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Re: My Cousin "Disowned" Her Son. by jmichael259(m): 1:31pm On Feb 11, 2023 |
Zupay:Don't be misled! I was 15 once. He isn't apologizing, Just performing for the U.K entry. If you doubt me, take him abroad in ur own capacity & watch him disable or deport you. Make he enter boarding school>univesity>job>family. Ship don sail. CSTRR:Just imagine. Ogbeni, just shift one side. You too sound entitled and opportunist. Or Are you the boy? 6 Likes |
Re: My Cousin "Disowned" Her Son. by sisisioge: 1:32pm On Feb 11, 2023 |
Zupay: Good, he will learn a vital lesson which will benefit him later in life, especially thr consequences of biting the hands that fed you. As for his terrible father, they are indeed father and son! 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin "Disowned" Her Son. by anthonyuncle(m): 1:33pm On Feb 11, 2023 |
the boy is a replica of his father - GOLD DIGGER 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin "Disowned" Her Son. by Nobody: 1:34pm On Feb 11, 2023 |
Mindlog: Awon japa crew don show face |
Re: My Cousin "Disowned" Her Son. by Klass99(f): 1:38pm On Feb 11, 2023 |
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Re: My Cousin "Disowned" Her Son. by GistFullGround: 1:39pm On Feb 11, 2023 |
Zupay: The boy is a useless son. Your cousin should forget him; "the way he has chosen to lie his bed, he should as well lay on it" He desperately wants to travel out of the country. When he gets there, he will become a gang member, rude to his mom, and be embroiled in other social vices. Your cousin must not allow the devil to come near her. I am very sure his so-called father may be using him so, he can find a way to travel, when the boy turns 21 years of age! Na arrangement dem dey do... SHINE YOUR EYES 2 Likes |
Re: My Cousin "Disowned" Her Son. by KingMack(m): 1:44pm On Feb 11, 2023 |
spinna: 🤝🤝 |
Re: My Cousin "Disowned" Her Son. by Mindlog: 1:44pm On Feb 11, 2023 |
acewines: I don japa, tey tey!😜 |
Re: My Cousin "Disowned" Her Son. by IkeIgboNile(m): 1:44pm On Feb 11, 2023 |
Klass99 At the bolded, his father cares for him, he is not alone. His father cared enough to return for him 15 or 17 years later, he cared enough to take the boy into his home with his new family, he cared enough to buy him gifts and treat him nice, so much so that he began to disrespect/dishonour his mother and her family. I feel no sympathy whatsoever towards this boy, teenager or not, he needs to stay disowned. I am very sure his mother and grand-parents would have tried to explain the circumstances of his birth to him and tried to caution him or appeal to his good sense. He should bond with his father o, after all blood is thicker than water. While what he did was wrong,i think your hatred for men is clouding your judgement. I don't think you'll feel this strongly if it was a female child involved. Back to the story, we should beware of the single story narrative. Do you know what hard it is for a boy to grow up without a father? Not that his father is dead. Do you know what he went through meeting friends with both fathers and mothers around and he only had his mother. We all in one way or other have always through that the "grass is greener on the other side" and have made decisions that we regret based on that. Let's not forget his a teenager who meets his long lost father who they must have told him abandoned him and wants nothing to do with him. Op, get him to finish his secondary school first and try explaining to him the damage he had caused. Help him understand that he has a lot of atonement to do because of the damage he caused and explain to him that wanting to join his mother now is him running from his problems. Help him understand that he's almost an adult now and that he has to earn the trust of his grandparents first and work on his relationship with his mother before demanding to join her because if she accepts him without him going through this phrase he'll take it all for granted. 3 Likes |
Re: My Cousin "Disowned" Her Son. by OvertheTop(m): 1:48pm On Feb 11, 2023 |
Janesouthall: UK is the Juice.... |
Re: My Cousin "Disowned" Her Son. by Chomsky1967(f): 1:52pm On Feb 11, 2023 |
PapaHadum:True |
Re: My Cousin "Disowned" Her Son. by delishpot: 1:52pm On Feb 11, 2023 |
@Zupay She better not take him. He would use the govt against her over there. She should just put him in a good boarding house and let him enjoy his stay there 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin "Disowned" Her Son. by Saintmary(f): 1:54pm On Feb 11, 2023 |
