pocohantas:
That is a step in the right direction.

It is not like the bride gets any share in the expensive list, virgin or not. So if you decide not to collect at all again, that would be nice too. That way no insane man would think he bought a property that he can manhandle at will.

It's not every culture that bride price is given to the father, like in my place Bride price is given to the bride, I was given my bride price on the traditional marriage day, although there's an amount to be paid to the family but bride price is for the bride.

Yeah bride is, biblicaljy meant for a virgin o but how I'm wan take know

DaveHarry:
All 10+ years old females in PH are no more virgins.

internet make am worse access to porn! If you see the way small small girls and boys,, some, grown ups dey press each other private in dim corner without a care in the world, u go. Shock,

This na old story. Na mumu dey pay brideprice for non-virgin.

ruffDiamond:
internet make am worse access to porn! If you see the way small small girls and boys,, some, grown ups dey press each other private in dim corner without a care in the world, u go. Shock,

It's d new norm

Jennyclay:
Why do men have this mindset that just because a lady is a virgin, she's the "best" thing that could ever happen to men? Please I need answer o.

You should never choose a wife just on the grounds of virginity. A lady who is a virgin can still cheat on you or even make your life more miserable.

at the mention of Virgin , u always attack them!!
It's nobody's business how, you gave yours away cheaply.

dyera:
The foolish man doesn't know the purpose of Bride price. The family of the Bride asking for Bride price is them asking the man to prove his financial capability, that way they can entrust their daughter to him with peace of mind.



You may think what you like about my comment, all I did was to simply state the truth about the purpose to which bride price was invented, a purpose that has been lost in history.

So after it's been confirmed that he's capable of taking care of their daughter, would they refund the man??
Then what if the man loans fund just to satisfy their inlaw??

MrColdsweat:
This na old story. Na mumu dey pay brideprice for non-virgin.

That is there is plenty of "mumu" husbands in nairaland and Nigeria. After now dey will blame buhari.

DaveHarry:


That is there is plenty of "mumu" husbands in nairaland and Nigeria. After now dey will blame buhari.

You allow your fellow man scam you by selling him ashawo daughter give you.
Well, if fool no fool himself, wiseman no go see food chop.

Good. It's that so called bride price they use to intimidate and dehumanize wives. No collect make everybody rest. If you decide to no do wedding at all too it pays awọn boys.

Jennyclay:
Why do men have this mindset that just because a lady is a virgin, she's the "best" thing that could ever happen to men? Please I need answer o.

You should never choose a wife just on the grounds of virginity. A lady who is a virgin can still cheat on you or even make your life more miserable.

little boy let me tell you the spiritual implication of pre ek collection before marriage

Ask any man who has dated and had sex with any Nigerian girl before her marriage - 80% of these girls still contact their ex

Even if you dont want to flow with them - they still contact u - u know why? that pre ek left a mark on her forever she cant erase

And if them meet again - if "ABSOLUTE CARE" is not taken - they will f vc k again - so if your wife have dated or slept with 30 men

Before you married her, know that you have 30 men out there that your wife is vulnerable to - and out of that 30, 15 of them can

nack her anytime if situation presents itself - THIS IS WHY SOME PEOPLE CAN K I LL TO MARRY A VIRGIN!!!!

Most women prefer experienced men.

You might not like that fact, but reality doesn't care about your feelings.

virginprincess:
Nigeria men don't deserve virgins,how can a community dick be praying for a virgin,they deserve the kind of women they have now,so they have no choice than to pay the bride price of such women because they are no different from the women,like beget like.

What about the boys who carry one toto after the other should they be celebrated. Everytime girls virginity.

Chaste women AND men are still plenty. They just don't shout about it. Some are even virgins in their 40s.

Seek what you want, and you will find it.

Leave the rest to face the consequences of their actions.

Aareakinwunmi:
This was the practice in the olden days, before western civilization came to destroy our culture.

As a matter of fact


Virginity is the reason


for the bride price.

virginprincess:
Nigeria men don't deserve virgins,how can a community dick be praying for a virgin,they deserve the kind of women they have now,so they have no choice than to pay the bride price of such women because they are no different from the women,like beget like.

speak for yourself please. I am a virgin. Which one be "nigerian men" use some to quantify that statement biko. Btw, I wouldn't mind if my woman was a virgin or not. I just need her to be faithful

Jeon:
OK.
At least this is the perfect Father, your children are animals anyways.

modified..
If you were a responsible Father /well disciplined /you trained ur daughters very, you won't have the guts to say this out...
He knew he failed as a Father... Probably he's aware of karma, maybe he slept with people's daughters during his bachelor's years.

You can as well ban them from acquiring educations,Cuz it's not African culture.

U seem to have comprehension issue

Ofiadiegwu:
How will the man know?
Ladies hide this thing and may lie to coceal it.

So, how do this man want to go about it?

How will a father know his daughter is a virgin? Like seriously

Jennyclay:
Why do men have this mindset that just because a lady is a virgin, she's the "best" thing that could ever happen to men? Please I need answer o.

You should never choose a wife just on the grounds of virginity. A lady who is a virgin can still cheat on you or even make your life more miserable.

Cry more.

Jennyclay:
Why do men have this mindset that just because a lady is a virgin, she's the "best" thing that could ever happen to men? Please I need answer o.

