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Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by phemmyfour: 1:11pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
all4zionlover:There is a solution, Open a joint account where you LL both put money monthly. Ensure that he put a certain percentage of his salary there every month. Make sure the ATM of the account is always with you. That way, you n your children are financially secured |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by PrinceMajestic: 1:13pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Sister pls don't leave him, you're the one meant to save him. That's why you're his wife in the first place, the worse thing that can happen to him now is you leaving him, remember his the father of those great boys pls find some pity and love for him, I understand how you feel but don't say because you're depressed and need a shoulder to cry on you now go crying on other men's shoulders, No, other men like us will pretend to care but we will just have sex with you and move on further increasing your problem. Sist you're a Nigerian woman, show your strength when it's needed and not runaway from your beautiful home because of challenges. A home of 2 boys? Common! Pls keep that home safe. God bless you ma 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by Kobojunkie: 1:14pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Oracleee:1. How will she orchestrate that when he is what is likely an addict? She has her hands fill with her boys, now her grown husband too? 2. So you think this woman with children to raise and no money to do that should spend part of her time catering to someone a husband who like your friend will need a long time to snap out of it? |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by Kobojunkie: 1:15pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
bonnyhope:Talking to a gambler for positive change? Is she a therapists or mental health counselor of his? 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by Mikebjoe: 1:15pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
all4zionlover:Are you saying you don't know he is a gambler before you marry him or you just pray for him to change just dey manege yourself dey go nobody force you into it |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by olaodun: 1:16pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
IT IS EASY DISCUSS WITH HIM GIVE HIM BUDGET FOR MONTH PRAY With Him And REPORT TO HIS BROTHER OR MUMMY OR PASTOR |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by Kobojunkie: 1:18pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
sammirano:Jesus Christ told you all that that was the case in the beginning, before God Himself cursed marriage in Genesis 3 vs 16. After the curse, God allowed for divorce in order that people do not end up shackled as if imprisoned in marriage. Na so una go dey lift verses out-of-context in your dishonest attempts to justify the foolish things. |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by sammirano: 1:23pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Let me read that verse I will be back |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by Desusi: 1:23pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
BigDick70inch:That's too late for now, talk on the latest issues. Don't condemn her for her previous action. |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by mauchiz: 1:25pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
all4zionlover:Your husband is sick,he needs deliverance,look for mountain of fire and take him for deliverance,he will get himself after going through deliverance for a number of times. Is a marine attack,most addictions are from the marine world. Go to mountain of fire prayer city, Remember deliverance is a gradual process,it will take time before he gets himself,pls don't give up on him. Pray for your husband in this trying times,life is spiritual,a spirit is manipulating him just to frustrate you. 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by kingthreat(m): 1:26pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
all4zionlover: He is suffering from gambling addiction. Take the issue to his family and recommend therapy. He needs help. It works. Just try this as the last resort. Divorce won't pay you. |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by Zetty177x: 1:29pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Hmmm very serious matter. Don't even know what to advice. I was told that one of my uncle did same. ..his wife ended up doing most things. He later stopped gambling when he turned 80. The wife still de with am...they should be above 80 something..maythe old generation de do this kain love. Gamblers don't stop. If u fit stay, stay. If not, waka |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by cmoney22222: 1:29pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
100 hollandia yourgorth for you biko Wiseandtrue: 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by Zetty177x: 1:30pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Hmmm very serious matter. Don't even know what to advice. I was told that one of my uncle did same. ..his wife ended up doing most things. He later stopped gambling when he turned 80. The wife still de with am...they should be above 80 something..na the old generation de do this kain love. Gamblers don't stop. If u fit stay, stay. If not, waka |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by Ahvenjah: 1:30pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
all4zionlover: Wahlai the solution to your problem is not on naira land, separate from the fucker until he comes back to his senses, whilst involving God(not your pastor) in prayers o. |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by PlanktonX: 1:33pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
If I told you to prayer about this, you will be skeptical � This goes a long way to prove that we as human merely believe in the power of prayers. Let me tell you real truth here. Your home is under attack, and the devil is after that beautiful marriage of yours. You don't need any pastor to pray for you, God wants to use this situation to bring out the power in you. Fight for your Marriage in Prayer. 30 days rigorous and dedicate prayer is enough to turn the heart of your husband away from the demon of gambling, and cry back into your arms. Don't ever think of Divorce, because that's where the devil wants you to go and the final targets are your beautiful children and your soul. And please get this book " Power of a Praying Wife" by Stormie Omartian And if you couldn't buy the hard copy, you can request for a soft copy, it's free. Use this book for a 30 day prayer for your husband, and the Lord's love and blessings will return back to your home. Fight a good fight of FAITH for you home. God bless your home. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by chuks5552: 1:34pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
