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Aaronsrod:


Read your Bible!

Women must do as their husbands command. This is why wives should not go abroad with us. They will claim 'freedom' and 'equality' under oyinbo satanic system.

We cannot maintain domestic discipline in a land without God's Law.

I pity your wife

Long story short NOPE.

one of the Best decisions of my life, right behind Marrying her!

Amanda4life:


ONE DAY YOU WILL SOON LEAVE THE PLANET TOO

Nothing will happen to Aaronsrod, Nigga has done nothing wrong

Are you normal Just asking

Maski87:
No regrets for me,I was a banker before I fled Nigeria to UK things were really hard for me us and our 4 children until my wife started sleeping with this big yoruba man that she was cleaning his house,now na serious enjoyment we dey do,my friends are now saying the didn't know that we have money

abbey621:
In this life everything na 50% planning 50% blessing. I no date my wife for up to 6 months before I decided to marry her. Brought her to the USA and aside from the normal arguments between couples, no wahala whatsoever, it's been over 5 years now. The greatest advice here is to ask yourself, who does the woman fear or respect? Look at her upbringing, her religious inclination, her views on life and family.

It's quite simple, any woman can mess up for any reason, it is a combination of hormones and nature, the key here is what exactly pulls her back to normalcy? Her parents? God? Love for her kids? Love for her husband? If her motivation is money, clout, fame etc, sooner or later the little love that she has for you would poof and disappear, she would find every reason to leave or destroy you from 30 seconds man to woman beater. Abroad no be 9ja where gra gra works, over here you must operate in stealth mode, never ever put all your eggs in one basket. Even tho you love your wife with all your heart, always have savings/assets set aside for the worst case scenario.....May God help us all!

BUT DO YOU KNOW THERE ARE PEOPLE WITH PURE HEART

IF A MAN TREAT ME LIKE SHIT IN NIGERIA, OVER THERE IN ABROAD I WILL TREAT YOUR Bleep I

slimjohn2k5:
I was listening to the radio and the discussion is on this.

Story1: naija man in US had argument with the wife n she called police that he wants to kill her. Police came, arrested him n after releasing him, asked him to stay away from his wife for 30days. He was staying with his guy, but on the 25th day, the wife called and begged him to return home that she have realized her mistakes. He went and they were discussing when police knocked at the door, she asked him to go n hide in the room. Police asked the wife if he has come home, she said no and the police requested a search, he was found in the toilet. You know the rest of the story

Story2
Oga took his wife to US for holiday and she absconded because she do not want to return to Naija

Story3
A man took his wife to the UK, the wife framed him up, he was arrested. Then the wife filed for asylum, reason that if she return to Nigeria, her inlaws will kill her. Luckily for the man the police knew her plans and sent them both to Nigeria. The man then divorced her

Other stories like men doing house chores etc

With all these stories, a matured mind is needed to confirm and advise

Yes I regret

Amanda4life:




BUT DO YOU KNOW THERE ARE PEOPLE WITH PURE HEART

Define pure heart? Anyone can sin, anyone can become compromised, even Bible said "all have sinned and fallen short", remember it is not about now, it is about future possibilities. Will that man/woman be the same when we introduce millions or billions, would they still fast and pray when the back of their neck is full of fat and their bellies looking like Mount Kilimanjaro?

Aaronsrod:


What is this one saying? The Bible tells us a husband must rule over his wife.

Ephesians 5:24. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.

Does christ force u to go to church or give ur tithe or offerings? When u disobey does he forgive u and forget or run u down??

So let’s copy the kind of rule the Bible stated cos it’s not the kind rule tradition or circular system has.

Differentiate:

But why is it only Nigerians.?
Chinese immigrate same as Indias , Mexicans and all other race . and they abide by the rules and regulations of the country they immigrate to. With their families and loved ones without any palava of he brought me in and he's demanding for the money I work for .
Honestly black races is a very special being. Everything about us is disorganized.

