Kobojunkie:
If you have daughters, please don't raise them to serve men as lesser beings abeg. So that when it comes time for them to chose men, they don't fall easily for the fools out there.

Many children or men should know that they are the retirement plans of their parents when they are old. The son and the wife they are the people that will take care of them when they are old. A man or a woman that doesn't show concern toward their future in-laws it is a big red flag not to ignore. There is an adage that says "what an old person can see why sitting down a young person can not see why standing". That woman saw something in that girl.

kernniejay:
1. So it is foolishness for you to honour your father by greeting him when you wake in the morning and for your sisters to help your mom in the kitchen?

2. It is foolish to do any chores in the house and leave it for maids or robots?

3. No wonder some of you bleach your beautiful dark skin to become white and finally go down with all sorts of skin problems. No be height of madness be that?

I love to see the confusion you all exude. So why again do you greet only your father in the morning? Why not extend that same respect to every human being you meet each morning instead?

Why are you sisters alone to help your mom in the kitchen? Are you and your brothers Lepers that you somehow can't help your own mother in the kitchen?

2. If you already pay maids or robots to do all of your chores for you, then why do it yourself? The money you pay them you work for , don't you?,

3. Unsubscribe from foolishness and it will abandon you in time..

I think to each his own

Women also have standards, allow men have

No woman wants a broke man now, but the broke women feel they can still be jobless and deserve to be with a rich man

If a man sets his standards, don't cry. Set your standards too!!!

Life is really not as hard as we make it and I think this post wasn't necessary

For every standard set, there are a million and one people willing to meet up to that, men or women

Regards

Konjiboii:
There's no common sense in being disrespectful to your mother in law or husband, you are a junkie though so I understand.

But there is commonsense in a son disrespecting his one mother ?

UyaiIncomparabl:


Na small girl you go marry las las. You can never control an adult. Only women with daddy issues will succumb to your standard.

If it is a small girl that meets my standard, so be it. I will marry her.
You should find a man that meets your own standard, instead of judging mine.
We will never drop our expectations because you cannot meet up to it

Transcriber:
you sef rest

Only you don take two pages for thread

Baba waiting we gain if we no counter all these daughters of eve

yusufmurry:
Na those women you dey deceive with this post I dey pity.

Be forming all those things, las las, you go find one person wey go give you child so that society will be fair a bit with you.

Na so one feminist in my neighbourhood dey claim, dey write on social media up and down, Haunty is 40years today but decided to travel to Abuja, and after months resurfaced on Facebook to show us a new born baby with cloth used to covered up.

She shouldn't have a child? Or what are you trying to tell us? That because she's 40 she dare not have a child? Or that she should be childless because she's a feminist?

You need to grow up.

Now, according to your tale, she has a child, and you can't call her womb destroyed, so what other unrealistic standard will you have for her next? That she can't get married because she's 40+ and has a child?

You lot are laughable.

Even if you insult females all day, it will not make them drop their standards to accommodate your unrealistic standards for them. The threats of growing old and childless are pointless when there's IVF, and when there are willing gigolos everywhere.

Kobojunkie:
But there is commonsense in a son disrespecting his one mother ?

You are just all over the place, stick to the post.

Think4Myself:
There is but it's not a bad thing, for a man to get laid a lot, he must have a lot of value (money) you get it now right?

It is just bad! Male whores don't necessarily have lots of money. Like other kinds of whores, a good number of them give sex is exchange for money. Many are mooches or leeches.

Maverick777:

Its House not Axe.
I'm sure that's how you pronounce it as well..
Dumb-fool!

U are very insultive weda axe or house I dey my axe come beat me since abbreviation na rule breaker 4 Nairaland.It is all ur female relatives dat are DUMB N FOOLISH n I am very happy that you finally realized that not every woman in Nigeria treat their son's gfs or wives like ur family members. If you have any woman like that boy's mom in your family please educate them n make dem understand that using sweeping as a criteria for a good wife is outdated ok. A woman can clean ur gate and mop ur suckaway pit n still bring out her character after marriage alright.

PROPEACE:

I addressed the bolded in my post, read it!

