I created this acct today for single ladies to learn from my mistakes..

I finished from school some years back, after my final exams I decided to stay back because I was into little business, I sell ladies wears and bags.

On Thursday evening I was outside my hostel when guy pass we exchanged greetings, I fell for him I can't explain why ( I was single) the next evening he saw me we had a little chats, we exchanged numbers.

We became friends, after two weeks the feelings started growing and I fell in love with him( I wanted a serious relationship) I went to his house with my friend spent few minutes and left..the next day my friend had a guest so I decided to go to his place, I pleaded with him that I don't want any sexual itimacy he aggreed, around 5am he started touching me one thing led to the other..after two months I find out he has a gf, before then I dreamt about him it made me feel for him more deeply.

I was very down and I decided to move on I went to bear parlor I drank to stupor some people help me home..the next day he called, he started saying the lady is a cheat, we move on..after some months I relocated to another state I was hunting for job, I travelled to lagos, he calls me every day, we chat the love grows more, he was very broke, I sent him money, after some months I left lagos, on my back a man told me to avoid any relationship at the moment, wish I heed to his advice..

I went directly to his place, he was down, he den open up to me that he's in interested fraud( yahoo) and nothing is dropping, he told me he came to ilorin but he was asked to bring human parts but he can't, and his neighbor is cashing out, I told him I'll help because I really love him I spoke with my neighbor if she know any juju man that's very good, she introduced me to a man. I had close to 100k in my account, we both went to the man I did a lot of prayers, ate different types of things we spend more than 50k after some weeks nothing is dropping, and I'm feeding him, my account is red already, he spoke with his friend, his friend introduced him to another juju man den we are out of cash already.

He told me that he want to go home to hustle up, after some weeks he started posting the other girl pic I was very down after everything I did for him, I moved on but it was too late, I was pregnant my initial plan was to abort it when someone who doesn't even me told me she saw me in hospital in her dream

I insisted on aborting but every means I tried wasn't working until I was told not to abort the child.

Hmmm...this narrative reminds of that soap opera called Super story

Ammishaddai:
Hmmm...this narrative reminds of that soap opera called Super story

I told him about it he insists I abort, I went to his parents, they supported him, in fact his mom and dad called all sort of names after everything I did for him , I find out he has a kid with another woman, hmm


I wanted commiting sucide my neighbor stood for me she was der Tru thick and thin, I started hunting for job I almost got used, after three months I was sick I had to travel to my mom she started taking care of me..

Life will humble you.

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My edd was December, all through the month nothing happened, last week of December water broke, 3weeks straight no sign of labor and water keep gushing out everyday, the 3rd week i started feeling back pains I went to where i was registered the woman said baby is coming, she checked, she said the baby is not coming yet that I was just feeling pains

The pains became unbearable I was crying, the woman said there's nothing she can do , I went home around 12 am it started again, this time by back and all my body joints was paining me seriously my mom was praying, around 2 am I was rushed to the hospital the woman I met der said she can't feel the baby's head,I was tired already, my mom was crying 6am I was rushed to another hospital

Tent here

I got there I was very weak , I was given Injections and drips after 4 hours I gave birth to a baby boy, my baby is okay..

After 4 hours I started bleeding heavily it was God that revive me, my mom called his parents they refused to render any help till date, my baby is 4years

I lost my life because I fell for the wrong guy, I lost my career, I lost everything..im trying to bounce back I don't even know where to start from..

Ammishaddai:
Hmmm...this narrative reminds of that soap opera called Super story

hmmm may u not fall into the wrong hand, iv bn in mess for 4 years, iv stayed indoor for 3 months..

InTheCloudySky:
You moved too fast, without getting to know who he is.

*You said you fell in love with him after two weeks of meet. That's not even love but infatuation.

*You went to his house around the same time you claim to have falling in love with him. Somebody you just met. Unless you really know a guy, don't go to his house or at least don't go so soon.

*You didn't only go to his house but slept overnight that same night. What did you expect? He will obviously want sex, which is what happened.


Next time, take the time to get to know a guy first, then have a committed relationship in place, and most of all, don't sleep with him until marriage.

hmmmm.. thanks

Funmiola95:
hmmm may u not fall into the wrong hand, iv bn in mess for 4 years, iv stayed indoor for 3 months..

Sofiora, why do you keep creating new accounts ...is it that you're that jobless ?

Ammishaddai:
Sofiora, why do you keep creating new accounts ...is it that you're that jobless ?

I don't understand, this what happened to me..

Ammishaddai:
Sofiora, why do you keep creating new accounts ...is it that you're that jobless ?

pls don't drain my thread, I created this thread because I want people to learn from my mistakes..I don't v any reason to lie,I still have my scan results here

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Eyahhhhh..

The truth is that the future is like a pregnant woman....It may be good or bad......But op,that isn't the end of the world.....Your greatest motivation at this moment should be your baby......As in, anytime you see her,you should always say to yourself--""I ain't giving up". If not for anything or anyone else,just stay strong for your baby...

Funmiola95:
pls don't drain my thread, I created this thread because I want people to learn from my mistakes..I don't v any reason to lie,I still have my scan results here

...you actually created this account to get engagement and show us how jobless you are in real life

CsRockefeller:
Hmmmmm. Bad guys seems to be winning.

We good guys get nothing, even when we put our all for the other party. I know many ladies who were feeling fly in school but are today very single and searching, one was telling me over the weekend that she hopes to find love this December, she's tired.

It's well. Let's all carry our cross. I'm carrying mine without wining about it.

wish I didn't fell for him..I almost sacrificed my life for him to become somebody, sometime last year I was able to see his post Tru a friend,he was cashing out big time, clubbing, spending money, using expensive car, spending money, when I'm here nursing the child alone, I hustle to put my kid in school and recently I just got him text books, it has not been easy, I called his parents 2years ago the father shun me off on phone, after everything I did for this guy, I cried almost everyday wish I didn't fall for him..

