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Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by jimmychang: 11:14pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Helpout12345: As in,she sleepwalked and rode dick and she no wake up .The man and the woman don plan am already . AS THE DIVK COMOT,SHE STILL USE SLEEPWALKING EYE PUT AM BACK 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Orgym(m): 11:16pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
I like to congratulate you on this revelation. It is heart broken to father a child that does not belong to you. However, if you still love your wife and accept her past mistake, you can tell her to return the baby while you fix things in your marriage ( I doubt this anyway). |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Pharaohny: 11:16pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Johnnyjohnnyman: Mr man run DNA test on the one that doesn't look like you better sace than sorry |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Germi9: 11:16pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Johnnyjohnnyman:How much did you pay for DNA and where? Asking for a friend |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by GerogeI(m): 11:17pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Helpout12345: He can not. The first battle is even getting access to the child for dna test. Stolen dna test is not admissible in court. Secondly, the penal code purnishes adultery, irrespective of north or south. https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/07/adultery-crime-liable-to-2-years-imprisonment-%E2%80%95-police/amp/ Merely asking to do DNA test on another mans child is admitting adultery, and can send you to jail. Only the wife can start that process and make that claim, she too could go to jail too. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Slynation(m): 11:17pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Sluacoast:Your story is very touchy but not justifiable... There is nothing like accidental sex, This woman already has everything mapped out, I'm sure she sold this story to attract sympathy... |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Helpout12345: 11:18pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
jimmychang: . |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by KINGinVAHALA: 11:19pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
GerogeI:Alright Thanks for this |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by jumper524(m): 11:19pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Johnnyjohnnyman:see bros, no b everything be alpha male, the only reason your posting this is cos even you know divorcing your marriage won't go well with you. All you need to do is let go of your ego, forgive her and train that kid like your own cos in reality the child you actually train is your child. I've met a child who later discovered he had a different dad from who trained him although not due to fornication but uselessness of the biological dad. Kid still pay more real love and respect to the dad who trained him. To be honest, Most times he hopes he never knew. Let that kid be your source of motivation to becoming a better father. I'm sure your marriage was better because your wife knew she cheated on you and don't want to raise doubts. You can use reverse psychology on her to keep her positives. 1 Like |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by ExudeLoveToAll: 11:20pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
mariahAngel: What you wrote here most people don't seem to get this point. Someone enters into a contract with another person if a party to the contract repudiates the contract, I don't see why the blame should be passed on to a third party who isn't part of the initial contract. This doesn't make sense to me in what ever scenario. 1 Like |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by johnfem321: 11:20pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
I will advise you to do dna test for your first 3 children as well.. so that you know where you really stand.. it’s Better you know than been in denial |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Helpout12345: 11:22pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
GerogeI: What off if he is ready to go to prison for 2 years and get his child. And he claimed to be the biological father, will the court not summon DNA test? |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Bionica: 11:22pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Johnnyjohnnyman: Bros go the entire hog........rest this case; conduct a DNA for all the kids. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Shadysen: 11:22pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Sweetplum:you dey reason with your anus no doubt,if u mention me ehn, thunder go fire you, bitch. 2 Likes |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by enemachris(m): 11:23pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Jesus Christ of Nazareth!. Sorry brother. Pls take it easy cuz this is not the right time to take any decisions. Pls consult your loved ones first before anything. It's well with you. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Roozzaay(m): 11:24pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
I pray I don't father these type of boys/Men. Oga you better run DNA on the other kids, that they are your look-alike doesn't guarantee they are yours. We have seen people with striking resemblance but were no way relrelated. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by seniorkachion(m): 11:25pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Adopt her! 1 Like |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by zakkxx: 11:26pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Brother have to forgive if u must make heaven! U choose her, I hope u have not been cheating on her b4! Women are not smiling anymore! God will give u peace |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by jimmychang: 11:27pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
jumper524: You are very dumb my guy.Anytime he sees that child he will never be okay in this life.You think it is something he can just wave.Become a better father,how better do you want him to be.He never cheated on her.You are telling him to accept the child .She na you wan train am. I just pity that child if he decides to train her.She will suffer on God. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by MufasaLion: 11:28pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Sluacoast: And you believe in this thing you typed? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by jimmychang: 11:28pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Roozzaay: Aswer,same way I was thinking.She must be cheating for a long time.He just caught them. 2 Likes |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by GerogeI(m): 11:28pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Helpout12345: You can talk about it two years later. A lot can happen in prison. Lets me ask you, will you go to Nigerian jail for two years to claim another mans raised child, knowing fully well how easy it is to get you offed while in prison. Especially since you are threatening the existence of his family, and already slept with his wife? Technically yes, practically no. The worst you will do is convince the wife to breakup. But thats hard, she has other kids to think about. Or you wait for the kid to grow up, and introduce yourself. By then you are already a visitor. 1 Like |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by jimmychang: 11:29pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by OkpaNsukkaisBae(m): 11:30pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Johnnyjohnnyman: Dis guy sef? U don go tell her already. Una come dey argue if d DNA test result is right or wrong? sotey u dey calculate d market days/calendar wen she nak her ex raw? 1 Like |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by 4ward4: 11:30pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Pardon me to use some Foul words: Just 8 month separation, she don go open leg like the harlot she is and even received it raw....Chief Move On 1 Like |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by jimmychang: 11:31pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
zakkxx: ...watin be this. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Shadysen: 11:32pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Justbehave:stupid advice indeed, i cant imagine myself still being in the same home with that woman no matter what except christ command me so. 1 Like |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Makinaki: 11:35pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
PHIPEX: Sense will not kill you. Wise counsel. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Jocdon(m): 11:36pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Seeing is beliving |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by AreaFada2: 11:38pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Johnnyjohnnyman: Sorry dude but first thing first. Keep calm. Not easy but try. You have more secrete investigations to do. Please do maternity test on the said child. Getting DNA sample of your wife should be easy. If the baby belongs to her, then she's the kid's mother. Hospital swapped the baby yarn will be a non-starter. At the same time, do paternity test on all the other kids. Maybe she was already working with the colleague before the other kids were born. Whether they resemble her colleague or not. If she wasn't working with him then, they can still belong to another guy in theory. Once all that is sorted, then carefully weigh your options. Good luck! |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Jocdon(m): 11:40pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Life |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by GerogeI(m): 11:41pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
jimmychang: You are naive. This thing is more common than you think. A lot of men have kids they know are not theirs. They consider the impact on the rest of their children. For some its their licence to cheat as much as they want, the wife keeps the home irrespective and is the begging party. For others , every child is a blessing. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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