You should never choose a wife just on the grounds of virginity. A lady who is a virgin can still cheat on you or even make your life more miserable.

. Virginity isn't a proof of good character or good wife material, but in it's the starting point of the check list. Without that in place, a girl is disqualified from being paid bride price on.
In the Bible, you don't pay bride price on a non-virgin. It's only virgins that bride price is paid on. A non-virgin only qualifies as a concubine. That's a "wife" without full wife rights and privileges. Her children also don't have full rights and privileges as the children of the full fledged wife.
So it's a serious issue with underlying spiritual implications.
So my sister, if you still have yours, guard it jealously.

Let us see the girls picture first

prophetfire:
. Virginity isn't a proof of good character or good wife material, but in it's the starting point of the check list. Without that in place, a girl is disqualified from being paid bride price on.
In the Bible, you don't pay bride price on a non-virgin. It's only virgins that bride price is paid on. A non-virgin only qualifies as a concubine. That's a "wife" without full wife rights and privileges. Her children also don't have full rights and privileges as the children of the full fledged wife.
So it's a serious issue with underlying spiritual implications.
So my sister, if you still have yours, guard it jealously.

Most of you will just be ranting as if you're practicing what the Bible truly says about virginity.

If your daughters got disvirgined along the line, feel free to give them out to men without collecting bride price okay.

Hypocrites everywhere! Shior!

Jennyclay:
Most of you will just be ranting as if you're practicing what the Bible truly says about virginity.

If your daughters got disvirgined along the line, feel free to give them out to men without collecting bride price okay.

Hypocrites everywhere! Shior!

Come. No be we tell you to be opening legs for boys. Why you dey para everytime dey talk about virgins sef?

Jennyclay:
Most of you will just be ranting as if you're practicing what the Bible truly says about virginity.

If your daughters got disvirgined along the line, feel free to give them out to men without collecting bride price okay.

Hypocrites everywhere! Shior!

E pain am. No be me tell you to sell your virginity for a pack of indomie.

[quote author=Jennyclay post=119476723]Why do men have this mindset that just because a lady is a virgin, she's the "best" thing that could ever happen to men? Please I need answer o.

You should never choose a wife just on the grounds of virginity. A lady who is a virgin can still cheat on you or even make your life more miserable. [ I know you will be jealous of virgins because loose girls always pretend, the fact a girl will allow someone who is not even talking marriage with her to disvirgin her is the highest degree of indecency and foolishness..I have two daughters and by God's grace they will remain virgins till marriage ..my only sister who is now a medical doctor was a virgin till she married her pastor husband and the man confessed it to us ...immorality is wrong..a virgin might have a few bad character but a none virgin can still have bad characters couple with her indecency...sex is for married people not for fun

So what will this man do for his son that has slept with a lady before marriage?. If not being a virgin as a married lady is wrong, not being a chaste as a married man is wrong too. Is it not men that disvirgin ladies?. Before God, they are same!

babyfaceafrica:


How will a father know his daughter is a virgin? Like seriously

If you're the one, how will you know?
It is subject to being faked.
It has been done before.

Benwallt:


How I wish they have your kinda sense men will be crawling and hardworking to get his desired woman.

Some girls lose the virginity to pepsi and gala, some under some very annoying circumstances.

Those small boys just sag their trousers, dangles some wads of cash n u see girls falling over heels, some even fighting to have him.

I know of a guy back then that deflowered three sisters just because his room was nice.

Why should a sane man work hard just to get his desired vvoman.. No human is special..
Simping is rooted in ya bones shaa...

Maybe these vvomen were only meant for s£x,the way you guys are telling them to close their legs..

[color=#770077][/color] The Actual REAL MANN

Jennyclay:
Why do men have this mindset that just because a lady is a virgin, she's the "best" thing that could ever happen to men? Please I need answer o.

You should never choose a wife just on the grounds of virginity. A lady who is a virgin can still cheat on you or even make your life more miserable.

Nobody is having any bad mindset... Can you pay the same amount for a used and new product?
They collect these huge amount from husband to be based on you are the only man she will spend her life with which includes deflowering her... Whereas she is not what they are collecting such huge amount for...
Why should they even collect money in the first place...?
And don't bring up the "her parent spent on her" thing... Are they expecting an outsider to spend on there daughter upbringing? Did anyone forced them to have children?
You have children. Its their responsibility to take care of her... Even if I have a dog I will surely take care of the dog either I want to resell or keep it till the dog age and die naturally..so what's your point?

FalseProphet1:
Very honest man.

Bride price is for virginity, the Bible stated it clearly, price for virgins. And if the girl isn't a virgin the man must be refunded back his money.

Today a girl would swallow over a hundred dícks, drink cum from different guys and engage in all kinds of abominable acts, when someone decides to wife her, the family would slam the guy with a marriage list that can wake the dead.

The question is what exactly is he paying for, is it a damaged girl looking for husband or what?

If we start placing value on virginity girls would stop depending on their vagina for survival and become hard working.

This I have seen.

Do you ever wonder why the quote " past doesn't matter it's the fire that matters" is always been used by girls... You will hardly see a man use those words... It's because every girl wants to eat their cake and still have it then they will play the emotional black mail