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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Transcriber: 12:12pm On Jul 08, 2022
Tamilore11:
I speak into ur soul. May ur head go blank. Start eating the seed of darkness. Chew the sand of misery while u cry for help in bitterness n pain . Your God will forsake u!!
chai this moniker na curse moniker o shocked shocked

Make una no near am
All his posts are curses
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by CheedyJ(m): 12:12pm On Jul 08, 2022
Even as a guy that I'm , I can't raise my legs up while my friend's Mom is sweeping, e no proper abeg
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Transcriber: 12:14pm On Jul 08, 2022
satandeterrible:

Who be this fool?
Women set standards for men all the time.
Women set financial standard, height, stature, physique of the man the want to marry.
But it is a crime for a man to have his own standards?
You're very sick in the head.
exactly
They set impossible standards but cry foul when it's vice versa
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by ChiefS(m): 12:14pm On Jul 08, 2022
UyaiIncomparabl:


It beats my imagination because these men will never meet half the standards they set for women. And I am not capping! They want virgins, but ain't virgins. They want a woman who can cook, clean, be a mistress in the bedroom and also a top-performing manager at work like Alakija, while they are under performers.

They can't meet half of what they set.

The choice of a life partner like other products in the marketplace is determined by supply and demand. Both genders are buyers and sellers at the same time. The sad reality is that buyers (both men and women) have certain attributes they look out for. Though some of those expectations are unreasonable. One definition of quality is satisfaction of customer requirements. You just have to do all within your ability to meet and exceed the basic requirements and leave the market. Pray to marry the partner that satisfies your reasonable requirements and enjoy a long lasting happy home. Complaining will not solve the problem.

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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by SlurUsername1: 12:15pm On Jul 08, 2022
ibechris:
See if u like fine,if u like no fine...If I like your business sense and discipline as a woman,every other thing na rubbish.

Because I can wash,I can help u to cook,I wash your clothes as my wife...I bath my children regularly,who says is a woman's job?

I don't just write this here to curry favour from the ladies,but that is just me at home. I wash dishes at home times without number,even my nanny sometimes gets scared about her jobs.

Men should stop setting standards because if u push a lady to pretend along and u eventually marries her,u are a gonner,then u will see what u never bargained for in the marriage.


Simp tongue

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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Opolopoopolonio: 12:15pm On Jul 08, 2022
UyaiIncomparabl:


Whatever. You and your family sure don't know how to treat guests. If na caucasian babe now, una go dey idolize am.

Well, maybe you will eventually marry your family... cheesy

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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Jhena(f): 12:17pm On Jul 08, 2022
Lol.

Shiiiit tests or not. I won't be comfortable raising my legs up tho. Maybe the woman purposely did it but heck, I know I have to atleast ask to help.

But raise my legs Jeez!!! That's gross. Haba, which mama raise some of una na. Babes make we dey calm down ooo

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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Kobojunkie: 12:19pm On Jul 08, 2022
Karleb:
Has the world gone mad?
How were you raised?

When elders are doing a chore, are you not supposed to at least offer to help?

It's what guys do easily.
This is a type of conversation that needs to happen real life. Someone needs to slap you back to your senses.
Yet the woman's own son didn't do it for her? undecided

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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Ebubu3: 12:19pm On Jul 08, 2022
McDuncan:


Only Bìtches deny reading diatribes directed at them. Your claim being a male is pending scientific investigation.

And your mom never told you I was responsible for your education? Even paid the debts weighing your drunken father down?

She came sobbing, coyishly stroking my shaft and I watched her tears trickle down her then fairly robust cleavage. I had her right there on my sofa. Lying her sideways i had her legs closed to keep her collapsed pùssy walls as close to each other as possible. I while I straddled from the side.

He4 butt danced rhythmically to my thrust while her breasts vibrated seismically like two giant churches bells.
grin type me more. I didn't read this epistle that took you several minutes. Shows how "productive" offline you are grin

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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Theboy21: 12:21pm On Jul 08, 2022
Last time i checked, the Westerners you are trying to copy or worship do offer help to elderly ones, but y'all fugly black feminist feeling like the sh!t you are not cheesy cheesy cheesy sha reality will surely catch up with ya'll if you don't repent cheesy cheesy depression n frustration is bad cheesy cheesy

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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Karleb(m): 12:21pm On Jul 08, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Yet the woman's own son didn't do it for her? undecided

Nigga! Stop quoting me.
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Basic123: 12:22pm On Jul 08, 2022
advanceDNA:
You sound angry...
All for what??
Someone's opinion....??


Its funny how you invalidate people's opinion becos you dont agree....but you somehow wnt them to agree with yours for whatever reason best known to you...
Intelligent post.


You remind me of peter obi ass lickers
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 12:22pm On Jul 08, 2022
30naira:


I am a man, I will set the standard for who I want to marry.
You are a woman, you will set the standard for who you want to marry.
If you don't live up to my standard, I won't marry you. If I don't meet your standard, then don't marry me.

I want to marry a woman I can control! That's my standard. There are women who want to be controlled, I ll search for them and marry there.

You want a man that will be your equal, they are out there, find one and marry.

Why my own standard dey pain you?

Na small girl you go marry las las. You can never control an adult. Only women with daddy issues will succumb to your standard.
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by pacespot(m): 12:23pm On Jul 08, 2022
If that is the only reason for you to leave a women, then both of you were never into each other before.

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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by skana28(m): 12:23pm On Jul 08, 2022
I only feel pity for you. It beats my imagination on your confidence defending rubbish even though I like your writing skills. You were right to claim that the mum should not sweep while a guest was around. Is that not an enough tip to hint the girl that she's been tested?

