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Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by Mercury12(m): 10:10pm On Sep 01, 2022 |
Nawa o Everyday we hear new weird story we haven't heard before. |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by Kobojunkie: 10:11pm On Sep 01, 2022 |
debbydams:For reals... let's stop patting people on the back for taking responsibility for whatever shit they created, to begin with. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by OriOko88(m): 1:30am On Sep 02, 2022 |
Irupetepete:Let them stay with ur mother now. That's better IMO |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by efficiencie(m): 1:51am On Sep 02, 2022 |
Irupetepete: Well you need to be super careful with kids as a single father. One false accusation is what is needed to put you in a ton of crap. I guess your children are already of schooling age. So enrol them in befitting school and that would keep them busy between 8am and 2pm. After school closes you would have to go pick them and take them to your place of work. Since the business is yours it would be great for the kids to begin to get acquainted with what Daddy does for a living and realities of money making. This means that you have to make your business place a bit comfy for your kids to continue learning (doing homework and learning timeless wisdom from you), play (educational games), eat and sleep before you head home by 6pm. Once at home by 6pm, have your kids freshen up, have a light dinner, say your prayers and go to bed. Rinse and repeat! I will advise you to install cameras in your house for security purposes and to save your head when false accusations come raining down on you. At some point you may decide to take another wife. Don't make the foolish mistake you made with the first. Do not choose a lady based on complexion, your sexual appetite, physique or even dogma. Your wife is meant to be your helper. If she cannot identify the challenges in your life and provide solutions to them she is not your wife rather she is a thorn in the flesh. One good way to know is how well she treats your kids and whether your kids accept her or not. If your kids reject her then reject immediately. Goodspeed! 24 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by tamcamp253: 3:22am On Sep 02, 2022 |
Very smart question, I hope the OP answers fman: |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by sisisioge: 4:55am On Sep 02, 2022 |
Take them with you and hire a maid to help you. It is well. |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by sisisioge: 4:56am On Sep 02, 2022 |
fman: Na their mama....sometimes, naija men like to see their women counterparts as fellow brethren, which we are 2 Likes |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by Irupetepete: 5:53am On Sep 02, 2022 |
EmahBoss:I have never and will never raise my hand on a woman... She wants to be free and independent and maybe along the line, a rich person will come for her.. She has made this known several times... Not knowing the condition of those kids breaks my heart 5 Likes |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by Irupetepete: 5:58am On Sep 02, 2022 |
goodamerican:painting her bad? The reason she didn't stay is best known to her... I bought her a freezer and a big generator and arranging money for a shop... You see, all she cares about is her looks, she just want to be free and there is no need forcing what love when it is no longer there. She is beautiful and believes her beauty should make her live a good life... To her, being free brings opportunities... Even in the morning, no sane person should raise a kid in an hotel 3 Likes |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by Mindlog: 6:13am On Sep 02, 2022 |
Irupetepete: Now that the kids are going to live with you, how have you rescheduled your day to accommodate you being their primary caregiver? 5 Likes |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by Irupetepete: 6:33am On Sep 02, 2022 |
Mindlog:I will adjust and have time for them.... School closes by 2,lesson till 4pm then I take up the rest.. 2 Likes |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by Mindlog: 7:14am On Sep 02, 2022 |
Irupetepete: Ok . For now, it should be you and the kids 100%....no nanny nor female relatives as their caregiver because their mother is still alive. |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by fman(m): 8:39am On Sep 02, 2022 |
sisisioge:I swear dear, u funny. U just made me smile. My first smile this morning. Kudos and more blessings 1 Like |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by delugadou(m): 10:01am On Sep 02, 2022 |
Irupetepete:are you the popcorn man? |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by GloriousGbola: 12:49pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Mindlog: Outsource to Grandmother and neighbours. The kids will be lucky if they are not sexually abused 1 Like |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by Mindlog: 12:56pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
GloriousGbola: You are right, being physically and sexually abused will be the likely outcome of outsourcing the caregiving, reason I posted it has to be him 100%, no nanny nor female relatives when the kids' mother is still alive as he has prove he is a hands on father. |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by einsteine(m): 1:00pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
fman: It's bad grammar. He meant "she" not "he". |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by woleabayo(f): 1:00pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
omo run ooooo |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by GloriousGbola: 1:00pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Mindlog: I will have you know that African men don't do sissy stuff like raising children. Our job is to marry many wives have many children and God /Allah will do the rest Abeg don't come here with any emasculating oyibo concepts. We are real men here. Me raise pikin? 100%? You dey alright so? Abeg wey that sisi fine face jare. Take 5k and watch my pikin for me. We go see later. 1 Like |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by godofuck231: 1:01pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Boarding school |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by casualobserver: 1:04pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Irupetepete: Children are always best with their mothers. If you decided to have children with an irresponsible woman then you will carry your cross, If she is a responsible woman but both of you don’t get along then swallow your pride and return them to their mother and don’t because of fight with their mother damage your children, they are already damaged because their parents are not together. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by LienwaltAbel(m): 1:05pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Africans. No money in the bank, no money stored up somewhere, but they'll decide to marry and give birth. Poor people need to be stopped from giving birth totally. That is how these kids will grow up to be something else. I really love how China handled their one child policy. You Bleep up, you collect. 4 Likes |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by Blossompowerpuf: 1:05pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: It was so weird when I saw the first thing she said. Like, I understand we were taught that traditionally, women took care of children but this nonsense that it's not a man's job and he can't take care of HIS OWN children is just nonsense 6 Likes |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by BigIyanga: 1:06pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Irupetepete:A Hotel is a hotel not AN hotel cos ‘h’ is not silent. Make enough $$ to ask your woman for 1/2 or full custody of the kids. You can hire a nanny or ask ur mum to take care of them while you work 3 Likes |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by Munzy14(m): 1:07pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Rozross:Itching for gossip.. Just go and open a blog. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by Mindlog: 1:07pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
GloriousGbola: See mouth! You wan born but no wan nuture....the "African man" must begin to understand that parenting is beyond "dropping":money. It is easier to "drop money" than being available for kids. 2 Likes |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by Gaddafi1: 1:08pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Irupetepete: My brother if indeed you truly love your kind then you will bring them back with their mother. Forgive and genuinely reconcile with her as there is no perfect woman or man. We are only tolerating each simply for the sake of our children. The choice is yours to take or be prepared to have hook-up babes or armed robbers as kids. Advice from an elder. |
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