behaviour explains why Nigeria is able to go to shit as a country. Our leaders are really a reflection of our people. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by sorepco(m): 8:53am On Oct 13, 2021 |
Where will he get the money for another house? Nigerians and their entitlement mentality! House wey op de build with him wife! What if na di wife parents moved in? Una for call them evil and bad family with a bad daughter! Make una fear God oh! nokspos: |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by nokspos: 9:26am On Oct 13, 2021 |
you don't have any point , you must always consider family's apartments in your building , that's why there's boys squatters. Parent are too big to let down on such big deals , especially when they've already shown interest, why do you think most of these celebs first build for their parents before even building for themselves. you have no idea the kind of blessing that comes with these things. i'm a living testimony, the reward is magnificent bro. sorepco: |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by Teleprompter(f): 2:11pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
No matter how much the patents struggled to raise this man, they are not justified to move ibto the apartment without mentioning it earlier. It is even more wrong because he is already married. If they are genuinely this close to their son, mentioning it should not be a problem. He may have a sibling or other relatives who would move in and never plan to leave. His wife may have more of the income that built this house and it does not appear beat that her in-laws just moved in. Never the less, it is hopeful that we all out-live out parents and in that case, even if it were their own house, it would be inherited by the children afterall. |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by Lance008(m): 11:27am On Dec 23, 2023 |
Instead of mak you Dey happy you Dey ask for advice It's been 2yrs now Hope u don realize say nothing wrong |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by Lance008(m): 11:28am On Dec 23, 2023 |
Teleprompter:Ewu without no shame |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by Houseontherock1: 3:32pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
FahBuLous:He can't rent another apartment for them... it's like an abomination for them to move from "their house" to a rented apartment. If it's a bungalow, he should just find a way to lock one room. If he's lucky and it's 4 or 2, they take one he stays in one. The parents should have been a little more considerate and seek his consent in my opinion |
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