Anyways, I look forward to seeing you with bible and holy water in another stunning "carry me dey go my husband house video - Volume 2". Na your type belpng to that category.





UyaiIncomparabl:
I saw this post on Facebook and it makes me question myself asking what "Nigerian men want". It irks me so bad.

Women have been debased to NOTHING that a chore has become a yardstick in choosing a wife. I keep asking myself if God did not make a mistake to have given the headship to them from the beginning.

And now, I'll reiterate this here. I also don't care about the reactions it brings. It's not my business how you feel but I must say this to men- DO NOT SET UNNECESSARY STANDARDS THAT YOU WON'T MEET. Read that again. Would he have washed the girl's father's or mother's clothes if turns were switched? NO. Many men here won't either. It degrades them after all. ONLY women should cower and wash g-pee tanks because they want to marry. Marriage only favours the women after all. It's the women who do these things I blame. You don't rate yourselves.

If you try this with me, I'll FAIL your test woefully. It is the audacity to make this a post for me. They make marriage seem so unpalatable and dramatic.

Manners should tell you that you do not sweep when a guest is around. It is ABSOLUTELY rude and that shows that you do not even respect me enough to have kept your abode neat before my arrival. And that to me, is a RED FLAG!

It also tells me that "I am not welcome in your abode". I am immensely glad that the girl in the story dodged a bullet. Good riddance.

Signed; Bitterleaf Feminist.
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 12:23pm On Jul 08, 2022
Harmony92:
The question should be " who raised your mom? Two of my brothers are married n my mom didn't make their wives go true stress jor.

The same question we should be asking. Who raised his mom? Very valid question.
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by boykas(m): 12:24pm On Jul 08, 2022
Damn, I had to sign in just to quote you.. it disgust me when seeing this kind of respond to a this kinda of post. Yea I know you are feminist. And it's obvious you never grew here in Africa but outside. And you are, where were you born, who is your father, who brought you up.
Babe, there's a clear different between a standard and culture. You see before your fore fore fathers, here in Africa, especially in Nigeria, mostly in Yoruba land. If an elderly person is doing a chore and you must endeavor to assist him/her. Wether you are a wife or neirgbours.. that's not standard, that's culture. Cuz we are Africans.. we help the elders, we give them the ideal respect and believe the prayers of that elders is a blessing to we the children..

So I ask again, who is your father, I won't ask of your mother. Cuz if you grew with your father, I know the strong man will give you some sense not a feminist like your mother.

And who the hell brought you up..

I hate seeing this kinda of a post







UyaiIncomparabl:
I saw this post on Facebook and it makes me question myself asking what "Nigerian men want". It irks me so bad.

Women have been debased to NOTHING that a chore has become a yardstick in choosing a wife. I keep asking myself if God did not make a mistake to have given the headship to them from the beginning.

And now, I'll reiterate this here. I also don't care about the reactions it brings. It's not my business how you feel but I must say this to men- DO NOT SET UNNECESSARY STANDARDS THAT YOU WON'T MEET. Read that again. Would he have washed the girl's father's or mother's clothes if turns were switched? NO. Many men here won't either. It degrades them after all. ONLY women should cower and wash g-pee tanks because they want to marry. Marriage only favours the women after all. It's the women who do these things I blame. You don't rate yourselves.

If you try this with me, I'll FAIL your test woefully. It is the audacity to make this a post for me. They make marriage seem so unpalatable and dramatic.

Manners should tell you that you do not sweep when a guest is around. It is ABSOLUTELY rude and that shows that you do not even respect me enough to have kept your abode neat before my arrival. And that to me, is a RED FLAG!

It also tells me that "I am not welcome in your abode". I am immensely glad that the girl in the story dodged a bullet. Good riddance.

Signed; Bitterleaf Feminist.

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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Konjiboii: 12:25pm On Jul 08, 2022
If you don't see anything wrong with the girl behavior then you are completely dumber than I thought you were.

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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by FuckSilly: 12:26pm On Jul 08, 2022
UyaiIncomparabl:


I should be asking you if you know what you are talking about. It is insolence to sweep when a guest is around, especially with the entitlement mentality that she should have taken the stress off you. Who asked you? Wait and let me be gone then you can sweep your house.

It simply tells the guest that you don't welcome them. Learn simple manners. Why must it be when a guest is around the mother chooses to sweep?
Shut up!
Shut your trap!
It is insolence yenyenyen

WHO TOLD YOU THAT?
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Kobojunkie: 12:26pm On Jul 08, 2022
Karleb:


Nigga! Stop quoting me.
Read the OP again. Her own son watched her sweeping and didn't take the broom from her. undecided

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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by anonymuz(m): 12:27pm On Jul 08, 2022
UyaiIncomparabl:


That one sef follow.
what's you definition of submission? Women aren't slaves but there're certain thing you pretend you do or you don't when visiting you spouse to be in their home. I call it packaging
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Belleful: 12:27pm On Jul 08, 2022
UyaiIncomparabl:


You guys deserve people with pretentious attitude. I don't need to sweep for your mother to show I am well trained. Go and get your mom a maid.
U see the reason they u people have fish brain.? It's because of cases like this. Did the guy make the girl his mother's house maid?
Life is turn by turn.
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Drillminded: 12:27pm On Jul 08, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
While some Dumbos will say "if you ain't a virgin then you deserve no man" like WTF? grin
The Dumbo who made that statement is prolly a wh**re himself but deem it fit and cool to tell a woman what and what not to do.. grin
culturally, the girl is wrong ... she thought her pussy alone is all she needs.

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