You have no single idea of the abuses Asians face abroad. Especially women, but they have a culture of silence, stoicism, and being demure. If you don't want problems the mantra here is go and get an Asian wife.

Latinx are the biggest law breakers of any immigrant population in America. That's what Trump used to campaign to win elections.

So go back and recheck your facts. And Nigerians are one of the most successful group of immigrants here.

R u serious or trolling?



quote author=Maski87 post=107447420]No regrets for me,I was a banker before I fled Nigeria to UK things were really hard for me us and our 4 children until my wife started sleeping with this big yoruba man that she was cleaning his house,now na serious enjoyment we dey do,my friends are now saying the didn't know that we have money [/quote]

ednut1:
i be man o. I saw it alot in uk, seeing it in canada too. Double standards from both parties. Both want to enjoy benefits of Nigerian society and uk own at same time

Interesting, so you also lived in the UK. You dom waka oh.

ednut1:
For every bad news there are more than 1000 married people enjoying their marriages abroad. Both men and women do all sort of rubbish abroad.
1. No house maid abroad, yet you allow your wife to work and do all chores alone. Some even demand for fresh food. Wont she divorce you after

2. Some men have been beating the wife from Nigeria, the day you slap her here she called police. Is it not justified

3. You cheat without shame, she con do you strong thing. Is she not justified

4. Some bring women abroad and tell her to use your account as salary account. Then you give her a fraction of her own salary o.

The law favours women too because for centuries men have had the advantage. The system corrupts them too, they hear things, see things at work places and lawyers working on commission bases plenty. A woman is entitled to your house after divorce especially if kids are involved, na you go leave. Child support and alimony too dey. Who no like free benefits

Abeg i don tire for man and woman matter hahaha

I hardly like comment, but u strongly deserve my like"


When few marriages have problems, they pronounced and yell as if it's Hell on Earth, but for several that are going smoothly, they silent on it. They will not strive to experience such good marriages.

Meanwhile, lazy and despair type of guys would rely heavily on few marriages that Rocky, and start Lamentations of .......... marriage is not for everyone, I only need child and not wife.

"Awon alaini nkan se crew member

Maski87:
No regrets for me,I was a banker before I fled Nigeria to UK things were really hard for me us and our 4 children until my wife started sleeping with this big yoruba man that she was cleaning his house,now na serious enjoyment we dey do,my friends are now saying the didn't know that we have money

Congratulations to you and your family sir, may your days be long

The solution is to marry someone who has as much to lose as yourself

The problem begins when you pick a hungry girl and bring her here just to use her and enjoy her labour. It'll backfire cos female rights here are epic

Imagine you marry someone in America who has 2 masters and a great job at Google as a manager. And you're an IT professional too or a doctor. Why would she want to be in the news for disgracing you? Infact she'll work hard to make it work. On the flip side, you bring a girl here, train her to become a nurse and expect her to give you her salary, tolerate your cheating, accept you abusing her and collect the child tax credits every year....she go vex na

Get an equal or richer lady. You both stand to lose if it flops. She'll treat you like an egg

Naija men don wise, nobody is comming to the village from America to come pick a virgin wife or picking a woman for just being beautiful, if you dont tick certain criteria's you will get dropped like it's hot.

Never take your wife abroad and settle there. The laws can be savagely and unjustly weaponized against you by a woman who has simply done her due diligence. Women can be very hideous and devilish.

I know that on this issue people (women and simps) will resort to their staple refrain that men have been abusive and brutally controlling in Africa and the women were simply and righteously standing up from themselves in a country with a working system. This is ever rarely the case; the picture is starkly different. No one will tell you how tyrannical, petty, abusive, controlling and cruel wives become against their husbands (innocent or not) when the gynocentric family and domestic violence laws give them all the power and afford them the latitude to indulge their whims and caprices.

I will say no more. slimjohn2k5, don't let anyone deceive you.

Nonexisting1:
If you take your wife with you abroad, you have dug your own grave already. Many Nigerian men in London today have no living because of this same mistake of taking daughters of Jezebel they call wives to abroad.