Funmiola95:
wish I didn't fell for him..I almost sacrificed my life for him to become somebody, sometime last year I was able to see his post Tru a friend,he was cashing out big time, clubbing, spending money, using expensive car, spending money, when I'm here nursing the child alone, I hustle to put my kid in school and recently I just got him text books, it has not been easy, I called his parents 2years ago the father shun me off on phone, after everything I did for this guy, I cried almost everyday wish I didn't fall for him..

It's not his parents' responsibility to step up but his. It's too bad he's a loser who has refused to look after his child. Can you take him to court and sue him for child support?

Ammishaddai:
...you actually created this account to get engagement and show us how jobless you are in real life

smiles I'm not jobless sir, if u can't contribute then stop quoting me pls, do u think I'll sit and form a story like this.. smiles

InTheCloudySky:

It's not his parents' responsibility to step up but his. It's too bad he's a loser who has refused to look after his child. Can you take him to court and sue him for child support?

I don't have money..

Funmiola95:
smiles I'm not jobless sir, if u can't contribute then stop quoting me pls, do u think I'll sit and form a story like this.. smiles

Keep deluding yourself. Las las, you'll become a social nuisance looking for who to dump responsibility on .

Ammishaddai:
Keep deluding yourself. Las las, you'll become a social nuisance looking for who to dump responsibility on .

the last I'll ever do, I don't depend on people, I've bn taking care of the baby alone with my mom for good 4 years, and if I decided to get married today the baby will definitely be with my mom, he's the source of joy to my mom, I can't take him away from her, I'm not asking for support for the child, I v a good mother, I posted this for people learn not to gain sympathy whatsoever...he's now a big boy tho

Funmiola95:
I created this acct today for single ladies to learn from my mistakes..
I finished from school some years back, after my final exams I decided to stay back because I was into little business, I sell ladies wears and bags.
On Thursday evening I was outside my hostel when guy pass we exchanged greetings, I fell for him I can't explain why ( I was single) the next evening he saw me we had a little chats, we exchanged numbers.
We became friends, after two weeks the feelings started growing and I fell in love with him( I wanted a serious relationship) I went to his house with my friend spent few minutes and left..the next day my friend had a guest so I decided to go to his place, I pleaded with him that I don't want any sexual itimacy he aggreed, around 5am he started touching me one thing led to the other..after two months I find out he has a gf, before then I dreamt about him it made me feel for him more deeply.
I was very down and I decided to move on I went to bear parlor I drank to stupor some people help me home..the next day he called, he started saying the lady is a cheat, we move on..after some months I relocated to another state I was hunting for job, I travelled to lagos, he calls me every day, we chat the love grows more, he was very broke, I sent him money, after some months I left lagos, on my back a man told me to avoid any relationship at the moment, wish I heed to his advice..

I went directly to his place, he was down, he den open up to me that he's in interested fraud( yahoo) and nothing is dropping, he told me he came to ilorin but he was asked to bring human parts but he can't, and his neighbor is cashing out, I told him I'll help because I really love him I spoke with my neighbor if she know any juju man that's very good, she introduced me to a man .i had close to 100k in my account, we both went to the man I did a lot of prayers, ate different types of things we spend more than 50k after some weeks nothing is dropping, and I'm feeding him, my account is red already, he spoke with his friend, his friend introduced him to another juju man den we are out of cash already

He told me that he want to go home to hustle up, after some weeks he started posting the other girl pic I was very down after everything I did for him, I moved on but it was too late, I was pregnant my initial plan was to abort it when someone who doesn't even me told me she saw me in hospital in her dream
I insisted on aborting but every means I tried wasn't working until I was told not to abort the child.

hummm

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Funmiola95:
the last I'll ever do, I don't depend on people, I've bn taking care of the baby alone with my mom for good 4 years, and if I decided to get married today the baby will definitely be with my mom, he's the source of joy to my mom, I can't take him away from her, I'm not asking for support for the child, I v a good mother, I posted this for people learn not to gain sympathy whatsoever...he's now a big boy tho

[/s] You're really jobless sha...what a pity

Ammishaddai:
[s][/s] You're really jobless sha...what a pity

can't u leave this lady alone, what do you want to gain from this? Learn to mind your business na

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debbydams:
can't u leave this lady alone, what do you want to gain from this? Learn to mind your business na

[/s]I don't remember inviting you into my mentions .

Funmiola95:
hmmm may u not fall into the wrong hand, iv bn in mess for 4 years, iv stayed indoor for 3 months..

First of all, you have to forgive yourself for all the wrong choices that you made, let go of all the hurt, the anger, and the hate that you feel so that your soul can begin to heal and find peace, then comes new strength in your spirit to start over.
May God refresh your soul and spirit.

Mariangeles:



First of all, you have to forgive yourself for all the wrong choices that you made, let go of all the hurt, the anger and the hate that you feel so that your soul can begin to heal and find peace, then comes new strength in your spirit to start over.
May God refresh your soul and spirit.

Amen thanks ma

God please ohhh... Abeg...

babymama wiv overused pusci, abeg free us tale by the moonlight . make una no sleep around, make una no sleep around u no dey hear word

Funmiola95:
the last I'll ever do, I don't depend on people, I've bn taking care of the baby alone with my mom for good 4 years, and if I decided to get married today the baby will definitely be with my mom, he's the source of joy to my mom, I can't take him away from her, I'm not asking for support for the child, I v a good mother, I posted this for people learn not to gain sympathy whatsoever...he's now a big boy tho

n lie to the man say u no be baby mama ?