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Re: How Did You Handle Debtors Without Turning To Enemies? by Nobody: 3:41pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Klass99: Fear Fear! you no even get mind Last year a childhood friend of mine wanted to borrow a whooping sum from me. Thank God I didn't borrow him, I really liked the dude & I wouldn't want to allow money ruin our friendship. Most opposite sex whom i have borrowed money from me never paid back either, except one. Who also almost turned me into a microfinance borrowing platform even after she got married in 2019. I got an advice from another female friend to cut off the friendship, thank God i did. She even tried to use emotional blackmail. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Did You Handle Debtors Without Turning To Enemies? by pocohantas(f): 3:55pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Klass99: Lol. Good you know why I did it. Simply put it in quotes. You type whatever it is within the quote. Just as you did with the caveat you highlighted. I believe in Rule5. The same way guys do it with ladies, that is how ladies do it with guys. I remember one telling me that is why he doesn’t like receiving help from women. 2 Likes
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Re: How Did You Handle Debtors Without Turning To Enemies? by Klass99(f): 4:02pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Re: How Did You Handle Debtors Without Turning To Enemies? by Klass99(f): 4:05pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
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Re: How Did You Handle Debtors Without Turning To Enemies? by Darlingme(f): 5:15pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Klass99:Installment payment for me is very annoying. How can I give you 300k and when it's time for payment, you started sending me #2500, some days 5k and not even consistent. That's not good enough. Such mood of payment can not be useful. 4 Likes |
Re: How Did You Handle Debtors Without Turning To Enemies? by Darlingme(f): 5:21pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
cayorday89:She's so mean. Too bad. I'm sure when she was collecting, she was smiling and appreciating you, but time to pay back, story came in 2 Likes |
Re: How Did You Handle Debtors Without Turning To Enemies? by Downey(f): 5:33pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
People that doesn't want you always wait for you to cross the line 2 Likes |
Re: How Did You Handle Debtors Without Turning To Enemies? by BarrElChapo(m): 5:33pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Why I'm I seeing loneliness in video attached ? |
Re: How Did You Handle Debtors Without Turning To Enemies? by bluefilm: 5:35pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Darlingme: Once the person fails to pay up, anything you do next to him or her will transform the person into an automatic enemy for you. 9 Likes |
Re: How Did You Handle Debtors Without Turning To Enemies? by Goldenheart(m): 5:35pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
All debtors are enemies until they pay 14 Likes |
Re: How Did You Handle Debtors Without Turning To Enemies? by FuckAllTheMODs: 5:35pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
If the debt is becoming unnecessarily delayed, I don't care if they turn to enemy as long as I retrieve the debt. A friend won't wait before they clear the debt, if he/she doesn't have, he/she will reason with you and you will see his/her efforts in paying up. 5 Likes |
Re: How Did You Handle Debtors Without Turning To Enemies? by OnyeFely: 5:37pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Helped my neighbor in the market to buy an item, sterilizer for sterilising hospital instruments. I told him the amount, he made a transfer, and made a transfer, and promised to pay balance wen I came back. He started giving excuses, and I stopped asking, not that I v forgot. 3 Likes |
Re: How Did You Handle Debtors Without Turning To Enemies? by InvertedHammer: 5:39pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
// * Golden Rule* Don’t LEND. Don’t BORROW. Save for emergencies. // 7 Likes |
Re: How Did You Handle Debtors Without Turning To Enemies? by Blake755: 5:39pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Well my bro the first step to collect ur debt is through turning into their enemies 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Did You Handle Debtors Without Turning To Enemies? by PGKing1(m): 5:40pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Never borrow an amount that you can't afford to lose, same principles of gambling... Still your #1#plug for #original #backwoods in #naija 1 Like |
Re: How Did You Handle Debtors Without Turning To Enemies? by Nobody: 5:42pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Ask nicely and when that fails, get professional debt recovery lawyers such as Yellow Silk Attorneys.https://www.yellowsilkattorneys.com[/font]. heck you can still be friends or apologise after you recover the debt. Win/Win. You can Thank me later! 1 Like |
Re: How Did You Handle Debtors Without Turning To Enemies? by Oduduwa707: 5:42pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