My sister, I understand what you are passing through. Let me tell you, gambling is extremely hard to stop. I was a compulsive gambler for 11 horrible years, it was not easy, but thank God I finally stopped it. I have already written a book on how I started gambling, the things I passed through and how I finally stopped gambling. You can get the book for your husband to read. I promise you after reading the book, the urge to gamble will completely disappear. Send me a mail on chukszee.cy@gmail.com for the book and save your marriage 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by powalez: 1:34pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
I pray u will still come online to inform us when it finally pays,anyways gambling shouldn't be a habit.I do it for fun once in a while. |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by mastermaestro(m): 1:35pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Gambling is a destroyer. When we preach this, many go on the offensive with claims that we do not want them to prosper. It is more likely that a gambler will steal, defraud and at the same time be a loafer compared to a non-gambler. Gambling is evil. However, this new breed of comedians, and that crooked Okocha have taken as a duty to promote it. Gambling is the destruction of the poor. Okocha and these comedians run adverts for betting companies on agreed financial settlements that flow from the lean pockets of wretched gamblers like the op's husband, whereas they themselves do not gamble. Keep gambling...and keep drowning o ye gamblers! |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by bomly(f): 1:39pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
My dear, this is a very bad place to bring this matter to; but since it's here please choose whose advice you will key into. Firstly, A whole lot of Nigerians are gambling, if you check the alexa ranking for the most visited websites in Nigeria, you will find out that among the top 15 website, 4 are betting website: bet9ja, sportybet, betway and 1xbet, this already give you an idea that it's becoming a general problem. I am not saying that you continue accepting this problem, all I am trying to point out is that what you're experiencing right now, millions of women are experiencing the same so if you divorce him you will end up with a man with almost an equal tendency of gambling except you want to create your own man. Maybe you can try to accept the situation as it is then map out ways to get the best from it; Now, your husband is in a bad state of mind, he may not be able to help himself because gambling is an addiction, what you can do is politely let him know you will not be able to give those financial support because that's the truth, next follow up with the action of not giving the financial support, lay off those financial support, this would do the talking, no need to quarrel at all as it will not work. Prayer can help oo, but open eye people say prayer nor fit work but consistent prayer can do anything that God can do. Infact it should be your first step. Pray about the situation, you will change towards the way you see the situation and from there you can handle things with wisdom. God help you. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by prophetfire: 1:40pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
all4zionlover:May God defeat Satan for youoo. I don't know what to advise you because you said you don't want divorce because of the kids. If not na to leave the yeye man. I believe in prayers too. You can try that if you have a good pastor to guide you. |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by ElijahIme1992(m): 1:40pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
millionboi:"it may never pay", are u God? Leave the woman alone all of advicing her to leave her marriage, is it not ppl dat are winning lottery all over the world? |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by Desusi: 1:41pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Elokristi:You're great! You will make a good husband. More so are you a committed Christian? Your counsel is prima,one of the best ever. |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by Popeonah(m): 1:42pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
InfernoNig:This is never a solution. Talk to him. He's your life partner. Don't be harsh. |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by shanicebabey: 1:42pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Madam when you die of depression or High Blood Pressure you will know that your Husband will receive sense and remarry another woman. |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by Kobojunkie: 1:56pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
mauchiz:1. So never mind she is already stressed as is, you recommend she further burden herself by shackled herself to your deliverance center all so she can continue to carry Mrs badge for head? 2. So for many years to come, you intend for her to pray for this man, neglecting her children and mind all so MFM can claim another deliverance center hostage? |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by taxiappguy: 1:57pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
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Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by Kobojunkie: 1:58pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
kingthreat:So his family can save him and his marriage? Therapy works so how long does she have to wait to get a husband back? 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by InvertedHammer: 2:00pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
all4zionlover: / List all the qualities he possesses that made you marry him so that others will learn. Love alone cannot keep marriage. You walked yourself into a mess. You can walk yourself out of it. The day you look in the mirror and start taking responsibilities for your life is the day you will start living. After wedding and dancing comes marriage / |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by Kobojunkie: 2:00pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
prophetfire:Go to any church or Mosque in Nigeria and you will find them filled with women praying for many years for God to change one husband or another. Is that all there is to a woman's existence? 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by imagrg(m): 2:02pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Woman, I really feel for you oh. Don't divorce him please; assist him to cure the addiction. Except maybe you are already eyeing a bigger gbola outside your home. |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by Kobojunkie: 2:02pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Zetty177x:Wow... so the woman's life amounted to not much else? 1 Like |
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