100fix: She can marry, she has never been married before. 2 Likes |
Re: My Cousin "Disowned" Her Son. by OvertheTop(m): 1:59pm On Feb 11, 2023 |
Richy4: very key 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Cousin "Disowned" Her Son. by Klass99(f): 2:00pm On Feb 11, 2023 |
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Re: My Cousin "Disowned" Her Son. by MoneyMustBMade(m): 2:00pm On Feb 11, 2023 |
All the boy to suffer |
Re: My Cousin "Disowned" Her Son. by freshboy88(m): 2:01pm On Feb 11, 2023 |
Mokason288: Na wife you dey find abi you wan japa? 😁😁😁 |
Re: My Cousin "Disowned" Her Son. by harmony75: 2:04pm On Feb 11, 2023 |
Please and please let that woman be.. Tell the son to go face his studies one day when his mother is settled she will send for him but now he should get out! Infact I love this woman she knows what she is doing and God will help her. Imagine a child she suffered for being rude to her 😔 💔 this boy deserves all the maltreatment he's getting from his father and stepmother see how he missed his great opportunities with his mother both would have been in abroad now. 2 Likes |
Re: My Cousin "Disowned" Her Son. by ZooOga: 2:05pm On Feb 11, 2023 |
" My cousin (his mother) was seriously sick in October of last year, this boy never bothered to call on his mother despite knowing of her illness and he has a phone he uses freely." End of story! 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin "Disowned" Her Son. by LilMissFavvy(f): 2:09pm On Feb 11, 2023 |
The mother supported the child from birth till 16yrs, let the father take over all responsibilities and needs of the boy. His mother has done enough. Starships4u: 2 Likes |
Re: My Cousin "Disowned" Her Son. by Nobody: 2:17pm On Feb 11, 2023 |
Saintmary:She got pregnant in the cause, you think there were no commitments? The moment you and your partner sincerely exchange promises to marry. That’s as good as married in the sight of God. Not the ceremony. You can shrug it off but you only cheat yourself, not God. You’re tied to that man. You know this. |
Re: My Cousin "Disowned" Her Son. by Mokason288(m): 2:17pm On Feb 11, 2023 |
freshboy88: Wife wey don JAPA |
Re: My Cousin "Disowned" Her Son. by Royalpriest9301: 2:18pm On Feb 11, 2023 |
Re: My Cousin "Disowned" Her Son. by Mindlog: 2:20pm On Feb 11, 2023 |
100fix: But in this story na boyfriend/girlfriend tinz, they were never married. The boy's father went ahead to marry and have other children. The woman has never been married, so nothing is holding her back. 8 Likes |
Re: My Cousin "Disowned" Her Son. by Nobody: 2:20pm On Feb 11, 2023 |
Re: My Cousin "Disowned" Her Son. by Maysdevices(f): 2:20pm On Feb 11, 2023 |
id4sho:If she’s anything like me, I will sleep so soundly that night while I wait for you to do what I should’ve done to you when I pregnant so I can be finally free. 5 Likes |
Re: My Cousin "Disowned" Her Son. by Aurelius1(m): 2:21pm On Feb 11, 2023 |
undisputedKOC:I never knew people like you exist. I'm speechless. 2 Likes |
Re: My Cousin "Disowned" Her Son. by Nwachi22(f): 2:23pm On Feb 11, 2023 |
Your sister has a heart of Gold. I pray she finds a good man. As for the ungrateful son, he should finish his undergraduate studies in Nigeria before joining his mum. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Cousin "Disowned" Her Son. by Maysdevices(f): 2:23pm On Feb 11, 2023 |
Klass99:You two are like me also but I love my partner too much to not give him the children he really wants. I wish he could see that children are nothing but trouble and unnecessary stress. 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin "Disowned" Her Son. by sterlingD(m): 2:23pm On Feb 11, 2023 |
ipobarecriminals:This is exactly what l was going to post.The Papa come claim to am and him gree follow am turn him back against him mama and her people so wetin him dey find come back again.The boy should stay where he is suck it and grow up .See eh the boy needs to be under the tutelage of a father or better still have a father figure in his life who will mend and mold him seriously and thoroughly especially at hiis particular age him pushing to reconnect with his mother to join her in UK no be am at all.Make your cousin no loose guard agree make him come over at all.Make him dey with him papa make he receive sense and get sense. Whatever he needs his father will provide for him.He should remain where he is. 3 Likes |
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