The thing is most Nigerians lack integrity! They hate paying back loans. I recently loan an old (>60yrs of age) fool N1.5M and, you needed to see how he was prostrating and begging. I was so embarrassed as I've known him since forever (when I was a kid). He's more like an uncle to me. He'd assisted my parents on several occasions with driving for which he was paid. I never really trusted him to pay back but, he needed it so much and I could kinda afford to part with it. I risked it all and gave him the amount to be paying back N50K on a monthly basis. 6mths have now passed and this old fool is yet to even pay a dime. He kept coming up with excuses. I regret ever giving him the loan. The thing is, I wasn't too surprised as I kinda expected him to default. He's NEVER disciplined. I'm patiently awaiting KARMA to deal with him... 11 Likes |
Re: How Did You Handle Debtors Without Turning To Enemies? by Elsueno: 5:43pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
It's is simple really, I only loan out what I can afford to loose. If there is a no time frame, I will ask u three times only, if u refuse to pay, I will jejely move on. If there is a time frame, which I will ask if u can comfortably pay at dat time & u said "YES" , I WILL NOT CONTACT U EVER, if u like don't pay...I won't persure nor pressure u. Ur best bet, inform me at d appointed time d reasons u can't pay or why u don't have my full money, if I am in good mood, I go even forgive d whole debt BUT if u default & didn't pay me. Bros/sis DON'T EVEN come back to me for any monetary help. Cause I WILL NOT GIVE even if am d only one dat can't help at d current time. 4 Likes
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Re: How Did You Handle Debtors Without Turning To Enemies? by BarrElChapo(m): 5:45pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
I learnt this from my time at winners, I don't borrow. I abhor borrowing, if I don't have or cannot afford it, I rest... i have several friends owing me yet i don't even know how to go about recovering them. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Did You Handle Debtors Without Turning To Enemies? by blackmantis: 5:46pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
One guy pleaded with me to lend him some cash. However on the day he promised to payback he started forming busy. Next thing the ungrateful wretch said is that he regrets borrowing money from me....! I change am for am collected my cash and blocked his sorry ass from ever contacting me. 7 Likes |
Re: How Did You Handle Debtors Without Turning To Enemies? by Lukaku95: 5:47pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
On it now . If I come out from this one. I am not doing again. 9 Likes |
Re: How Did You Handle Debtors Without Turning To Enemies? by lomprico(m): 5:48pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Darlingme: no way! |
Re: How Did You Handle Debtors Without Turning To Enemies? by Darlingme(f): 5:48pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
BarrElChapo:It's just a YouTube channel have been trying to build. It has nothing to do with this |
Re: How Did You Handle Debtors Without Turning To Enemies? by Coldie(m): 5:49pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
I told them to give me half and forget the rest. Ones who didn’t I just act like I have forgotten the money patiently waited for the day month year when we would do anything that involves money and their money entered my hands. The moment I left the area and they started calling me I did exactly what they did to me without remorse 3 Likes |
Re: How Did You Handle Debtors Without Turning To Enemies? by Darlingme(f): 5:49pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
bluefilm:That's the fear here. |
Re: How Did You Handle Debtors Without Turning To Enemies? by Mariokenny(m): 5:51pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Not always possible. One paid today after three months. Money she promised paying back within 2 days. Yeah, I really said so many things I shouldn't have ordinarily said to her but then I had no choice than to do whatever it takes to recover the debt. The transaction was done on WhatsApp but she already blocked me long ago. Thank God she finally paid. I'm not sure we will ever talk to each anymore. 8 Likes |
Re: How Did You Handle Debtors Without Turning To Enemies? by Sanni45(m): 5:51pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
1F30M4:I don't just know why humans are like that. When people need things they can be very submissive but when they get it they tend to lord over you. It is quite pathetic. 6 Likes |
Re: How Did You Handle Debtors Without Turning To Enemies? by Bfss: 5:52pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Hmmm |
Re: How Did You Handle Debtors Without Turning To Enemies? by UndauntedYOCA(f): 5:52pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
I kuku left the money. 1 Like |
Re: How Did You Handle Debtors Without Turning To Enemies? by bluefilm: 5:55pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Darlingme: That's people for you. And that's why it's best to only lend the amount of money that you are only willing and comfortable to lose to people, should the person fail to pay back Or better still... Don't lend to them at all... Because three out of four times, the stories always ends bad for the person lending the money. If care is not taken, you as a lender will lose your money and also lose your friend at the same time and in the same process. 2 Likes |
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