No you did not. Instead what you did was say something about washing of a car which for more people is sacrosanct .I.e. nor a chore for just anyone..

UyaiIncomparabl:
I saw this post on Facebook and it makes me question myself asking what "Nigerian men want". It irks me so bad.

Women have been debased to NOTHING that a chore has become a yardstick in choosing a wife. I keep asking myself if God did not make a mistake to have given the headship to them from the beginning.

And now, I'll reiterate this here. I also don't care about the reactions it brings. It's not my business how you feel but I must say this to men- DO NOT SET UNNECESSARY STANDARDS THAT YOU WON'T MEET. Read that again. Would he have washed the girl's father's or mother's clothes if turns were switched? NO. Many men here won't either. It degrades them after all. ONLY women should cower and wash g-pee tanks because they want to marry. Marriage only favours the women after all. It's the women who do these things I blame. You don't rate yourselves.

If you try this with me, I'll FAIL your test woefully. It is the audacity to make this a post for me. They make marriage seem so unpalatable and dramatic.

Manners should tell you that you do not sweep when a guest is around. It is ABSOLUTELY rude and that shows that you do not even respect me enough to have kept your abode neat before my arrival. And that to me, is a RED FLAG!

It also tells me that "I am not welcome in your abode". I am immensely glad that the girl in the story dodged a bullet. Good riddance.

Signed; Bitterleaf Feminist.

What a stupid writeup.
One thing you people or feminist call yourself is that you fail to realize that not all aspects of civilization would be swallowed hook, line and sinker in Africa.
A girl went to her inlaws house, saw the mother in law sweeping and raised her leg, it is a total show of lack of home training. Always remember that you are still in Africa and Africa is not ripe for all your stupid and nonsense campaign of equality or weird desires.
Can a man come to your house as a son in law, find your father weeding and sit down, cross his legs?

ChuksHills:
Many children or men should know that they are the retirement plans of their parents when they are old. The son and the wife they are the people that will take care of them when they are old. A man or a woman that doesn't show concern toward their future in-laws it is a big red flag not to ignore. There is an adage that says "what an old person can see why sitting down a young person can not see why standing". That woman saw something in that girl.

Yet another one of Africa's foolish traditions.

What that woman saw was her own ignorance and arrogance reflected back at her and rather than face it head on she blamed the girl for revealing it to her. Her own son disrespected her in front of a stranger because she didn't raise him well enough is what was revealed in this..

Konjiboii:
You are just all over the place, stick to the post.

Look whose talking!

UyaiIncomparabl:


I should be asking you if you know what you are talking about. It is insolence to sweep when a guest is around, especially with the entitlement mentality that she should have taken the stress off you. Who asked you? Wait and let me be gone then you can sweep your house.

It simply tells the guest that you don't welcome them. Learn simple manners. Why must it be when a guest is around the mother chooses to sweep?

The only mistake the lady made to my own opinion was not leaving the house immediately she sighted a broom in someone's hand.In Africa,if you sweep in my presence, it's a subtle way of saying I should leave, the girl should have walked out immediately.The woman didn't like her, it's not a test,Biko.

Harmony92:
U are very insultive weda axe or house I dey my axe come beat me since abbreviation na rule breaker 4 Nairaland.It is all ur female relatives dat are DUMB N FOOLISH n I am very happy that you finally realized that not every woman in Nigeria treat their son's gfs or wives like ur family members. If you have any woman like that boy's mom in your family please educate them n make dem understand that using sweeping as a criteria for a good wife is outdated ok. A woman can clean ur gate and mop ur suckaway pit n still bring out her character after marriage alright.

If you noticed, I specifically stayed away from insulting or even referring to your family after countless provocations from you, you know why, the moment one is quick to bring family members into an argument, it simply means him/her has no regards whatsoever for his/her own. So I really do not blame you.
From all ramifications, you are a definition of everything bad and a disgrace to your gender.

as you were..

UyaiIncomparabl:


The duty of the girl? Are you so slow? Well, someone like me will never try that. Are chores what you use to grade a wife material?

Yes. Simple as that

UyaiIncomparabl:


Who's talking beauty here? Oga, all-round, ama spec. Deal with that!