Why married in first instance? Why looking for offspring from demonic entity? "Confused get to gether on faceless forum"

Love a Nigerian woman abroad at your own peril. A word is enough for the wise.

Anyhow it works for you take it that way my 1 naira advice

tyup:


Nothing will happen to Aaronsrod, Nigga has done nothing wrong

Bless you my broda. Stand firm.

Hosea 4:6 : My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge: because thou hast rejected knowledge, I will also reject thee...
1 Timothy 2:12, KJV: But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.

ednut1:
i be man o. I saw it alot in uk, seeing it in canada too. Double standards from both parties. Both want to enjoy benefits of Nigerian society and uk own at same time

You are simply amazing

slimjohn2k5:
I was listening to the radio and the discussion is on this.

Story1: naija man in US had argument with the wife n she called police that he wants to kill her. Police came, arrested him n after releasing him, asked him to stay away from his wife for 30days. He was staying with his guy, but on the 25th day, the wife called and begged him to return home that she have realized her mistakes. He went and they were discussing when police knocked at the door, she asked him to go n hide in the room. Police asked the wife if he has come home, she said no and the police requested a search, he was found in the toilet. You know the rest of the story

Story2
Oga took his wife to US for holiday and she absconded because she do not want to return to Naija

Story3
A man took his wife to the UK, the wife framed him up, he was arrested. Then the wife filed for asylum, reason that if she return to Nigeria, her inlaws will kill her. Luckily for the man the police knew her plans and sent them both to Nigeria. The man then divorced her

Other stories like men doing house chores etc

With all these stories, a matured mind is needed to confirm and advise

Your story shouldn't end oooo. Tell us more stories:

1. Of husbands in Nigeria who love hanging out with their friends more than spending time with their wives and kids.

2. Men in Nigeria who go to their store from Mondays to Saturdays and attend ceremonies on Sundays without their wives.

nelem:


Sorry boss, just for clarity sake.
If you claim/assume these (the bolded), why do you want to still travel to that abroad (satanic land as you posit) or if you are already there why are you still living there?

You think say na everybody wey dey post here be Nigerian.

Foreign trolls boku here well well oh..

Story 1: How can police request for a search when the woman already said the husband is not back? If police actually requested, the woman will certainly say NO (she has the right) knowing full that she asked him to come back ( unless it was just a trap)
Police can only do such search with a warrant, then they don't need the woman's consent.

ednut1:
like i said only few people do this. Be like guilty conscience dey worry you lol. Have you beat madam before in Nigeria Have you treated her with disdainhave you prevented her growth career wise. My own uncle wey sponsored his wife to uk for masters was deported 2 years after he came to join her. For 10 years he has not seen his kids. The wife got free house from government and other benefits. He bleeped up tho because he beat his wife.

When you paint this type of picture, it gives a false generalization that any man whose wife has driven him away from home is guilty of domestic violence, or cheated or refused to help in house chores. There abound many who are not in above category, but are treated worse.
True, many marriages of Nigerians are doing well in the Western world, but some greedy Nigerian women are taking advantage of the system to show the bad side. Not as a response to bad treatment, but out of greed and sheer wickedness.

A Warri guy got married to a Warri babe. They guy supported the babe to finish her PhD, while he developed a bakery business. The lady joined him in the business after her PhD. As they were expanding, the lady demanded that the guy give her the recipe, so he can share with her family back home. The guy refused. Trouble started. As I type, she has taken the bakery and ejected the guy. Bar the guy from seeing the 2 kids they have together. The guy left empty handed. But she is busy telling people that the guy left her.

I have other sad examples of sheer greed and wickedness. Not in all cases is it always the man's fault.

stayclearofme:
Story 1: How can police request for a search when the woman already said the husband is not back? If police actually requested, the woman will certainly say NO (she has the right) knowing full that she asked him to come back ( unless it was just a trap)
Police can only do such search with a warrant, then they don't need the woman's consent.

Bro, please what is the meaning of parole