According to who? Na you wan marry yourself?

Harmony92:
U are very insultive weda axe or house I dey my axe come beat me since abbreviation na rule breaker 4 Nairaland.It is all ur female relatives dat are DUMB N FOOLISH n I am very happy that you finally realized that not every woman in Nigeria treat their son's gfs or wives like ur family members. If you have any woman like that boy's mom in your family please educate them n make dem understand that using sweeping as a criteria for a good wife is outdated ok. A woman can clean ur gate and mop ur suckaway pit n still bring out her character after marriage alright.

If you dont have home training how can you be a good wife.

Cool down think and answer

Ebenezer4141:
Yes. Simple as that

Wow.... no wonder many of you end up miserable not long after.

Dangrace01:
If you dont have home training how can you be a good wife.

Cool down think and answer

Do you have the very same home training yourself?

Kobojunkie:
It is just bad! Male whores don't necessarily have lots of money. Like other kinds of whores, a good number of them give sex is exchange for money. Many are mooches or leeches.

Be deceiving yourself, this isn't even redpill, it's common sense.
Go call Elon musk hoe if he nor go laugh you.
PS, I'm not talking about dude's that sleep with prostitutes, that one is too easy na , I'm talking about normal women in urban areas not villages where you can bleep anyone if you buy them biscuit

Think4Myself:

Be deceiving yourself, this isn't even redpill, it's common sense.
Go call Elon musk hoe if he nor go laugh you.
PS, I'm not talking about dude's that sleep with prostitutes, that one is too easy na , I'm talking about normal women in urban areas not villages where you can bleep anyone if you buy them biscuit

You are kidding, right?

So in your mental, the average man_whore out there is as rich as Elon musk?

Go to your college campuses and you will find plenty of them even there. They aren't rich, and many are jobless. Many of them depend on handouts they get from some of the girls they bed.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Badbradley and Maverick777, I have reported you guys for insulting me. I hope it comes with a ban. I won't descend to your levels! Bye Felicias!

You can't take insults but you can give them

Kobojunkie:
You are kidding, right?

So in your mental, the average man_whore out there is as rich as Elon musk?

Read after the "PS"

Think4Myself:
Read after the "PS"

Go to your college campuses and you will find plenty of them even there. They aren't rich, and many are jobless. Many of them depend on handouts they get from some of the girls they bed.

What a terrible reasoning....... you're probably a teenager but if you're not your case is irredeemable

UyaiIncomparabl:


You aren't serious. Why must the house be swept when I am around? It's rude, simple! A guest for that matter!

UpInTheSky:
He doesn't see anything wrong with him not collecting the broom from his mom and doing the sweeping for her
like a trained son ought to do, but somehow his GUEST who lifted her leg to move out of his mom's way is the problem,
simply because she's a female.

The double standard is alarming and quite disgusting.

You do have a point though. If he was actually well brought up, he would never allow his mom to sweep, in the first place

Boomboost:


You can't take insults but you can give them

She's bipolar bro.
pay less attention to her and her silly tantrums.

Look babe, you are wrong. I feel like you are saying this out of share hatred or pains you have for the male gender. Just like the way a lady will not want to settle less for a guy beyond her standards so do guys. This whole stuff had nothing to do with standard, the girl is not well groomed. This is Africa and the female gender should understand that certain culture still holds

I should be asking you if you know what you are talking about. It is insolence to sweep when a guest is around, especially with the entitlement mentality that she should have taken the stress off you. Who asked you? Wait and let me be gone then you can sweep your house.

It simply tells the guest that you don't welcome them. Learn simple manners. Why must it be when a guest is around the mother chooses to sweep? [/quote]

advanceDNA:
You sound angry...
All for what??
Someone's opinion....??


Its funny how you invalidate people's opinion becos you dont agree....but you somehow wnt them to agree with yours for whatever reason best known to you...

Nice points as I've got to type.
Funniest part, most of these ladies dishing out advices like these, na dem dey do am pass but like coming online to spill what they can't do.
Take study of them in real life and see for yourself who truly they are.

If you're not good with someone's opinion, why should yours be good with mine.

We see life from different perspectives and we deal with it divers ways.

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